UPDATE After 4 Yrs Of Rejection, Wife Is Mad I Could No Longer Return Her Affection Because... AITA

#aita #relationships #family

Story 1:
Update to aitah for denying my wife s-x?
Story 2:
Is it cruel to flirt with another man in front of my husband purposefully?

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[c]

4 years and she didn’t want you now she does. Her affair partner dumped her. That’s why she is back wanting intimacy with him, because the husband is back in the top male in her life. The kid likely isn’t his either.

[Rj-ijko]

Story 1: LOOOOL
How TF are you going to tell your husband you've been cheating on him...then in the same sentence ask him why he's divorcing you...this woman is psychotic.
Op is NTA and tbh he deserves better.
Poor guy

[acegl]

Dude needs DNA. This sounds like a very good chance she was with someone else if he was cut off during the pregnancy.

[troubleinthevalley]

Sounds like somebody was cheating and now she got dumped or something and she's finally remembering she has a husband.

[Ars-Nova]

That wife has some insane moon logic.
It’s like watching a thief try to steal your TV for them to get angry when you say they can have it.

[zardox]

Story 1 (before the update): The question of "What suddenly changed?" should be foremost on your mind. (after the update): Oh yeah. She's probably pregnant. That's what changed. Definitely DNA test the daughter.

[michaelbaker]

Let me get this straight. Op accepted his wife not desiring intimacy after giving birth but still pursued intimate touching but was hardly rejected each time. Then followed wife's demand to relieve himself by any other means and that's been the norm for roughly 4 years. Now that she wants intimacy, she's butt hurt because op has become desensitized to intimacy. She now learned actions have consequences and she has no one else to blame but herself as she created this marriage dynamic. Of course she was cheating on op as she now wants intimacy after 4 years of a dead bedroom. Op was right to refuse all of her advances

[rhfgssdtgt]

Funny how everyone is talking negatively about the man not being in the mood once, and start suggesting therapy, but say nothing about her saying no for four years. Gotta love the double standard. Looking at the age shes probably cheating.

[TheSkull]

She cut him off with the “be no’s” for FOUR years. Now, suddenly, she wants intimacy? Nah, bro. He’s not the AH for refusing to have sex with her, but he is the AH for not doing something about it at least two years ago.

[Obiwantuan]

Story 1: LOL where do these dudes come from? I can understand the first year but after getting babysitters two nights a week, sending her on vacation alone 2 weeks a year, and helping with the child only to be rejected for another 3 years. Of course she is sleeping with someone else. She only wants it now cause her AF dumped her.

[gigga]

this last story i think i heard the husband’s side, this lady spilled a drink on her wedding dress and then sent them a gift basket with old socks or something, and then when old girl wouldn’t apologize it was actually “Julia” who cut off the friendship, not the husband.

[cloudian]

Story 1 she absolutely was having a long term affair

[keeondamoore]

Open marriage only on her side 😅😂 unbelievable.

[troubleinthevalley]

Oh my God I called it, she was cheating this whole time

[tsinatsina]

Story 1: She got COVID and NOT your Kid???? hmmmm sure she is not sleeping with someone else? Why did you even stay with that?

[tartlynerdy]

Story 1 - NTA. Top ten nothing worse than feeling alone while in a relationship. I would understand this for a few months but not for four straight years. There was something going on and op's wife wasn't communicating with her husband why she didn't want to engage in sex or even physical affection with her husband. Wife basically shut him out and is shocked her husband is refusing her. I'm not even shocked that she cheated. Smh. She has a lot of audacity asking for an open marriage on HER end aka op had to be okay with other dudes using his wife for her body. I hope op dna tests that kid.

[lynettemacdonald]

She's getting it from somewhere else.

[kristawilson]

Last story- the husband "Tom" made a post not too long ago about his friend and his wife. It was the AITA post about his friend dumping wine on the wife's dress at their wedding.

[northeastoperations]

If someone calls you a coward for not wanting to marry it's because they are cool with gambling. As long as it's your money. They have nothing to lose if you get married. They are well aware of the risks and are willing for you to take them.

[Ashbrash]

Last story: Why the heck is the husband STILL DEFENDING JULIA? Like if they aren't talking and he finally realized she was trash, than what's the point to argue? Like nobody is that dumb, and I would be curious if him and Julia are still communicating.