The Problem With 'Girls Night Out'

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[Liftheavyrustylbs]

My first wife did that crap. Then one time that girls night out on Friday lasted until late Sunday afternoon. No phone calls. Nothing. I almost called the police. Finally surfaced staggering down our block. Her car was left somewhere. Clothes, hair, everything a mess. I demanded an explanation. " I was with some friends". Called a local lawyer. Left a message to schedule an appointment. Got divorced.

[veritasliberabitvos]

Donovan said it well - upfront, "I don't date women who live that lifestyle." She can do what she wants, I just don't date women like that. It's called having a preference and I'm allowed to have my preference in the people I allow in my life.

[Aryaba]

"Girls nights out" and "Girls trips" are great if you bring my grandmother, mother and sister and your grandmother, mother and sister with you.

[unlisted]

Wanna know what a ‘guys night out’ is? It’s literally Applebees or some dude’s garage and we talk about the past. We look for validation from our friends through our past endeavors and we always get steered back to our home and family.

When chicks go out together it’s to a place where they can get validation from strangers. They talk about what a future could look like if she gets the hot guy eyeballing her from across the bar. Their friends, the other chicks, always try to drive the woman away from her home.

[Coyote-wmop]

I’ve been the guy they cheated with but lied and said they were single. They even brag about it on social media now. Guys, never put up with this and don’t get married. One girl even said “I’m getting married…but that’s not for another 6 months.”

[michaelpalumbo]

They are uncomfortable because the modern woman isn’t loyal.

[shanenolan]

Seriously i worked in bars .they are not a good idea. And overseas trips . Forget about it

[fearthekilt]

My older sister took a girls retreat to the beach with her married friends, I lived at the beach and took them out to a dueling piano bar. These married women threw themselves at me. My sister was so embarrassed as she had strong moral values. I was in my 20's at the time and these women were in their 30's and 40's. That weekend really showed me not to trust women. Very sad 😢.

[Toolwise]

Took Australian buddies to Vegas once. One of them hooked up multiple times with a bride to be. He followed that girl on social...not only did she still get married, had a kid a year later. Her husband... 100% ignorant

[josecalitino]

I worked in a resort town for 10+ years and let me tell you, guys have 💯 LEGITIMATE reasons for not wanting their women going on "girls trips". I'm one of those reasons...

[marcusm]

Well said JB. It's because a lot of what is deemed 'fun' for women is attention from other men (getting drinks bought for them, compliments, convo) and this current phenomenon of being in a relationship but acting single

[TinkerersMind]

When my wife of 12 year's unilaterally decided that she was going to go on girls nights out.
I said nothing.
When she got ready.
I said nothing.
When she showed off her outfit.
I smiled, said nothing and casualty picked up my key and left the house.
After a few minutes of driving she called and frantically asked what I was doing?
I simply responded. "I'm maintaining our agreed boundaries that we both came up with and have maintained our entire relationship."

You see ladies and gentlemen if you agree on boundaries you must maintain them.

[chrisd]

Ya my wife's friends tryed to call me controlling because I set the boundary along time ago. Before we even got married I will not tolerate girls nights out solo vacation and so on. She asked me why and I said that's single woman behavior and lifestyle and if you want that type of lifestyle I am out. Never has pushed that boundary we have talked about it over the last 20 years and I will not budge. But I also don't do guys nights out or solo vacations. So I don't hold her to any standard I don't hold my self to

[slomo]

When you're a college age guy or thereabouts you love running into a group of late twenties to early thirties "ladies" on a girl's night.
Sometimes they admit to being married but usually they say they're single or recently divorced. Either way they are always interested, willing and able.
So when you're older and your girl says she's going on a girl's trip, you help her pack... everything! Tell her to have fun and that you'll drop the rest of her stuff at her parent's place.
"You don't trust me?"
"Nope. I've seen too many trustworthy women on their girl's nights and they always forget they are married or in a relationship."

[tahu]

It's why single decent unmarried men are walking away from the concept of marriage in the first place.

[Landofalcon]

I used to hang out with some friends where half of them were married, and so we'd often have a guys night/girls night.
Where the guys would go to one place and hang out, maybe play video games, maybe have movie night, play laser tag or something, and the girls would have a movie night, or go out to eat, or do whatever as well.
There was a never any fears from either side because neither of our groups ever put ourselves into questionable circumstances like that (though the girls would occasionally fear for our safety, lol).
TLDR: don't marry a club girl.

[natlyfranks]

In my opinion a married man, a married woman have no business going into a club or a dance-hall without their spouse.
A girls night that includes:Bowling, movie, eating out that's fine but a bar room -NO!

[truthseeker]

I work as a bouncer in a club and a fair bit of the “wives” that come through are engaging in questionable behavior to say the least.

I often ask the wives “Where’s your husband?” The looks of disgust I often see after asking that question is astounding.

[richardpretto]

The 1st time in my life I realized women were worse then men. Was when I just graduated basic training and the all women's company's graduated at the same time. It was are first overnight off base. Those ladies were grabbing any available man like it was a 2 for 1 sale at Macy's.

[mwfmtnman]

The last women I dated wanted her "girlsnight". Wheb she didn't come home till 4 am, she found herself kicked out. The look on her face was priceless lol