This isn’t about flowers…

So I’m just @ her now, my apologies.
The background video is from iagarden on TikTok

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[AmethystWill]

For those of you who don’t understand what this metaphor means.
Basically it’s forcing someone to do something they don’t want to do, this could be SA, growing up to fast, forcing someone to try something they don’t want (pressuring them to make bad decisions) the meaning of this video changes depending on your personal perspective of if.
Hope this helped! 🤍

[NatalieHarrisonLim]

A flower forced to bloom early is a flower that'll die young.

[emmajane]

They tell us to enjoy our youth,
Then they tell us to grow up.
That flower could've been even more beautiful if you had just left it alone...

[ZeebBeez]

Im sorry for people who were forced, i cant imagine what that kind of experience would even feel like, my cousin manipulated to doing it when i was 5 sadly

[DeniOfc]

It's sad realizing more people relate to depressing videos than people who relate to happy videos...💔

[jeannesgm]

A genuine heartfelt hug to those who raised their siblings, with parents who didnt love them, to the people that died who lived life by what their parents wanted, to those forced to conform just to survive

[FlowerGacha-cc]

Besides everything those flowers are so pretty!

[ReginaaaGeorgeee]

Thats the point . Its not ready yet .


Edit: it's so sad that people actually have to go through this with people forcing them to open up. :(




ALSO TYSM FOR 13K LIKES OMGGG!!! Sorry im being dramatic <33

[chisaki]

For me I had a good childhood at first but when I was 9 I had near-death experience that left me traumatised forever. After that I was no longer a child, my innocent and kind world became a hostile world of trust issues and abandonment issues, because of neglect I was broken and lost myself. Maturing at 9 hurts when you see so many carefree and mentally well children around who are not scared of everything and aren't held back by trauma

[sd.cn__]

”It’s not an act of love if you make her”

[Miss._.Yukkki]

They say they want us to be more mature and responsible

Then when we grant that wish for them, they tell us we're too mature for our age and to be a child

Some people are just impossible to please i guess...even if we give ourselves away at in the process it isn't enough for them

[audreypoirier]

This subject touches my heart a lot, i support people who had to had to get through this

[luafx]

"You're just acting like a child!"
"I am a child, what's your excuse?"
-Steven Universe

Edit: My God, so many likes, mom I'm famous! 🥹✨
Also thanks for the kind user for correcting my spelling mistake here :D!
Hugs from Brazil to all SU fans! 🇧🇷💕

[EditzArtNstuff]

They tell us to stay young
Then they tell us to "grow up!"
They tell us to share out feelings
Then they say we're being dramatic
They say we're beautiful just the way we are
Then they judge you on how we look

[the_queer_bros]

I'm 17, let me tell you, i feel like im 13 at most.
I haven't had my first kiss, sexual experience, haven't smoked weed, haven't drank alcohol, hadn't had my tatoo, i didn't have any real life romantic relationship, any of that. And also haven't yet worked a part time job.

Today grandma said i should dress more like a grown up, i should wear a coat instead of a jacket or sum shi to look more mature 💀

I haven't had a single day where i wasnt reminded of growing up, providing for your family, workingz making money, helping everyone, and being the cleverest of them all. Im sick of it. So much.
Thanks to this childhood, and overprotective parents im afraid of most things, normal teenagers dont care about, and i dont feel any similarness with my peers at all. They all are so experienced and i...

Idk but i grieve my life everyday lol, i cant be an official adult, cant be a kid, a teenager, i have a mentality of a 5 and 75 year old at the same time, and i wouldn't wish that upon my first enemy.

Parents, if you're reading this, please, let your child experience it's childhood normally, have their first experiences, having time to play with toys, run around and jump full of joy. I haven't had these experiences, and now i feel almost robbed and empty inside



P.S.
Sorry for the vent, but i want to at least one kid to have a kid childhood, not a broken household one.
If this impacts anyone i will be more than grateful

[acosmicstar]

Positive Lesson of the video: "Sometimes, you just need a little help to bloom beautifully."

[s]

im a dude and i understood it as soon as i read this. im so sorry for all girls going through this

[Flour_Joski]

Everyone can bloom on their own and be beautiful, but forcing that person to bloom early will hurt them

[LApis_DrAgnfly_]

I know this aint about the flower but…. That could kill the flower and makes it wilt faster… please don’t force your flowers to do this it’s not good for the stems.
Edit: for anyone who is rude I will report so don’t be rude please

[Lizxyae]

"Its not about flowers."
Its gonna hit hard