The Bachelor Star Bekah Martinez Says Arie Luyendyk Jr. Isn't Ready for Marriage (Exclusive)

The 23-year-old reality star opened up to ET on Monday about the 36-year-old former race car driver.

[idontcare]

Omg. THIS 100%. Arie is probably not a terrible person, but he's spent the last 20 odd years dating girl after girl, hook up after hookup, and not committing to anyone. The closest he's probably gotten to forever is Cassie the girl he lost a baby with, but even that was only two years I believe and she did not have positive things to say about him afterwards. Arie is a man child and has not fully grasped what it means to spend eternity with someone yet. And he's done it in this way that is just making a huge mess of several people's lives. It's not ok, and everyone will see that once the finale airs!

[gravaly]

Is Bekah talking out of her "resented because I got dumped mouth"? There is no foundation in anything she says, except for giving poisonous criticism. The fact that Lauren is not as verbally bitter as she is doesn't make her a weak person, and that Arie corrected a mistake does not make him "not ready for marriage" Arie and Lauren seem happy and very much in love. Congrats to them!

[barbibutton]

Hes in love with falling in love. Know the type. He will be single for a long time to come, trust me.

[aleighaw]

Arie is so controlling and she’s so right there’s no way that Lauren is strong and independent she took him back like nothing after being dumped on live tv

[sunshinegirl]

I think he kissed too much on the date to the point not knowing the women well enough

[Dreamlillie_]

With how he handled Tia and Kendall, I agree with Bekah. He doesn’t know what he wants.

[viviamv]

Dang, Bekah dropped some wisdom right there! I would be happy with either of the Beccas for Bachelorette!

[fellowhuman]

Ouch, seems like someone is still BUTHURT over having been rejected!

[rosagarza]

Stop interviewing Bekah, it's obvious she's doing it just for the fame.

[carolynreynolds]

Lauren is such a great interviewer! And Bekah is just full of herself.

[Mysonismybestfriend]

She is such a breath of fresh air! Can't wait to see her on Paradise!

[Sarahhhh]

Shes a very smart cookie .. shes way beyond her years .. shes not naive at all

[susanlong]

She s so adorable.I'm surprised she isn't been picked up on TVor movies ? She s great in front of the Camera and has an IT GIRL presence

[elafal]

Bekah reminds me of myself in my late teens/early twenties— overly confident and quick to make assumptions (that know-it-all attitude without realizing it).. but this is not maturity for all those taking it as so. Those of us who are past that faze can see it for what it is

[waitedtoolong]

She got the jennifer lawrence vibe, it is so likable. She reminds me of those person that's so loud, funny and the teachers pet- high school classmate you've never talked to because she's too cool. Lmao.

[bcvc]

There are many different types of women. The four main types that are easy to identify are: feminine, mysterious, entrepreneur, and adventurous. If Arie prefers the femenine type there's nothing wrong with that.

[gigif]

Well said bekah. Dud has no idea who he is...hr is a nice guy who is nice for every one else's sake. And is too ashamed to say he wants to be the dominant figure in the relationship. He's gonna pick the blonde chick...no shade...cause she won't put up a fight...and her avoidant personality will just need constant reassurance by him. Proving to him that she needs him

[aliceevans]

I love Bekah M she is so real...and a bit of a savage ngl 😂

[cloudburstlia]

Finally a girl who tells it like it is. Beckah is my favorite contestant ever

[kashar.savagehubert]

I loved her!! She's so beautiful! If I wasn't with my boyfriend, I would totally date Bekah :p