Dad after vasectomy vs mom after home birth

[haleyt]

I know this is a funny video but it just shows how much weight women have to pull in relationships once they have a baby. Weaponized incompetence. He’s fine he can suck it up and help oh my god

[kaelynnbartee]

I think my dad loved my mom more when he saw her give birth… he describes it as, “oh man, it was really cool to see you kids come into this world and know that I helped creat you. Then I followed you kids out of the delivery room to make sure no one took my kids, it was all over the news at that time of baby swapping and baby steeling. I was not going to let that happen.”

Us kids as adults… “so you left mom alone? After she spent HOURS in delivery?”

Dad, “yup. You’re mom is important. I love your mom. Could you imagine how it would’ve hurt her if she found out that someone stole her baby after spending HOURS to deliver.”

Point taken.😂😂😂😂😂

If he could there would be 13 kids… they stopped at 6.

[jmbezuidenhout]

My husband is broken after seeing me giving birth thought he only saw the after effects of birth because he wasn't allowed in the delivery ward 😅think he needs therapy for his trauma he said he didn't want a nother baby because of what needs to happen for babby to be born but at least he new or tryde to take care of me after babby was born the respect i got from him was at next level 😊

[Hana_]

Giving birth scene was so natural and smooth 👏👏😂😂😂

[teoleno]

I don't think this is funny. This is the reason why so many woman chosing to be child free.

[SoftChroma]

The moms feel different about this one. The things need to get done, and although she desperately needs rest, nobody else took care of the things.. 😓 lol?

[itabelectra]

Why tik tok dudes think that they can imitate women by putting a towel on their head? 😂😂😂

[kobythetoby]

This is funny and interesting timing 😂 my husband, we have 5 kids, just had his vasectomy 8 days ago and spent his Father's day yesterday on our property working on our chicken coop. He definitely took a couple of days to ice but was right back at it after that. So proud of him!

[reginageorgetownuni]

This comment section is getting screenshot so my parents know exactly why im never getting married

[meinennamensagichnet]

This is so much my friends. They had a failed vasectomy. It reconnected and they had another baby. She did home birth it like she did the other 3 but for 3 weeks she didnt get up to do anything but for bathroom. This was not normal for her because after she had the older 3 she always just went on with all her chores as was expected. So he became really concerned and brought a doctor home. She just smiled at the two men and said "if a vasectomy needs 3 weeks of bedrest, a failed vasectomy should come with at least 6"

[pancakemix]

I had a csection and suffer from chronically low blood pressure, the same day I'm recovering from the surgery the nurse shammed me saying: "I have to tell most moms to not get up and move around so much, but not you..". She was constantly pushing me to get up and go to the restroom on my own and getting snippy with me when I said I had a fainting disorder, was dizzy, denied my medication, and was coming off my epidural which lowers blood pressure. So pissed.

[alittlesouthernfun]

Hilariously accurate 🤣🤣 that's for truthfully telling how strong women are

[laurentucker]

This one time my dad got a UTI and was insufferable for like a week. My mom and I were like are you fucking serious.

[stephanielu]

Right! 😂 After hours of labor, delivering my Baby, being rushed into emergency surgery I instantly got up out of my bed when they wheeled me back from the OR and started getting my room in order, folding baby blankets etc. and had to stop and remind myself that I JUST got out of surgery and not supposed to be up yet 😂 Mom brain doesn't understand "rest" 😅

[Seasonal_aesthetic]

This is exactly why I’m afraid of marriage and having kids I refuse if this is the outcome

[laceymarie]

I just had my baby girl on mothers day. No epidural. Came before dr and nurses could make it in the room and my husband had the audacity to ask me, is that how a vasectomy is going to feel 😅 like what

[baobao]

The baby on his back with no holder though😂😂😂😂😂😂

[SpencerJayLuca]

Everyone experiences pain differently if my man where to get a vasectomy and was experiencing pain then yes I would baby him. The same way he babies me when im sick and yes even now that im pregnant he babies me even more. Be loving to your partner dont underestimate their pain and if they’re asking to be cared for do it especially if they reciprocate. Love eachother

[bekahogden]

love how he kept the postpartum belly lol

[lynnjackson]

If a vasectomy hurts that much, then they are doing it wrong.
Several male friends I know who have had it done were back in work the next day.
One had his done in the morning and was back in work in the afternoon.