SOFT LIFE IS A SCAM! HOW SOFT LIFE GURUS ARE LYING TO YOU | TRAD WIFE

There are so many women on the internet teaching women how to live a soft life and how to marry a provider man so they don't have to work anymore which is so misleading.
It's straight up witchcraft at this point. Well I am here to tell you that all these women are working. The trad wife movement and soft life movement is mostly a scam.

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[MoonMidnight]

I also noticed more women claiming they’re stay at home moms but when you dig, they’re actually work from home moms.
Some of them are lying online and setting other women up to struggle.

[MrsMetaphysicist]

I think life feels "soft" when you are enjoying what you are doing and it never feels like work (too much).

[khrisi]

The best soft life I created for myself doesn't include a man. Yes I live a soft life but I chose to do it without a man or children. If a woman has a man she will always work albeit in the home or outside the home. Great video! And the truth.

[LisaS]

My hubby is in the top 1.5% of earners and he is able to pay all the bills. I still work part time to have funds for my extras like hair, makeup, nails and clothes. Plus, I’m investing in my own retirement which will benefit our entire family. We live in a very expensive city and pay thousands a month in private school tuition for the kiddo. It’s not as easy as it seems to live very well on one income if you like the good stuff. I still feel incredibly blessed and grateful.

[leese-anngordon]

Yup...i cant believe people really are falling for the stay at home life...they are influencers, which is a job which generates income...

[heiresstoathrone]

Been listening to you since I was 19, I'm 23 now, and you've ALWAYS kept it real.

[arshadinaumaranajib]

My late Grandmother was a femeine she had to manage the farm and make food from scratch (eg making butter from fresh milk). Im talking about British-India times when there were no shops nearby. If guests came over, my Nani (grandmother) would have to process a chicken from the farm that my grandfather owned. We even got rice from our own field.

It was really hard back then! These influencers are being delutional. My mom was a traditional wife too. But after my father passed away she too took up a full time job because cooking, cleaning and arranging your home all day does not pay the bills.

[Mushrooms]

You're a real one Maria and that's why you're one of the few level up channels I've been following for years.

[alisond]

I completely agree, women that believe in this are literally being scammed, because selling dreams is a trick. I too have been gullible and thought i can just go out and attract men that automatically want to take care of me without establishing trust. I woke up from this delusion about 2 years ago.

[angable]

I love you so much for this! Thank you for being extremely honest!❤

[MoonMidnight]

Yep. Learned my lesson years ago and went back to school and working so I can be independent.

If I ever marry again, im preparing and want everything in writing.

[Lidiroyal]

Shera has mentioned time and time again she once was a mortician. She had a real job.

[littlemisscents]

Wow, you really shifted my mindset, I can’t believe I fell into the trap just like the rest.

[FlowerChild-wxcd]

The problem is everything is a trend nowadays & women don’t sit back & reflect on what will actually bring them happiness individually. Do you even want to be a stay at home wife? Do you even like to be in your house or do you just want financial provision? Of course we all want a sponsor but there are responsibilities tied to certain roles & dynamics. Log off the apps & step into the real world so you don’t become the butt of the joke in these affluent circles.

[melanessmuse]

I felt like this was pretty obvious from the beginning. You don’t see actual housewives on social media 24/7. They either have a very private social media with select few friends, they don’t have social media and are gatekeeping like it’s no one’s business, as they should. Being an influencer is a job yes but not one that’s taken seriously in wealthy communities. Wealthy people want to know how you made your money. Depending on how you made it is how you will be treated and categorized.

[MuseSunflower]

Thank you for your no fluff, realistic wisdom

I think a good middle ground is women pursuing careers that are flexible and low stress. That way you can make a living but you still have energy and time for yourself and can prioritize your love life and family. You should create a life you are proud of, then have a man add to that.

You can still honor your femininity even if you are a working woman. I don’t know why people demonize jobs so much. Women have always found ways to use their creativity to make money.

[Tiffanynyc]

I will never depend on a man sorry!! Not sorry it works for some women but majority no!

[almamater]

They're getting that coin, which is not a crime. But selling that lifestyle to younger women is harming those who easily get swayed, which is doing harm

[CharlotteMasonTT]

My grandmother was always home - she used to sew and had a parlor and bake and sell buns . She had her own garden and chickens. 🥰

[Userforeverneverever]

Maria your channel is so underrated please keep posting girl