DIVIJ - 'Confused' (Official Music Video)

DIVIJ - "Confused" (Official Music Video)

Written By: Divij Vaswani
Released By: Division Records
Mixing/Engineering:
Music video shot by: Til Death Network

Confused

HOOK

All I want is you babe
I’m thinking about you yeah
I’m thinking about you ayy
Uh uh swear I’m so confused yeah
I don’t know what to do babe
I don’t know what to do ayy

Verse

Loving you is complicated

Man I swear this shit so overrated

Made all of these memories then i walked away

What’s the point of a relationship if I can’t stay?

Told myself that I would change but I never changed

Had a hard time committing to you had so much pain

Babe The truth is I‘ve been I’ve been hurting inside

It’s just Hard to make decisions when you don’t know what’s right

Wish I could make up my mind
But I’m lost in my feelings so it’s hard decide

Babe it’s hard to decide

DIVIJ - "Confused" (Official Music Video)

Written By: Divij Vaswani
Released By: Division Records
Mixing/Engineering:
Music video shot by: Til Death Network

Confused

HOOK

All I want is you babe
I’m thinking about you yeah
I’m thinking about you ayy
Uh uh swear I’m so confused yeah
I don’t know what to do babe
I don’t know what to do ayy

#Confused #Divij #OfficialMusicVideo

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Establishing boundaries
It’s sometimes easy to avoid crossing paths with an ex-partner after a breakup. But if you live in a small town or know a lot of the same people, you might have a harder time completely separating your lives.

Setting clear boundaries for future contact can help make the breakup easier for you both.

Take some time apart

Even if you both know you want to maintain a friendship, a little space for some time won’t hurt. Taking a break from texting and hanging out can help you both start healing.
Respect each other’s needs

If you want to stay friends but your ex doesn’t want any contact, you need to respect that. Don’t call, text, or ask their friends to talk to them for you.

You might miss them dearly, but not respecting their boundaries will likely hurt any future chance of friendship.

Alternately, if your ex contacts you, especially before you’re ready to talk, don’t feel obligated to respond. This can be difficult, especially if they seem vulnerable or express feelings similar to your own. Remind yourself that you both need time and space to deal with those difficult emotions and wait until the no-contact period has passed.

Maintain some physical and emotional distance

If you want to try the friendship thing after some time apart, keep an eye out for old patters and behaviors. Maybe you lean your head on their shoulder while watching a movie or they come to you for help during a crisis.

Discuss how you’ll handle encounters

Sometimes, there’s just no avoiding an ex. Maybe you work together, attend the same college classes, or have all of the same friends. In these cases, it’s good to have a conversation about what you’ll do when you inevitable see each other.Taking care of yourself
Once you’ve got your boundaries in order, it’s time to turn your attention to your relationship with yourself.

Prioritize self-care

Parker recommends creating a daily self-care routine.

Each day, do something that:

brings you joy (see friends, have a new experience, spend time on your favorite hobby)
nurtures you (exercise, meditate, cook a satisfying but healthful meal)
helps you process your feelings (make art or music, journal, talk to a therapist or other support person)Do things you enjoy

After a breakup, you might find yourself with more free time than you’re used to. Try to use this time in positive ways.

Maybe during the relationship you spent less time reading and have a stack of unread books waiting by your bed. Or perhaps you’ve always wanted to try gardening or knitting. You could even begin learning a new language or make plans for a solo trip.