Life Chat 🧡 What's going on in my world? 💙 ASMR Whisper

Happy Monday! 😊 Let's just hang out and chat about life a bit today?!
00:00 hellos and look around my office
02:10 Muse candle
05:10 This channel's community
06:40 Life after child
09:20 Invisalign
10:27 Construction
11:30 after Covid blessings
15:30 Zumba
20:55 Apple candle
23:56 River ASMR
28:20 Mom visit and Russian speech
30:38 how am I?
36:50 Gratitude daily. simplicity and feelings
39:10 Future trips
Thank you so much for being here! 💜

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[GentleWhisperingASMR]

Happy Monday! 😊 Let's just hang out and chat about life a bit today?!
00:00 hellos and look around my office
02:10 Muse candle
05:10 This channel's community
06:40 Life after child
09:20 Invisalign
10:27 Construction
11:30 after Covid blessings
15:30 Zumba
20:55 Apple candle
23:56 River ASMR
28:20 Mom visit and Russian speech
30:38 how am I?
36:50 Gratitude daily. simplicity and feelings
39:10 Future trips
Thank you so much for being here! 💜

[smithiebird]

I don't know why, but it made me feel warm inside when you shared that most of your audience is women your age (including me! hi!). I also have a toddler, and I do relate a lot with what you share about parenthood and life. As I grow as an adult, more and more I'm grateful for the community of women in my life. Women power everything in this world, and we are so much more powerful when we come together.

[RachASMR]

*Maria*
I especially *LOVE* these relaxed whisper rambles.
PLEASE Never feel like you have to make extravagant videos every time. Make content you love, and that you want to make! I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we love anything you do! I know I do!!

[smagurugals]

You’re giving your daughter a wonderful gift to be helping her grow up bilingual, it’s worth it!

[districtofcrystal]

Mila figuring out who to speak Russian and English to and how to speak the languages are helping her brain function on a more complex level than someone who is only exposed to one language. I believe this will help her in more ways than one throughout her life. Many times, it may seem like kids are struggling (and sometimes they may need help), but I believe most of the time what appears to be a struggle may just be problem solving and foundation-building for them. It's really great that her dad is so supportive of that! Please do not be self-conscious about speaking Russian in public... the fact that you can speak something other than English surpasses the limitations of some people and creates insecurities in them, so try not to worry about them. You are doing great and just focus on doing all you can do to raise a beautiful daughter and family!

[From my personal experience... My (American) English-speaking dad wanted my Korean mom to speak Korean to me so I could grow up bilingual. She didn't believe that was possible without it hindering my English. I was fine. After my parents separated when I was 7, she stopped speaking Korean to me and I lost it. For a few more years, I could understand it (in spoken conversation) but I couldn't speak it fluently or read it at all. Currently, I only know food names, commands, some basic phrases and what my mom says when she yells at me lol.]

[spongiformencephalitis]

fun fact for americans: when candles say "bougie", it's just because they're sold in canada too, so the labels legally need to have both official languages (english and french), and "candle" in french is "bougie", and "parfumee" is "scented". so, it just says "scented candle" XD

[noemiromero]

I wish we could talk more about how much we sometimes lose ourselves as first time mothers. Especially when we’re in our 30’s. It’s very rewarding but also very traumatic. We go so many years with our bodies being ours, caring only for ourselves and our spouses being able to do anything we want in our peace. Then you have a baby and everything becomes about them. You’re so tired, you have to relearn your body, and your hormones are out of control. But the love you feel is so rewarding. Watching them grow up and thrive is so rewarding and those little humans become your life. I love my son to the moon and back but sometimes I miss my old self.

[LycaenionV]

The way you described life after having a child is just so… 100%. Spot on to how I’ve felt in my life- being someone who was always “on top of everything” before kids, I felt like NOTHING was in my control after that! It’s magical and weird and beautiful and tough. It’s a relief to hear I’m not the only one! Sending lots of love to you and yours!

ETA: and YES. The obsessive thoughts. Such a struggle for me too right now, worse than ever. You aren’t alone!

