Why ENFPs love INTJs

30 friggin' minutes on why we love INTJs.

[sahlohken]

Why INTJ's love ENFP's: You took the time to understand and explain us so we don't have to. Because talking about feelings and such is exhausting.

[bosshogg]

Every INTJ guy who has watched this video is now in love with you. Well played.

[alyssam.]

I'm an INTJ, and my husband is an ENFP. We were immediately drawn to each other. He told me I was mysterious and intelligent, and I was drawn to his engaging, fun nature. Though we definitely had some significant struggles early in our relationship due to our personality differences, we matured together and learned to communicate with one another in the ways that work best for each person. We share similar visions of the future and have similar values. He "gets" me and gives me my alone time, and can often understand what I'm feeling even when I don't. I've learned to validate his feelings and give him reassurance. We've been together 13 years now, so it definitely can work.

[hellstorme]

2 minutes in looking at comments: Sweet lord fellow INTJs, get a hold of yourself.

10 minutes in: Ah ok, I get it now. Signed.

[movingdisaster]

it's nice to know love for an INTJ is possible lmao. though, im a female INTJ

[worker]

As an INTJ female I am really thankful for ENFP’s. My best friends are ENFP’s. And without them, making any friends would be really hard - since my strategy for friend making is basically standing in a crowded room waiting for an ENFP to scent out my INTJ vibes and find and adopt me.

[kimgrassfield]

Hello Linda, Let me, an INTJ guy, tell you that ENFP’s have an enchanting combination of curiosity, intellect and emotional spontaneity that awakens joy in our hearts. We are a little bound up in our super-rational world. You express what we feel but don’t have the freedom to emote. So, you are very dear to us! I loved your thoughtful and adorable presentation. God bless!

[abadi]

It’s almost freaky how you know so much about INTJ's. It's scary knowing that there are people out here who knows a lot about how we really are

[navid]

I came here to see why ENFPs like INTJs, but I found out why INTJs like ENFPs...





Yes I’m an INTJ

[snarky]

You rambled around the point so many times, I got frustrated. Then you answered my question in detail and I loved it. Listening to you is a real roller coaster ride for me. I can see why many INTJ's would appreciate you.

[ItchyFeetOz]

INTJ here. That piercing look may actually be our fascination with your reaction, the way you literally manifest your feelings around your chest, touch your neck, arms etc it reads like a book. Your hoping from one topic to another yet it's so transparent and carefree expression both amusing and unachievable to me. I could just look at your expressions and turn off the volume what you've said and still be intrigued. It's endearing ... I hope that helps...

[PPNanaHime]

She talks way more than the amount I can usually handle but I ended up listening because she looked so excited to tell about the topic, it makes me want to stay and listen. She is cute! It's like, she has this "sunshine and bubbles" aura when she talks. Also, she is smart and understands things that normal humans can't about us.
~ female INTJ

[chantararix]

"we know there's more to you than people realize."

Me: *giggled silently*

[grell]

As an INTJ I find ENFPs amusing and kind of adorable. The carelessness, almost clumsiness, the talking and the open emotions I would find annoying in any other person, the ENFP mixes it in a way that you just can't hate. Also I find that I want to solve all their problems, like helping them manage their time better or organising their stuff. My bff is an ENFP and we always joke that we complete eachother. Like Yin and Yang. So to me, ENFPs are the splash of humanity I can truly appreciate.

[jbennett]

I'm an intj straight female but she's adorable, i love her already. She's very friendly and warm :)

[-deathkidx-]

me, a female straight INTJ, 2 minutes into the video: why is she so fucking adorable. what kind of sorcery is this.

[tatianak]

When you're an INTJ straight female, but somehow this girl makes you question your sexual preferences...

I'm not complaining though.
(Edit: turned out to be ENTJ btw, still haven't changed my mind tho)

[ElGalloUltimo]

In the same way that INTJs have a calming presence for ENFPs, ENFPs have a warming presence for INTJs. I.e. you make us feel warm inside: part entertained, part admiring, part excited, in a way that we don't normally feel. I can pick the feeling up just watching your video.

[JoyceMeng]

"I have an eye for Ni doms" haha. Your energy is contagious, Linda. Great video!!

[karlak]

<3 Im ENFP, my s/o is INTJ, you just explained all the amazing things about my little hedgehog! He is prickly and tough on the outside but soft and squishy and warm on the inside. I feel so special to know that part of him! What a special brain: honesty, integrity, organized, opinionated, cold yet warm. The perfect Ying to my Yang.