fetishizing trans women vs appreciating trans women

[Literally.Will.Solace]

I was gonna scroll through the comments but stopped myself. I feel like not being pissed of as i fall asleep

[bauhausgoth]

I’m autistic and I’m also a trans man, people get onto me and some even infantilize me because of my “childish” issues that I can’t fix myself. People will also keep misgendering me and dead naming me ON PURPOSE.

And they don’t understand why I go mute around them- 🤦🏼‍♂️

[ryntaylor]

If anyone says “I liked you better before tell them “I liked you better before that comment” and walk away.

[sprayz]

i have tourette’s syndrome, one time a guy told me i should tic more because it’s cute.

i broke up with him the next day.

[CarlieGuss]

I can relate (not totally but this is my reference point). I'm Jamaican and for years I used to work at Victoria's Secret. As soon as I opened my mouth to speak to most ladies, they'd hear my accent and everything became sexual. When i expressed concerns of being fetishized, the reply from my coworkers (almost all women) was "isn't that what men want?" It got to a point where I just stopped talking about it

[LadyxBleu]

Oof, that sucks. No matter the circumstances, it feels terrible when someone uses you for your body instead of appreciating you as a whole person.

[RoseTerra]

My wife is a trans woman. I will love and support her through every step of her journey. My number 1 goal throughout her transition is to make sure that she knows that her body is h e r body and it’s wonderful and does not need changing. And with that, her body is her body and she should feel at home in it, even if that means changing it. I want to be certain that, if/when she decides to get gender affirming surgeries, she isn’t doing it because she’s insecure, but because it feels right for her. I love her so much 🩷🩷🩷

[jenniferjacobs]

AhAHAha CaN wE GeT The✨ BilL✨ It’s just magical

[mypage]

If someone has a sexual preference it’s what it is. The bad part is people not being upfront about it.

[amaryahpoeder]

I’m a women, but I’m not trans. And if my girlfriend decided that bottom surgery is why would make her comfortable, then I’d be happy for you. The only part of a human that should matter is their brain and their heart. Love people for who they are, not what they can offer you.

[burgerpowder]

I’m not trans but I used to be 100 LBS heavier and when I got weight loss surgery my man told me he likes me before 😭

Edit: guys I dumped him 😩 feeling great

[fignewton]

that's 100% what happened to my old roommate. her bf dumped her after bottom surgery. I would have told her that I always got the creeper vibe from him but she was too obsessed with him to see what's what

[LoserKevinOfficial]

If my girl was trans I would be happy for her either way. I’m a trans man myself so I understand if you want to get surgery or not

[monikorasort]

The color coordination between your hair, nails, and phone case is just 🤌🏽

[NebulaBubbles]

as a lesbian woman who has an amazing trans gf she hasn't got any surgery before and she is male presenting in real life because of her strict household but idc i love her

[Mattneticc]

Some of these comments are literally disgusting, like fr, she’s literally just out here living life. Her existence on the internet doesn’t affect you unless you, DECIDE to interact with her content. She is just talking about a difficult part of being trans and you don’t have to comment on it. Ignore it and move on if you don’t like it. Nobody else cares that you don’t like it. We don’t want to hear about how this “DiSgUsTs” you.

[ulari]

i’m not trans but i’m like emo/goth and everyone LOVES it until they have to actually listen to my music or see me without my eyebrows lmfao. i don’t understand fetishized looks or genders and races like just leave people be

[LokiStarOmen]

My boyfriends family have been betting on me leaving him when he has bottom surgery. I loved him before he came out, I loved him after, I love him as he is but when he decided to start looking into bottom surgery I supported him. I love him and I’m so sorry to anyone who has felt the pain of being fetishised as a trans person. I hope you all find the love we have (I get fetishised (in a different way I’ll admit) as a trans Enbie myself so I feel your pain as well guys 💔)

[imlikekindatired]

I’m an autistic lesbian with BPD and someone called me a three in one combo. The same guy then said people with autism were so cute because of their disorder and that people with BPD are submissive and easy to abuse…also you…he was a guy. An adult. I am 14.

[awkwardukulele]

Hey, the comments are shitty so I just wanted to mention you were the first person I ever realized I got gender envy from, and you helped me realize transitioning was gonna be in my future. So thank you, sis. 😊