If A Woman Doesn't Want You, She'll Do These 5 Things

Let’s be honest—if a woman doesn’t want you, she’s not going to tell you directly... she’ll just start acting funny. And if you don’t know what to look for, you’ll keep trying, thinking you’re just one good text away from winning her over. You’re not. That moment has already passed.
In today’s video, we’re breaking down five things a woman will do when she doesn’t want you. And yeah—it might be uncomfortable to hear, but this is the stuff men need to know. Because too many guys keep themselves stuck, chasing women who already made their decision—they’re just too polite, too passive, or too strategic to say it out loud.
Welcome back to Man of Substance. This is where we talk straight, cut the fluff, and help men see the truth for what it is.
Now here’s what a lot of men don’t realize: women rarely reject you with words. Most of the time, they reject you with behavior. With silence. With mixed signals that aren’t really mixed—you just didn’t want to believe the clear ones.
You’ve probably experienced it already. The sudden distance. The dry replies. The feeling that you’re bothering her by simply existing. But instead of backing off, you held on tighter. You thought if you just waited a little longer, she’d come around.
She won’t. And this video is going to show you why.
Once you know these five behaviors, you’ll be able to spot when a woman’s not feeling you—and more importantly, you’ll know when to stop giving your time and energy to someone who doesn’t appreciate it.
This isn’t about bitterness. It’s about awareness. It’s about self-respect.
So if you’ve ever felt unsure where you stand with a woman, or felt like something just didn’t add up—keep watching. Because what you’re about to learn will save you a lot of time, confusion, and emotional stress.
Let’s get into it.

00:00 Intro
02:03 She Stops Making Time For You
04:24 Her Texts Feel Cold And Robotic
06:50 She Entertains Other Men Openly
09:20 She Avoids Physical Closeness
11:42 You Always Initiate Everything
14:04 She Acts Single In Public
16:34 She Gets Annoyed Over Nothing
19:13 She Shows No Effort To Resolve Issues
21:45 Conclusion

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[HandOfDoom]

“Chasing someone who is emotionally unavailable only pushes them further away.”

Those words hit me hard and opened my eyes wide open. Thank you. 🙏🏻

[infinitybassuk]

1. She doesn't make time for you
2. Her messages feel cold & robotic 🤖
3. She entertains other men
4. She avoids physical touch/closeness
5. You always initiate everything
6. She acts single in public
7. She gets annoyed over nothing
8. She makes no effort to resolve issues

[pooldr.]

Every single point in this clip is 100% accurate. What I've done is deleted past text messages, and deleted her contact. Delete everything about her, contact, posts, messages, delete it all!

[nickf]

None of them want you, they only want how you make them feel. And when that feeling fades its already over. Save your self the trouble, don't bother.

[eliasharding]

I personally i don't care .
This comes with experience.
Never chase
I am king

[Brloder]

But they say she avoids you when she likes you too. So which one is it??

[lcprimers]

Yes I have experienced this. It's hard not to give to my emotions because I still love her. I know I need to be strong and move on. Hard thing is I think about her all the time and wonder if she thinks about me.

[RussellFig]

If a girl meets you and you ask for her number why does she give it to a guy she is not interested in? I would never give out my contacts to a person I have no interest in.

[johncarvalho]

I agree under those circumstances the best is to walk away.

[lucd]

Damn, this is a hard pill to swallow but its true. People will never tell you directly, its always bs excuses like I am too busy or not feeling well. Then when you stop reaching out, you never hear from them again. Never pay attention to words but to actions and your gut. Just stop knocking in closed doors. If they really wanted they would make time for you.

[jk-krjt]

I hate the AI stupidity but this is spot on. Also if the woman is over 23 there can not be a connection. If you a over 23 just get yourself a stable of FWB and live happily ever after, because you will never connect. It's a shame that you'll never have a marriage or family. But you can still have a damn fine life. Beats a divorce and children that you'll rarely see.

[ModernStoicLifeLE]

02:28 "People make time for what matters to them" – straight to the point! 💡 05:32 "When she's emotionally done, the coldness in her texts says more than words" – ah, the truth hurts! 🥶 08:28 "She'll flaunt it without saying it" – definitely an eye-opener! 👀💔 13:32 "Relationships require reciprocity" – hear that, guys?! 🔄 21:53 "If she's doing most of these things, it's time to move on" – couldn’t agree more! 🚶‍♂🔥 This video lays it out perfectly, no sugar-coating. Guys, stop chasing and start valuing yourselves! Thanks for the no-nonsense advice! 👏💯

[erenomurzakofficial]

It is crucial to monitor her motion and emotion simultaniously; if she does not behave the way to respect you and communication to you, it is time to leave. Thanks for the video!

[noelgibson]

If they want you to approach, they give you signals.
If they want you to go away, they give you signals.
In both scenarios, she won't tell you. You have to read her.

[AKBLACKice]

The problem is, people change all the time. One day she can seem like she’s 100% into you, the next week she becomes really cold. This even applies to people that have been married for a long time.

[KeithPowell-ly]

Trouble no more can't have no man

[LanreOshin]

Brother you are saying the truth.
Thank you I have learned the truth.

[Erosadios]

Through text:

1). You're the one always texting and her responses are vague, rare and one word response.

2) When she reaches out, she only needs favors like a ride or for small money loan, she texts seems like she wants to commit, but she only texts what concerns about her life or wants life advice, but then leaves you on read and response/replies hours or days later where you or her left off.
This is actually very rude, but she's indirectly testing your frame in how much you let her get away with her BS.

3) She ghost you through text and doesn't answer your calls, nor let's you know through text that she'll contact you later on.

[donaldperrotta]

Cold hard facts contained herein !!! Pay attention gentleman

[dr.strangelove]

Married for over 20 years and I’m the only one that tries to go on dates and spend alone time with her. Every damn time I try it’s always “No.” Iv gave up and now only here for my kids. Once they are off on their own I’m gone.