The Cold Hard Truth About 'Mixed Signals'

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[ShiniGorky]

I've noticed about 99% of the time when I feel an uncomfortable attachment to a woman, she can sense it. And ALWAYS pulls back. Every time.

[beardifull]

Facts well said brother. I needed a reminder of this. Mixed signals are a clear signal for you to move on. It's okay to be that shinning watch as long as you use your shining watch to show her there's no time on it for those mixed signals

[sassasins]

Only give them 1 shot at you.
They never, ever, "grow to love you".

[jerryjamesz]

Remember the only weapons you have as a man is your attention (use it wisely with women) and the ability to walk away. Respect yourself more and women will in turn respect you more. Respect = Love & Attachment to you

[DistantLightInThe]

I have had disagreements with some of your opinions but I truly believe you are so spot on on this one. I suppose I have had a bit of an experience with this where a woman did this "signals" stuff when I had genuinely moved on... she did it again and again... a smile here, a smile there, trying to cross paths, staring at the gym and I disrespected myself by wilting to this and approached her again and then the gaslighting began "I'm just a friendly person"... respect yourself men! I know even at certain ages you can just find someone more attractive than others because of many factors and you can go down this path where you can cling onto a certain bone she throws at you. And that's what it is: a bone for a dog... yes its harsh but like you put it, you have to respect yourself ... and that's with anything in life ... thoughtful and precise and blunt, which is needed.

[MaxiRyu]

Yep, after so many years I finally understand. Practically you have only 1 shot to make an impression on attractive women. If you blow it it is practically

[whatever]

I've never believed in mixed signals. If they're interested they show it. If they're not they don't show "mixed signals" - they show they're not interested. Period.

[cajunyankee]

Well said. I figured this out the hard way. This is true for all human relationships, romantic or not. I would say it another way: "You can't force someone to care about you as much as you care about them. Just figure out how little they care about you and care a little bit less back." Don't catch feelings or get one-itis. Always have backup people. The one with more people on standby has the power. Lower your expectations of others. Don't expect loyalty or honesty and learn to ask "what's in it for them?" Judge people not by their words but by their actions. Get better at using people and trust only yourself. Emotionally invest in others only as much as they're doing with you. Enough proverbs for one day!

[nicolasfelipe]

I was stuck in this for almost 2 years and its a nightmare, i was really in love with her, she was a beautiful woman with some great music talents, she had me like a commodity, while she went out with other duds she got very mad when i was with other girls when I finally got out the trap she got very angry and tried to pull me back many times, after that i started my journey into masculinity.

[btlfilmmedia]

Unless a woman shows genuine interest and goes out of her way to show it ..Then I'm not Interested.. There's too much mixed signal nonsense I'm way past that kiddy behaviour

[kalasatwater]

As soon as I see mixed signals I'm out

[MRJ_]

100% everything he says is so correct. I literally just experienced this and had to break the connection. The only thing I disagree with him on this is that you should give a woman like this a second chance.

[MMOG]

I was getting mixed signals from this girl in my college class so I just stopped interacting with her. But then she started chasing me after that so I think it's the attention they want not necessarily you.

[jordonpollock]

Been single for 2 and a half months now after my ex disrespected me and I called it quits. I'll admit I've had a few occasions walking past people in relationships feeling a bit envious after a shit day but I remind myself how spontaneously my toxic ex and I got together and how that was nothing but a waste of energy and time. My conclusion for now is just shutting all this shit out and hitting the gym hard. I'm sure a better one will come around eventually.

[s.a.]

I'm warching you from germany
and I'm verry happy to find you on Youtube. You tell that verry well and I learn through your videos english.
Thank you for everthing !

[darioscomicschool]

1:35 Thank you!
EPIC - If I would have known this a long time ago!

[Surfsup]

The only meeting place everyone had to attend is school. Take a course or two. Live and learn.

[Thecdccop]

Just work on yourself and good shit will happen. All of this trying to figure women out is an awful lot of work trying to fool mother nature for a little bit of pleasure, but somebody has to do it. Thank God I'm 53 and not in my 30's again. I've walked through the gates of hell for 25 years and the rest I'll leave for the youngsters. Happy hunting boys!

[PaulCheetos]

Needed to hear this today, thank you brother

[jeffthornerg]

On a train I ride quite comfortable
On horses you chase behind me hoping to catch up . Recognizing your Love I cannot help but ride away and rise above .