She left her daughter

She left her daughter

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[kyleWhoo]

Please, choose that little girl she needs you.

Your boyfriend has other options & he can take care of himself .

[fiola_]

Boyfriend’s are temporary while family is forever choose the girl

[yEyA]

Foster care is just awful, but an unexpected child is a huge burden... nobody can make the choice for you, and no matter what you choose, you might always find yourself wondering what would have happened if you chose differently 😢

[NighDarke]

He's childfree and enforcing a boundary that he has every right to enforce. He is under no obligation to step in and be daddy nor pay for a child that is not his. If you want to take the kid that's fine, you're now a single parent. My response would be the same as his, no. I am childfree, this is not negotiable.

[lovelylily]

this is weird. i just saw a post with the opposite gender and same situation and everyone had completely different answers. what the hell is wrong with the world

[beatriceklingman]

check with family services you may be able to get a monthly payment for caring for your niece or they might put her in the system but directly under your care and you would get a stipend every month.

[FaithFelicity]

I can understand him. I do not want children. If my partner wanted to take one in, he could, but without me. If she wants to take in the niece, she should. But a situation like that shouldn't be forced on him. Children a not a topic to compromise about. You are either a 100% in or out

[PeincessButtercupoftenessee]

You wouldn’t be wrong either way, if you truly love your bf, then choose him, if u rlly want to adopt ur sisters daughter, then choose her

[angelamaryfussey]

He's the wrong one. She will be abandoned twice if you leave her too.

[Acroshna]

She wouldn't be wrong for either choice. She just has to decide which regret will be easier to live with

[alicepostin]

She's already been abandoned once, don't let it happen again

[seleyav.]

Neither BF nor OP are AH, just the sister. BF made it clear from the start that there will be no kids, so it is ok for him to say that. It is also understandable that OP thinks about taking in the niece, she is family. But at the moment OP has not the means to take her in, she lives with BF who already said no and she has not the money to have her own appartment. And to work longer would be bad for the relationship with niece, because she would be alone most of the time.

[aphelion]

NAH. While OP is well within her own rights to take in her niece, she knew from the get go that her BF didn't want kids. He is under no obligation to change his mind because OP's niece needs help. Just because he didn't change his mind like she did doesn't make him a bad guy. It seems OP has already made her decision (Which she now feels is right for her and that's great) and needs to come to terms with the loss of her relationship. Her BF has every right to not change his mind on being child free just as OP has every right to change hers to not be anymore to take in her niece. So long as no one pressures anyone else for their decision, just split as nicely as possible and move on,

[barbarasuschena]

I would take the kid. It will be had. But there are a lot of social service programs out there to help you and that little girl! You can’t just throw her away you would never forgive yourself.

[petraflasarova]

Why is everyone saying the boyfriend is heartless? He made the choice not to have kids and he's standing by it. If i was in his place (granted, i'm not a man but still), i wouldn't want to take in a child i've never met who was a complete stranger to me, especially if i had made it clear that i didn't want kids..
It's best if they break up: OP can take in her niece and the boyfriend can live his life unburdened by a stranger child who he nevee wanted.

[GiannaAngelinaFronda]

keep the girl. why would you want to be with a man who is so heartless he can't even take in a 6 year old abandoned by her mother

[bareerahabrahams]

Take her because she is only six and she needs you

[Maria-ctbi]

If you want to help that child then accept custody and end everything with your boyfriend, the situation is difficult but you are no one to force a childfree person to take care of a child.

[breannaxoxo]

Unfortunately, in this situation OP doesn’t seem like she could take her niece even if she wanted. Her boyfriend will break up with her and she would be homeless. She can’t afford to keep the kid by herself. Either way, this probably just ruined their relationship

[shinyheart]

You can always find a better man with a kind heart