my mom ranks shipping dynamics💑

it was really funny seeing just how different our tastes were with certain dynamics, but it was also super cool to hear her explanations and i had a lot of fun doing this ranking with her!😄

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[ColeyDoesThings]

Do you agree with my mom on her choices😲? Lemme know your thoughts and i'll share them with her!!

[jeezpotato]

I could never do this with my mother, she would not understand me and would think im absolutely crazy. this is going to surprisingly wholesome to watch

[HoodieSardine]

Love how your mom understands the absolute magic that is ENEMIES TO LOVERS

[PerukiWigs]

I think Coley should legally be proclaimed the fanfic queen

[sincerelynotme]

Im proud of the energy we created in the studio today

[scarletthenderson]

I love how in depth she gave her explanations

[shirendjorgee]

It’s nice to see that being a is hereditary.

[freshcupofangst]

Legit got so hyped from this notification, Coley's mom slays tbh

[DiaArtCreativity]

I get the feeling Coley's mum would love Good Omens😂
"different sides" "angel x demon". You could also argue the "good but evil, evil but good" im there😂 also "best friends with sus behavior"

[freshcupofangst]

Coley's mom was so right to put rivals to lovers in god tier. It's devastatingly underrated imo

Edit: OKAY OKAY I'M SORRY I SAID UNDERRATED!! It's just that ao3 has lumped rivals to lovers into the enemies to lovers tag when that's not what it is, and when people talk about liking rivals to lovers they usually describe what I see as enemies to lovers! So what I consider rivals to lovers is underrated!

The way I see it, rivalries are not *inherently* malicious (though they *can* be if you want) and can quite often be lighthearted and all in good fun, it's a trope where the characters can be competitive and maybe a bit mean with eachother but still friendly, whereas enemies are...Enemies. Hostility towards eachother is inherent in the trope, it's what it's *built* around.





TLDR; rivals to lovers and enemies to lovers can be very similar but rivals to lovers is often times more like enemies to lovers more easy going and flexible cousin.

[PrayerWarrior]

Dang, your mom would be great for storyboarding for charcters and development, she's fantastic 🤩

[רוניבןעזרא-וש]

I see Coley's mom is the kinds person to tell stranger girls in the bathroom "Don't call your ex!!"

[ITrulyDontExist]

Coley's mom is the parental figure I needed when I was younger-

[indigovae]

Ya know, your mum is very wise. She's allowed me to have a new perspective on some of the dynamics that apply to my previous relationship. Mainly "Exes that still have feeling for each other".

My ex broke up with me because he wanted to work on himself a bit, and in the beginning I was fantasising, and even now I've been fantasising that he'll realise what he's missed out on and come asking to get back together with me. And part of me wants to take him back.

But, she makes a good point - if we really cared about each other, we would find a way to work things out between us. And She's right. Our chapter is over. We need to start a new one with new people.

Thank you, Coley's mum, for helping me confirm my decision of not chasing after him anymore. I need to find someone new who is willing to work through things with me there to support them. I was so willing to support my ex in any way, but he really wanted to break things off between us while he worked his own things out. Plus, he's currently ghosting me after he said we can still be friends.

So yeah. SCREW HIM! I'M GONNA FIND SOMEONE ELSE! Again, thank you, Coley's mum. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤❤❤

[maplepainttube]

Everyone else go home, Coley's mom has made the definitive tier list! I love how she loves angst, and contrasting couples, but has no tolerance for relationships dynamics that are just bad for one or both characters, I feel that in my soul, and agree so hard.

[June-e]

i love that your mum's looking out for the people in the dynamics it's so sweet <3

[dapawta]

I clicked onto this knowing immediately "this woman is gonna have Such great opinions"

[look-at-this-goofy-ahh-rat]

i should do this with my mom, who is literally a professional writer

[izziebobizzie]

Man I WISH I could have a family member rank shipping dynamics but the only one who even knows what shipping is is my brother and he doesn't really care about shipping even when its a canon relationship.

[I_E_O_T_C]

FINALLY! Someone GETS IT with bully x bullied. I don’t necessarily want them TOGETHER together. I WANT to see the dynamic play out. I want the psychological impacts. I want CONSEQUENCES. I want THINGS to HAPPEN for REASONS related to those psychological ISSUES.
It’s not about the ship necessarily. It’s about the potential. It’s about the human psyche. It’s so much more than just ‘I wanna see em fck’.
I could NEVER explain it before