Traits That Attract Women (According To Science)

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[mynameis......]

1) 1:50 a man who leads,
2) 3:04 a man who protect,
3) 5:19 a man who has purpose
4) 6:20 a man who has intelligence

[ericmoore]

Men are human beings not just success objects that you can dress up and throw away at your leisure.

[bobbyz]

I have never had a woman react positively to vulnerability. Most react poorly if I even mention that I'm having an issue and I never even get the chance to be vulnerable.

[bobbybluebuckets]

Hey Courtney I have a Question, when dating as a man It kinda feels like there’s pressure to
1) Make the first move
2) Keep the conversation going
3) Pay for and come up with ideas for the first and futures dates
4) Make sure she feels protected
5) Make sure you as the guy exude confidence even when you have no idea what you’re doing
6) Make sure she’s treated right every day and especially on Valentine’s Day
7) Make sure you do something special for your anniversary
8) Gifts
9) Not to mention pay for the engagement ring, wedding, house xyz

I feel like mens role are pretty laid out and are kinda known by both, but
What roles do women have in relationships these days?

[dillonc]

I think passion is a big factor as well. Whether a guy is into everyday stuff like cooking or landscaping or more personal things like art or music, women like to see a guy who's passionate about something. It's much easier to start convos when you're constantly keeping your brain active, to an extent of course.

[iincher]

15:04 : Being vulnerable is attractive to women, but not when it's something that can negatively impacts them. Examples:
Good way of being vulnerable: Being honest that you don't like a co-worker (impacts only you).
Bad way of being vulnerable: Telling her you're worried about finances (impacts both of you).

I've NEVER had an issue being vulnerable EXCEPT for when I talk about finances. It's ALWAYS an attraction killer because it impacts their ability to feel safe and protected.

[Bioshockaholic]

It all boils down to: be authentic. You’ll never be everyone’s type, so you might as well be who you most intuitively strive to be, and then max that out indefinitely. That covers all the virtues (honesty, truth, etc.) and leads to the tangibles (pursuing your purpose, staying healthy, etc.)

[ddavis]

Courtney’s commitment to providing real data instead of gratuitous shit (click bait) is what makes her one of the best on here. I still wish she would do a more mature version of what women are attracted to rather than just her age group. 30s & 40s women are a different demographic entirely than the 20s (age group) going out to clubs and bars every weekend.

[michaeloesterle]

#1. Direct and decisive. Works great, until it doesn’t. My ex wife claimed to love everything about me, until slowly but surely she became very contrary to anything and everything I decided, to a point where I’m convinced she said she didn’t agree even if deep down she really did. Things to pay attention to, saving serious problems down the road.

[ericmoore]

A man has to be all of these things.
Her: works 16 hours a week at Target and is 60, 000 in student loan debt.

[kerryfoster]

One thing I didn't expect when I learnt to dance was that I was attracted to women when I danced with them. Not necessarily before. Their physicality and 'chemistry' became much more apparent in the closeness of dance. It's not all looks! How someone moves can be very sensual.

[erikmenendez]

I was dating a girl recently and one night we hung out with two of her cousins. I remember her and her cousin both telling me they felt safe being around me. She said she really liked that about me but didn’t like the fact that I called her out on something which made her deflect and accused me of being clingy lol 😒

[sgs]

One thing I would think regarding the dating within your league is that if you are not happy with your current situation, upgrade yourself.

It’s unrealistic as a guy to let yourself go but expect gorgeous women to flock. If you want hot girls, you will need to lift, dress better, carry yourself more attactively and become a hot guy yourself.

Many women/men get caught up in how to find their dream partner, but we need to consider if we would be our dream partner’s dream partner.

[patrickm]

Nice to see a vid that seems to be backed by science. The one that confuses me, though, is the one about sharing your emotions. I believe Corey Wayne touched on the subject by saying to never make your woman your mother or therapist. Part of the reason behind this is that if a man seeks emotional comfort from his woman, it shows that he doesn’t have to the confidence to find a solution or at least be able to overcome his problems. So, it seems like it would be difficult to share your emotions with your woman without coming off as a man who doesn’t know how to manage the emotional difficulties in his life.

[RedSinter]

One of the Simplest known reactions to know if a woman is interested is when you make eye contact she looks away then looks back in I think it was about a minute. So, don't stop looking at her. Then if you get the look... its your move what you do with it is up to you.

[SanDiegoBiz]

Props to Courtney for standing up for men.

[WolfamongSheep]

Men do not
I repeat
DO NOT!!!
Be vulnerable
One thing I’ve learned is women do know what they want but they are emotional and what they want changes with their emotions, which are completely different every single day.

[jimmy]

Courtney, I think what you are doing is really positive, but the sad reality is that too many women have unbelievable expectations. Women need to start taking a serious look in the mirror and work on their inside first before the outside(physical). It’s important to keep in good physical shape, but you know that 95% of women depend on their looks to catch a man…. It does not work for anything long-term or healthy.
And still, too many women neglect their mental and spiritual aspects of their personalities.

[josephkrizauskas]

I think city, suburban, rural plays a part, also. I've seen perception bias from both men and women to where someone lives playing a role in interest and attractiveness. People tend to want to stay within their own culture. It's happened to me personally also.

[quinceykirkland]

I appreciate that there are people like you who want to see us all get along better and have healthy relationships. Keep up the good work!!