Why Do We Deceive Ourselves?

We all learned self-deception and denial in our childhood, in those moments when our parents were perfectly imperfect and hurt us, but we couldn't admit it was their fault. So we learned to assume that there is something flawed in me if I can't make them happy.

To watch more of this video, search "The Worst Day Cycle - Denial Part 5" on my YouTube channel.

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[Pq-fw]

Great information! We have been living in a brainwashed society that has taught us do as I say not as I do! Without feelings!😢🎉

[jacquelinevd]

Genius Kenny, I was a gut feeler all my life, questioned society. Was not aware of setting boundaries due to traumabond. Was annoyed of my parents + my sister as their focus is on image (false self), what the outside world would think about them. I didn't care about their opinion, shallow mindset. Felt like a strange ducklin having problem with time. Binge eating disorder craving candy, got high on sugar to cope with drama & rage of my mom with my sister + stephdad 24/7. Taking out her anxiety + frustrations on me since I was age 4. Sick part is that I can't live with or without mom: I easily get irritated by her bs. I thought which idiot decided that we should wake u so early in the morning? Why not start the day 45 minutes later? At age 53.5 diagnosed ADD/ADHD understood why I had this beibg on time problem I couldn’t fix my entire life as I do too much in little time😅 Perfectly imperfect dealing with 3 narcs in a disfunctional family is hard.

[YoungPadawan]

an instrument of denial, someone who refuses to accept an otherwise obvious truth, that sounds like an emotional response from a place of insecurity, which is why the idea of being better feelers is quite profound actually, emotional intelligence quotient vs rational/logical intelligence quotient, a person can be very booksmart and be very emotionally one dimensional at the same time

[allhimwithme]

So those who suffered emotional neglect and can't identify or deal with emotion are basically illogical people who can't see the truth of the matter if it bit them. That explains a lot.