Is Past Hurt Holding You Back From Love?

Have you ever felt that past hurt was holding you back from finding love? Remember, you don't have to come to the relationship ready made, you just have to be open and willing to do the work with someone who understands you.

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[finam]

I hope I find the right person, Im tired of Heartbreak and loneliness

[maggietapia]

Accidentally clicked on this but yet it was what I know I’ve needed to hear. Really appreciate this. ♥️

[nickus]

I am honestly not sure anymore. Literally anytime I opened up, it was used against me. I had 2 back to back narcissistic experiences that left me with quite a deep emotional wound.

[a.d.b]

I haven't given up. Thanks for the encouragement!

[patriciagoodwin]

I try to remember, when stuff gets so difficult, that I'm not alone in these feelings. Everyone has been or are going through it.

[crystallibert]

Beautifully said, hope i find someone to meet me where am at

[valdius]

Solving problems together is important and it creates a strong vasopressin based bond.

[Xianne]

Oh Matthew! ❤ Thanks for putting this thought out there! That sure takes a big weight from my shoulders and gives me hope! ❤

I've been following you for about ten years now and it's great to see your message evolving and to also be a part of that evolution. 😊

[kristincronin-gn]

Omg!!!! he just completely explained everything!!! Now I get us!!!

[clairexxx]

Thank you Matthew, you're right most people have experienced some traumas and are carrying their own fears and baggage 🕊✨️

[brianh]

Well said, and appreciated cuz sommany others ARE NOT this understanding.

[jessniemishamaseen]

How do people meet if not at bars, work, or online? It's like paint ball out there.

[EstherReddy-nfhu]

Josiah be the right one ❤for Me
In Jesus Name Amen !❤❤❤

[cegiehd]

I wish you could tell this to the guy I like....cause he's pushing me away. I'm willing to give him love, but he won't let me because of his relationship trauma. 😢

[Shelly-plvn]

Ive stayed away from dating because of this- not sure what my triggers are but trying to be more open. :)

[PhyllisRM]

Bravo 👏🏻. I sure hope so… it would be nice🤞🏻🙏🏻💞.

[lilac]

I am holding back from love because of having experienced narcissistic abuse as a child .And as an adult, I experienced personality clash ..So I experienced double trauma... 😢

[Vicky-hkon]

When do you know if they’re the right one? I’ve had two partners that have triggered wounds and I’ve been in therapy for a long time from both of them. Neither of them were willing to go to therapy, but my recent relationship wanted to keep the relationship going, but he made excuses that that’s the way he is. Is it an excuse or am I being unempathetic!? I wanted more love, clearer communication, commitment and he just wanted peace and to go with the flow. It’s confusing to hear this message as my ex seemed to have gone through a similar childhood to me and wanted to learn and grow! He’s gotten so far but I feel it’s not enough for me. So is there someone else out there!!?? 🤦🏼‍♀️😅 Or am I still needing to work on myself!?

[Gail]

I've just realised this after thinking I was over heartbreak 20 years ago, but now I realise I'm not..😔

[David-wksw]

Women open up emotionally to people you are interested in. Get to know someone. Go out. Spend some money.
But save sex for marriage