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[decadentnight]

I've never been able to comprehend the people who "fall in love" after a few dates. Call 9 months "long term" and then proceed to break up within 2 years and do it all again.

[cortney]

Worst part, she was genuinely shocked being told 6 months was way too soon…. Honey… 😔wish her the best and that she wises up sooner rather then later

[lynnebucher]

I let my last BF move in too soon, engaged a few months later, then the mask dropped and he started up abusive acts. He did a great job in the beginning convincing me he was the perfect guy for me, but it was all an act.😢 I'll never fall for that one again.

[midnazora]

I am seeing many people here who seem to have found their lucky partner which is awesome. I think the difference here is that these lucky folks may be better judges of character than the unfortunate caller. Experience and common sense does a world of work when choosing a partner.

[BiancaChamberlin-lo]

We only dated for 6 months got engaged moved in married 11 months later. We celebrated 20 years married this year. It can work. ❤

[kdhd]

My mom ran away from my dad with my five siblings and I and 6 months later we were living with the man that would be come my stepdad. He was a heroin addict who stole our toys to sell them, we were homeless multiple times through my youth and she always took him back. Now that I have kids I realize how insane it was and when I tried to talk to her about it she screamed that I was abusive for asking these questions. We are estranged.

[bravelizard]

Happened to me….fast courtship, moved in, and married. First baby a year later. Today, we are going on 24 years of marriage.

[snixw]

When I was 15yo, my mom moved a guy in a week after she introduced me to him. I think she knew him for about 5 weeks. He ended selling drugs and had hepatitis c. Some people will do gymnastics to ignore red flags.

[Delisosrotties]

My husband and I moved in within 6 months, bought a house together at 9 months and got married the following year in 2005. Today our youngest of 4 is turning 15 and my husband and I are planning our retirement. Sometimes you know what you want. Note: we were both divorced and I believe that made us both know what we WOULD NOT put up with in a partner. That helped.

[shelbobaggins]

I was engaged to my husband after 2 month of dating and then married 4 months later. We have been married for 8 years now and we have three beautiful boys (5, 3 and 1). Marrying my husband was the best decision I’ve ever made. We are best friends. But we’ve always had Christ at the center of our marriage and that makes all the difference ❤️

[ebriggs]

I like something that Dr. Laura, who used to be on the radio every day, said. Let’s say you date a guy for six months, and like most of us you work during the week. So your dates are more than likely on the weekend. That means you have hung out together roughly 12 times! Even if you see them on a weeknight for a few hours, that is still not very much time to get to know someone! No, you do not need to be moving in with someone after six months.

[sewamazing]

My parents moved in with each other after 3 months, 20 years and 10 kids later they can't stand each other

[krystleschmidt]

After being alone for 3 years and not just jumping into a relationship like I've always done I learned a lot about how I did things so very wrong in my relationships. This new relationship that I'm in I've been very blunt that we're not moving in together unless we're married and that won't happen until at least 3 years together.

[michaelcard]

Moved in with her less than 6 weeks after meeting, married less than two years later, our 22 wedding anniversary is this Jan.

[clairecrawford]

I moved in with my now boyfriend before we even started dating because I was homeless and he saw how he could help me. A year later we are still together taking on the journey of life together. God Blessed us thanks be to God

[mollygrace]

I moved in with my husband one day after meeting him at the bus stop outside of where he was released from prison. I let him follow me home, I added him to all my bank accounts and credits cards, gave him the key to my car and immediately got pregnant. We got married and had 19 children. We’ve been so happy together for 106 years! 💞

[Kallisto]

My Best friend moved in with her boyfriend after 7 months. They’ve now been together for a year and 4 months. He is not divorced yet and custody of his 3 children (all under 10) is not even finalized. They are now having issues. You can tell a person it’s not a good idea but they have to learn themselves.

[flashthecorgi]

Y’all the stories are great, and I’m happy it’s worked out for some of you people BUT read the title “I don’t know if I can trust my BF” that’s the problem. She’s calling because she’s having relationship issues with him not because it’s working out great! 😅

[glitchyb]

I moved in with my ex after a short period as well and stayed in a horrible situation for around 5 years. I’m out of that now and finally finding myself. It’s never a good idea to move in so quickly. I’m much more cautious now.

[annbjork]

I was 19, he 26, we moved in together after 3 weeks, 🙈 bought a house after 9 months, a Volvo after 10 months and had our first child after 12 months. So a house, a Volvo and a baby within the first year. That's 39 years, 5 children and 5 grandchildren ago. ❤