Why Traveling Won't Solve Your Unhappiness - Kurt Caz

[darkvader]

I dunno, I think it can definitely give you some hope that there is some meaning and joy out there worth pursuing

[SuperMuneera]

Happiness is moments, that’s why the rich can constantly buy happiness.

It won’t last forever that’s what makes it great, as you learn to appreciate it more.

[mattjagger]

I'm 43. I've got some accolades to my name. And a life of experiences to regale anyone with. I have done most things. When I have been asked how I crammed so much in the answer is. I cannot live with myself if I do not DO what I say I will. It's a visceral pain. And about 90% of everything I have done. I said I would do it - later regretting it - but saw it through 😂 experiences - are overrated in my opinion. Travelling is overrated. Escapism is a fundamental need, for sure. But life isn't supposed to be easy. Who told you it was? Anything you do for 8-10hrs a day - you'll hate. Anyone you sleep with - you'll get bored of. Any passion you have - will likely wein. Any friends you have - will likely go their own way. That's all part of living. But that's lifes gift.

[blke]

Thats some wise words that i experience myself

[onemoretime]

I disagree. I was miserable at 32, I had a bunch of money saved, I just got switched to remote and I went to Vietnam. It changed everything, I have become so much happier being away from Canada.

[Tom-dvep]

Why do these two always look so depressed when they're together?

[Berti]

Disagree especially with skiing, once I get to those mountains everything just disappears, granted the problems are still at home but it gives you a boost and a good feeling that it’s not all that bad

[kennethsellar]

So if we don’t like our lives and whatever and think we can travel to fix something within but then we return to that reality how does one heal within and yes we can maybe find temporary ease by traveling or a holiday and have a moment in time of destressing I guess all good but returning to the realities is the problem so how do we become healthier and happier and nsync with travel.

[antonyvaughan]

Its like listening to two professors at university, world changing knowledge...

[Cantabri]

Its like he's actually discovered it at the moments he's finding the words for what he's trying to say the same as the other guy is saying just with a more difficult explained way hahahaha

[nakairoberts]

Traveling could be exactly what you need to realize you need to make a life changing decision, or it could make you realize you should be happy with what you do have… if you do this kind of travel, you should expect it to suck. The one reason someone would do this is to make money not just do it 😅

[PhuQuocTranIV]

respectfully disagree.... and frankly, many people dont need to change themselves from "within" as they are simply mismatched with the cultural environment they happen to be born into. the only solution is to change their surroundings by moving abroad to more suitable culture..