Annoying things people say to Asexuals

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[aim]

My mom when I was 16: "you will when your older"
Me at 19: nope, still ace
Me when I'm a 75 year old virgin: nope, still ace

[angelic_writer]

Another annoying thing is, "When you do it, you won't be asexual anymore." Try saying that to a bi man and a bi woman together and ask them if they're still straight.

[ZeeZeeWee]

it's so fucking funny that some people think a grown ass adult is going through a "phase" and that they can't make decisions for themselves

[schlamuffenimperator]

- "I'm gay."
- People: "It is a sin! You must stay in celibate and never have sex. But you can live your life to the fullest without it, because you have family and friends."
- "I'm Ace."
- People: "NOOO! You must have sex! You have no life without sex. You'll die unhappy and alone."

[wafolfackermeme]

Another thing I hate that people tell me is “im so sorry that your missing out” it vexes me so😭

[Em_]

from one asexual to the other, you did

[D_Artella]

I laughed at the part when you said you're a hypersexual asexual. I'm like "Bro, you get me." 😂

[jesterdays]

The medicalisation is crazy. My mother spent more money than it's worth just to try to prove that something was wrong with me, only for it to come out that I was actually healthy and normal.
I will never let her live that down.

[GreenGuyGeno]

Mom and Dad: "Soon you'll have a family of your own."
Me: My bloodline ends with me. My brothers got this.

[pixelsbykris]

As someone who could also be considered a hypersexual asexual it’s always nice seeing others admit to it. Makes me feel less alone because even among the people in the LGBTQ+ community who accept us aces a lot of them think you need to actively be sex repulsed or something. But when you’re someone like me who’s thinking about it almost constantly but adamantly NOT wanting to actually have sex it can be a struggle to feel like I’m actually ace and not just a weird flavour of pansexual of something. So as silly as you admitting to be hypersexual making me happy may sound, the validation still feels real. So thank you for that!

[mackenziebauknecht]

In my experience being a young asexual, my stepdad calls me immature and says that when I mature, it will go away. Honestly that is easily the worst thing you can say to me

[lampekartoffel]

5:48 I remember once seeing a post from a lesbian where their sister told them they "just hadn't met the right man yet" and that was why they weren't attracted to men. Their response? Asked the sister if they were attracted to llamas, then proceeded to tell them they just hadn't "met the right llama yet" and began sending pictures of llamas to the sister.
I think sending pictures unprompted and not just whenever the sister starts up on their crap, is a bit too much. But otherwise, it's a great way to both get the point across and get the "wtf factor" so they'll remember the lesson - now, whether the person you do this to will be receptive to this method or not is a whole nother case as I can definitely see someone say it's not the same since a llama isn't a human. But if that's the case, you can use whichever gender or type of human they aren't attracted to, to get the point across.

[TheMothman]

I constantly get asked "Isn't it so boring though?" When I say I'm Asexual, and don't enjoy sex. That one will make me irritated for the rest of eternity.

[soramafuforlife]

"You haven't found the right person" is a sentiment even I can relate to as a non ace person. Never dated someone and theres always an annoying friend that is in love with their partner unable to understand why ive been single for life will tell me this exact line! Ive heard it so long im so tired of it, ace people, all people know themselves just fine about what they want in their life (relationship or no relationship)

[XBlue_BunnyX]

being ace means you can still feel „corny…“ we just dont wanna do it w/ another person like reading BL or doing a solo

[zetafish]

I will never understand the people who don't see us as fellow lgbt+ members. Like were clearly not straight and zero is still a number. A lack of something is still in and of itself a something, yet these people think being ace makes us nothing at all.

[DevilSpade]

i think people forget its not about not liking sex but not wanting it

[Cage-CatYT]

I remember reading a lot of "it's not a real [romantic] relationship if there isn't sexual attraction!" From others and, as a sex repulsed/averse ace-spec girlie, it's always rubbed me the wrong way, cause me and my partner are happy together just being romantically attracted to one another 😭

[moi]

as an aromantic the most annoying thing ever is when people say "oh you just haven't found the right one yet" :/