How Is This GOOD Advice For Young Women? #shorts

[luthasunspell]

No guy is perfect. No girl is perfect. You have to work and grow together.

[DesperationLasts]

I'm 32 years old, I've been married for almost 11 years, and I say this with the best of intentions. Relationships are constant hard work. Your partner is going to disappoint you and you are going to disappoint them. We are all only human. But having someone you love to be by your side through all the hardships life throws at you, to have your back when you feel like you are falling, to listen to you when you are irate, depressed, or passionate, hold you, care for you, support you... Irreplaceable. You are not perfect. You should not go into relationships expecting your partner to be.

[SP-nypk]

If you demand perfection, it’s because you are perfect in every way. Don’t demand what you can’t give

[Patriotgranny]

As a women that has been with the same man for 47 years, a very important part of a relationship is extending Grace to one another. No one is perfect & you have to consider the entire package. You actually decide early on, what you’ll overlook & let go and what you will not. I’ve always looked for the good in my sweet man & respected & appreciated all of his good qualities. It’s a matter of perspective in my humble opinion.

[jesi]

"I was waiting to find the perfect guy to get married...and I found him last week...but he was waiting for the perfect woman".😲

[gotkittys]

There's an old saying, "If you want to be single all of your life, just look for a perfect husband or wife. "

[corgimom]

At 31 years old there’s no question why she is single.

[SusieQ]

at 36 years old, married with 4 kids, I say this with the best of intentions: no one is perfect. if you're looking for the perfect man, he doesn't exist. however, a good man who loves you, who you share the same values with, and who will work hard to provide for his family, but who is imperfect does exist. go find him and live a good life filled with love and laughter, and probably a few hard times. after all, life is hard, but a good man will stick with you through the hard bits.

[Keldren.]

Even if they find that man that loves them unconditionally, they'll friend zone him for being "too nice" lolol

[davidgibson]

People today don't realize that there is no such thing as a compatible perfect couple. Relationships/marriage to real work.

[SasukeDidNothingWrong]

Having standards is completely fine. You just can’t get upset about being single if no one meets them.

[xmetalgamerx]

ALL of my friends are like this and it pains me to sit through hours of them just listing what they don’t like about the guy they’re currently dating and then seeing them break up with them out of the blue for stupid reasons. Stuff like “he gave me the wrong vibe” or “I got the ick” whatever that is. Fr! I’m the ONLY one in my friend group who’s in a long-term relationship (8 years now) and they always ask me how I do it, I say love is an action and a choice, NOT a feeling. You choose to commit to a person and if you’re both patient, kind, attentive, and respectful with each other it’ll work out. And after that they still go and make the same mistakes so I’m over it. 🤣😴

[Mjau]

If you constantly look for perfection, you will never be content - Leo Tolstoy

[madelineboothe]

There's a difference in not settling and expecting someone to be perfect.

[desireevega]

"It's gonna separate you from growing as an individual"
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[sarahhh]

Part of the reason i love my fiancé so much is because he calls me out on my shit. I have some trauma from my immature and toxic parents so i learned really bad habits about relationships from them. He gets this, and understands that in order for me to be better than them like i want, i need to know when im acting like them. He always does it in a respectful way, and he is very patient, but he's not a dormat that just lets me continue to do the admittedly toxic things i've learned. If he never did that idk if our relationship would last as long as it has.

[hyacinthlynch]

I think seeking perfection in relationships is a perfect way to destroy them.

[ambereveritt]

The parts if my husband that annoyed me the most at the beginning are the parts I find most endearing now. When you love someone’s soul, you learn to love every part of them. Period.

[kshitijkumar]

"At 31 years old... " Lost ya at that lol

[kieranbyrne]

Wouldn't it be so damn boring if it was like this? A perfect couple, no talking points, nothing to improve, no changes needed, man a relationship like that would end even if it existed. Growing together and adapting is not a part of the relationship, it's the relationship itself.