[nichollemiller]

I love the update about Olga’s channel and why she got in to it. Hopefully her business picks up with restrictions lifting and she can do both. I absolutely love her videos. She’s beyond talented and I love watching her confidence and own style develop.

[ASMRsense]

Машуленька! Так неожиданно 😊 Спасибо, спасибо тебе за добрые слова обо мне! И вообще за всё спасибо🤗❤ Я так горжусь, что ты гордишься мной 😁🥰

[Merrlia]

This woman could make ASMR out of anything. This is amazing.

[BB-xyee]

Maria- someone can have all the bells and whistles, the greatest background with all the props, expensive makeup and hair just done at the salon- the best camera and microphone and lighting set up money can buy, know which angles are most “attractive” but none of it means anything at all if they don’t have heart. I’ll pick you face to face, just woke up hair in a bun, glasses on with a cup of tea and a plain background (or just a room in your house) recording on your iPhone with one light on over pretty much everything else. You raised us. You’re our family. You’ve been there for us through and through and shared all the highs and lows of your life with us. You are our best friend, that feeling of wanting to go “home”. You’re who we feel comfortable with to be vulnerable. You are amazing. You are perfect. You don’t need to be like the others because that would mean you wouldn’t be YOU and we love YOU. The genuine, honest, REAL, loving, vulnerable, Maria. ❤️

[thatsalt]

I don't know if you read this so far afterwards, but never in human history have we been flooded with negative news the way we are now. We get all the misery that happened around the world the passed few minutes presented to us all day. It's a lot of misery and many minutes. It's not really natural for us. You're not selfish for not listening to all of it. It's too much for most of us.

[spongiformencephalitis]

while what you make on your channel is 100% your choice, as a longtime viewer, i really missed these chit chat videos when you weren't making them. they're my favourite, and i'm so glad you're making them again. thanks <3

[sophiahelix]

One thing I've learned as a parent (8yo son, baby due any day) is you can't borrow against future tragedy... I've found myself trying to think through exactly how I'd feel and react if some unlikely scenario happened, and I realize I'm trying to dull it like it I won't feel so bad if it really did happen. But you can't "pre-feel" pain like that, and in the meantime I've stressed myself out imagining it! So I shut those thought trains down now because it doesn't help anything.

I've also been doing some short term counseling over Zoom because I'm having a lot of stress with pregnancy complication, and I had a good experience with therapy in my 20s, and would definitely urge anyone whose life and happiness is being disturbed by these kinds of thoughts to try to find a good therapist you connect with. Not everyone is the right fit but when you find someone who really understands you and how your brain works it can be amazing and help so much.

[paola_]

Children are not part of my plan in life. I don't consider myself being capable of exactly what you described it takes to bring another human being into this world and take care of them. That is why I REALLY admire you Maria, and the rest of the people who embark in such complex yet fulfilling journey such as parenting. And being the absolute Queen of ASMR, established as a talented creator for so long, shouting out to new asmrtists like Starling (which I have been following for a while now) and to keep learning new things from them and even willing to put in practice their techniques says it all about what kind of humble angel you are.
Gracias por existir, Maria ❤️✨ Abrazos desde Argentina 🇦🇷

[darthbrento]

I love these types of videos. I also feel a huge lack of in person friendship at this point in my life. It’s difficult and lonely but, with this type of video, I honestly feel like we are best friends and just sat down for a chat haha. I hope after recording you get the same feeling. Sending you nothing but good vibes for the rest of the year and 2022!

[helenabillie]

Oh Maria I love this. You are like a bigger sister to me. I could never describe in words what you truly mean to me, especially because English is not my native lenguage. But please never stop with these ramble videos, they’re my favorite. Thank you❤️

[Hairycowlegs]

Having Maria talk about how adorable her daughter is, was probably the cutiest thing ever! I have a new 2 year old and I have loved the changes from 1 to 2 so I can't wait to see how much more he grows from 2 to 3. Plus I had a baby on 11/11/21 <3 we are so blessed to have her since we went through a lot to get her. Love the positive posting! <3

[ev]

i love that despite everything, Mila can have a great relationship with her grandmother, and can practice Russian with her. It's amazing that Mila is catching on so well to the concept of language and the differences!