Meitalia Confronts James About Motherhood | 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way | TLC

James and Meitalia face challenges moving into her parent’s house, making James anxious about living under their rules. Meitalia learns from her friend that James is unsure about having kids, which hurts her. She confronts him about her desire to be a mother and her frustration that he discussed it with others instead of her. James says he isn’t ready for that commitment but reassures her he loves kids and wants to focus on settling in Indonesia first.

From 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6, Episode 10, Episode 11: "(Dis)Enchanted; Eat, Play, Lie"

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Meitalia Confronts James About Motherhood | 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way | TLC

[pauladiaz]

You are given a free place to live and you have no job. I think you will be okay remodeling and decorating the " prison cell"

[jimmydavis]

James and Meitalia Should've Never Married If They Couldn't Agree on The Fundamentals of a Marriage Kids, Family Etc.

[comebackjoshlia]

He was exhausted in putting a little effort in the room. 😂

[Debthouse]

Don't want to live with your in-laws? Get a job and find a more suitable place of residence. Complaining about living arrangements provided to you free of cost is the epitome of entitlement and beyond ungrateful.

[amyyyamy]

Dear god, they didn’t discuss children (!) before marriage?!

[sarahjane]

I like this family. This is a good family I think James just needs a little time to come around and get simulated more with the culture and get settled.

[SandraA]

They should’ve never got together. This should’ve been discussed before marriage! Not going to work when both sides are in constant disagreements

[missn]

He was wrong not to tell her. I’m so sad to say this but she can still leave.

[mozartbabe]

She gets on my nerves. Her lack of comon sense is grating. I think he should return to the US.

[fefefefe]

If you stop crying that will make your relationship stronger! This girl is full of it

[katiemartin]

I'm also from Maine and my sister dated this guy several years ago. It's nice to see he's still a good dude

[bhavnams]

Seems like everything should go according to how meitalia perceives life. she seems to be more concerned about how/what her Family thinks rather than thinking as a couple and be more realistic about the situation she is into. She is more worried she might hurt her family in Indonesia by not having a baby rather than be logical about her situation. James literally left his stable job from the US just to please Meitalia, now he has to compromise when he could have a better life in the US with Meitalia. Obviously he can't afford to care for a baby, grandparents might be here for support but how about finances? Didn't hear meitalia say she will look for a better job to support her husband 💁 all she does is cries. Having a baby adds more stress to an already unstable relationship, it equals to more responsibilities + financial burdens. Also meitalia feels more comfortable living with her extended family but not James

[abcdefg]

If she was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism, she could have received best in class treatment in the states. I am speaking from experience. And the sister is right, she has to get that under control before getting pregnant.

[Molly-flzi]

She is completly under Pressure from her Family and the Culture..

[marioneaton]

I think she should leave him. She wants children and he does not. Eventually they will break up. Over the children issue

[ramenndle]

They definitely should have discussed all of this prior to getting serious but I understand how he feels. It's sad to want a child but the one thing holding you back is how messed up the world is now 😢

[AirJKB]

I hope he figured out how to generate an income by working remotely. Half the workforce works remotely these days. IRL I doubt he had no plan!

[michaelaking]

All she does is cry. And they didn't have a good plan moving there

[acovingt]

He seems like he definitely knew he didn't want kids before they got married.

[natalieoliver]

They will never last, she wants kids and he doesn't, and that's ok. Not everyone wants children. Personally, my son is my greatest achievement and i wouldn't change that