Do you feel like your partner doesn't get you?

Did you know this 1 heartbreaking thing that can tear apart a relationship?

In this video, Thais gives an example of a common point of tension between an anxious preoccupied (AP) and a dismissive avoidant (DA) partner. Watch it to avoid replicating it in your relationships!

Have you experienced this dynamic? Comment below!

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[UncleMole]

I wonder if she had ever offered to tell him about her daily life? He may have been expecting her to share without him initiating.

I have seen a sibling and their partner do this naturally, but am unsure of how that became a healthy habit. It's inspiring.

[thelordcomanderwhocriedwolf]

Thank you for decribing this. I have been in this relationdynamic and I left after flipflopping. My former attachment style was anxious preoccupied. Since I left I feel I understand him a bit better. I still mourn over this and I have trouble releasing guilt and shame. However, I'm glad I ended the relationship. We were keeping eachother prisoner for too long. I hope wherever he is, he is doing okay and is happier.

[beyond_horizon_]

My ex had no problem validating chicks online but he never felt a need to say a good word about me saying there is no need to state the obvious. So good on me I left

[hadleybranham]

Never tell a DA that you have feelings, needs, and are a human being. They can't handle it