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Excerpt from Ross Rosenberg's video: Permanently Escape Narcissistic Abuse Through the Self-Love Recovery Technique.

ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.

In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel with 28 million views and 285,000 subscribers and the sale of 185,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

[rivkaruthgolan]

I know someone who spent 10 years on a daily basis, after her ex discarded her, learning everything she could about toxic people. She now sees the red flags. Hopefully she will only be with healthy whole people. She refuses relationships with toxic people.

[jsbaltes]

I fully agree. Blame does nothing to make it better.

I let go, I forgave. I dug into the root cause and realized the abuser are victims too. It's ( multi ) generational.

It's a human nature thing every bit as much as it is a ancestry thing.

I am 68 years old and only started to figured this out a couple years ago.

Large family ( 9 siblings ) and I was one of the youngest.

But the older siblings were victims too... can't deny it.

Yes, your pursecutors were wrong.
But they were wounded too. Punishing them wont heal you.

Focus on healing, not justice.

/ 68 year old recovering victim.

[skymeadow]

It all begins within, I pray I can find the strength to leave. 32 years and I'm scared. Thank you brother.

[billdux]

Thank You. I am now focusing my codependency and empathy on myself instead of others. I caused a lot of the issues that I am currently going through, and I need to recognize my mistakes in all of this. Enough finger pointing at others, Physician heal thyself.

[ElsaVille]

Heartfelt thanks and appreciation for taking the time to go onto YouTube and use your expertise and experience to help people. ❤

[NopeNotTodaySatan]

I completely agree!! As someone who’s been ensnared by two different types of Cluster B’s I know what I need to change now. It took tremendous amount of pain to realize my part in what I was allowing. If I don’t I’ll always continue the cycle. The abuse wasn’t my fault however I cannot keep the rose colored glasses on. There are things I personally must change, or else it’s rinse & repeat. No more!!

[RajR-ze]

I want to thank you personally and hoping you see this message. In my almost 2 years of journey towards healing post a discard, it is through you only that I heard and am beginning to understand SLDD. It has brought an instant acceptance and a mission to get better at self love. The calmness it has brought is very surprising to me. Thank you!

[helicastilho]

Thank you so much for your kind words. 6 years ago I was about to get crazy with my husband who’s was narcissist . I didn’t know nothing about personality disorder. when I found your book about this evil person. Gratitude 🙏

[QueenieGriffin-yg]

So glad you are there!!! The information is great I need help with that!!!❤

[Henrismomma]

Yes, we have to take some responsibility

[allywolf]

Raised by a very severe covert narcissist. My problem isn't blaming others... it's blaming myself for sh*t I had, and still have no power over. I'm thrilled when something is so overtly obvious that I'm forced to see it wasn't my fault. Even then, I still somehow feel guilty.🤷‍♀️ the scapegoat kid. Think the...eat everything on your plate because kids are starving in Africa X 1000. My brain is constantly searching for patterns, belief systems etc that make me vulnerable to them. But ijust have a very kind heart. Too freaking kind. And when I see someone hurting I want to help them.

[claudiasbarra]

I totally agree with you. Thank you so much.

[oktaskop]

What I have experienced over the last 11 months in my 15 year marriage to a covert narcissist has certainly pushed me over the edge of my sanity. And I know that I actively need help to work through this - but, and I have become aware of this through this unreal experience of these months, I have entered into this relationship because of my biography and have not recognized the clear signs. Because until recently I didn't know that I am a valuable being and that I am actively capable of changing the beliefs that were drummed into me in my childhood. to set it up again. I feel the greatest sorrow about this omission towards my children, who are now young adults. Because here I have failed in my duty to build up their healthy resilience. I pray every day that they will not also squander their hearts and minds on this type of person.

[diannetaplin]

SSLD is an intervention system for bringing about change in human life, including our thinking, action, motivation, emotion, body, as well as our environment.

[susangrisham]

I hadn't been able to label myself(co-dependant I see now) but I have always said I have a broken picker(exact words I used) so now I am figuring out how to fix me! Learning more and more about codependency.

[SethHD]

I began to see that I conspire with others against myself

[maxinesimonelli]

I'm not co- dependent I survived. I know all the truth.

[Justine-utho]

One of the hardest aspects of my own healing is realizing my own need for a Victimizer. I do not blame myself for it. My ACE score is 9. There are behavioral, family systems, and brain circuit issues that made me this way. But I must take responsibility for that part of me. It’s literally the work of my life. And it’s taking years, but I am doing it.

[locohealthcenter-tsjv]

Ooh, God help me. I am so anxious and having a headache!

[territimestransitions]

Appreciate you and your work so much! 😊