Marrying Disabled People

[bushra]

I knew a family where a sister had married a disabled man (he was in a wheelchair). They had a 6-year-old daughter who was extremely well-mannered and intelligent (May Allah bless her). Everyone who met their daughter was amazed by her. I always wondered if she was a reward from Allah for her parents—a reward for her father for being patient with his trial and a reward for her mother for accepting a disabled man as a husband.

[SirGabeII]

I’d take a disabled righteous sister over the most beautiful feminist sister!

[isafcb]

May Allah bless the disabled brothers and sisters with love and happiness in this life and the next

[megasp]

I have physical disabilities. It's hard finding a wife. It is what it is and i don't resent them.

[maryam_harbawi]

My previous divorced me when i became physically disabled. My new husband married me and loved me. After this i have partially recovered by becoming more mobile. When my previous divorced due to my disability i thought my life was over. But really Allah swt just had a different life planned for me. I hope this gives others hope in similar situations

[isafcb]

I would marry a sister with disabilities 100% and wouldn’t divorce my wife if she was disabled there’s a honest conversation needed though about a second wife if they are so disabled they can’t have children or affection, but I wouldn’t leave them because of it, anyone we love for the sake of Allah and any slave of his we treat with kindness honour and dignity Allah will open doors and reward us greatly Allah is the most merciful and most generous, let us be kind and respectful to all his slaves

[TheAmirSighted]

May Allah bless those who are tested with disabilities immensely

[sdq]

Not only I would, but I want to marry a sister who is disabled, whether she on wheekchair or any kind of disability which is causing her difficulty in finding someone to get married to, Even if she has a disability which will stop her from being a mother that is also okay with me. If anyone of you know someone who is disabled and is between 20-25 y/o and is from pakistan, (If she is a salafi that would be a plus point) then please let me know, I am willing to marry her for the sake of Allah, InshaAllah. I am fit and healthy Alhamdulillah I would be able to take care of her InshaAllah

[hawwa]

Heres to the disabled sisters and brothers, May Allah bless you all with the most beautiful, pious and kind spouse. Here's also to the able sisters and brothers who married a disabled person, may Allah grant you a beautiful reward in thie life and the hereafter ❤

[AllahuAkbaruKabirah]

Jazakum Allah khairan
This is a very important topic, we look forward to hearing more about it.

[y]

Thank you for shedding some light on this situation. I’ve always found comfort in the story of Julaybib (RA)

[Arsdentrepair]

Brother Gabriel
Light gray blazer goes better with black shirt. You always looking sharp MashaAllah

[omarmukhlisalbukkari]

اسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته بارك الله فيك I’m married to a sister who is in a wheelchair الحمدلله we have been married for 6 years now she has post polio syndrome اللهم بارك لنا امين

[isrark]

Brother, thanks for addressing this. Please address the parents of us generational Muslims. They are the ones who are an obstacle in such marriages. Our cultures and societies have become more important for us than helping fellow Muslims, subhanallah

[saimapatel]

I am an support worker for adults with disabilities and learning difficulties in the u.k. in my professional experience I have observed some adults to have 2:37 significantly higher intellectual capacity than others. They have a full understanding of what it means to be attracted to the opposite sex, I have personally observed this. Having personally observed this i can say that can easily live a happy and fulfilling life with additional support from a spouse, however, since all are under the care of their parents or family, more often than not a decision has been made for them not to settle into married life, due to their vulnerability.

[MoeedKhan]

jazakallah such a nice advice. ofcourse we should marry if we can

[JustAnotherObserver]

I think the problem with marriage in general nowadays is that the finances dont add up. When I (M early 20s) think of starting my family, I think of the expenses that ill have to provide for alone ei buying a house, car, wedding, daily expenses, future children and more. So it doesnt give us much freeway for a divorce or polygyny which in turn makes it so hard and important that when you marry, YOU MARRY THE BEST POSSIBLE WOMAN YOU CAN GET.

Now you might say, as some people do in my home country, marry a woman and create all that together (ei: house ect) but that takes away from our authority and leeway for polygyny or divorce.

Its not so much about whether we would or wouldnt as it is about whether we can or cant.

[muhammadomar]

May Allah (swt) bless you for bringing this issue to the agenda. Our disabled brothers and sisters also need to feel the warmth of a spouse and child and benefit from the blessings of marriage. For this reason, it is important to bring these brothers and sisters together in meetings designed specifically for this purpose, where they can meet each other and other Muslims. It is also very important that Muslims pay special attention to these brothers and sisters and encourage them to regularly mingle with the crowd of Muslims. May Allah (swt) be their helper and have mercy on those who have mercy on them.

[tatooinenative]

jazakAllahu khairan for your content. im glad to see how beneficial it is and im happy to see that u are posting regularly. keep it up!

[FOOTSHOTS]

From what i see, polygyny is a way for the sisters .. but for the men, sadly its quite challenging.. cuz women are hypergamous by nature, therefore most men are not even on their scope let alone disabled men.. thats a sad truth, but there is always hope