4 Ways To Pick The Right Wife (lower divorce rate!)

When you get crystal clear on what you want in the perfect woman and life partner for you the time it will take to find her will dramatically shrink. So let's go over how to do this and how to avoid wasting years of your life trapped in a relationship that doesn't make you happy.

[hernanperez]

Wish I knew this in my 20. Listen to this again young guys

[kokerbeatbox]

I was a "super-hero" for my girlfriend who was an alcoholic. It didn't work out.. I just wasted a lot of time and nerves. I'm glad You mention that.

[venky]

Gargantuan volume of great advice in a few minutes.

[robertmaxa]

Regarding the living together first thing, I think it makes sense. Apparently there is a study that suggests that living together first, increases the chance of divorce. I think I heard this listening to Jordan Peterson. The other difference between living together and being married, is the contact with the Government, the legal, system, and IRS, CRA, if you're in Canada.

[Chrisbean]

Stats show living together before marriage increases divorce rates. So word of caution on that…really enjoyed much of this content

[alexflips]

The fact that you’re suggesting I’d even want a wife makes me question if this channel is right for me.

[SobrietyUniversity]

Great advice, Tripp! Appreciate you talking about addiction.

[Dee--Jay]

Good advice. One thing I do is for my standards, I need somebody who is easy to please and easy to get along with just have a peaceful aura. I feel like long-term, if she has those qualities then that's just going to make the relationship easier to work out but if she's a pain in the ass, it's just going to be stressful and a lot of guys from my experience are with women that stress them out. They will all tell you, she cute, she fine but she a pain in the ass or she's entitled. I'm pretty easy to please so if she has those qualities then more than likely I'm okay with everything else within reason. But these are basic qualities that most people should have but they don't

[szymonkrawiec]

Tripp,
I cannot find a really good lecture about why your marriage will fail, but I remember lecturer said something like;
"we detect in this person someone who will not be able to make a suffer in a way that we need to suffer in order to feel that love is real"

I remember one of my old friend who is married for 30 years said;
"Szymon, find a woman who is not selfish"

[waltergreen]

That's good Tripp I am in my 40 never married still picky but I know soon enough I am bored.

[BoomstickD]

Hey Tripp! I found a channel recently on YouTube called "Its Complicated Channel." On his about section for his channel, he says that he may not have answers, but he has questions. When I hear him interview people on the streets, he sounds like he really knows his stuff like modern women or society issues. Not sure if you know the guy or his channel but I really think it would be an amazing podcast episode if you had him on! -Thanks

[johndaniel]

Extremely interesting, wish you could publish more about this topic and relationship. I'm near 40. I want kids and I feel I don't have time anymore. Still I want be with the right partner. I'm in relationship but having some doubts. Not sure is me being difficult or I'm not with right person to suit me as a partner

[acdragonrider]

3:05: Your morals are especially vitals. Those shouldn’t be compromised

5:01: Wow I’m surprised you say that. I’m not into party types at all either 😅

9:02: “Old school people” didn’t move in until after marriage though… It was very tabooo.

[JAKEBrakeModel]

9:13 - Bad advice. Look up the stats. Living with someone before marriage compounds rates of divorce. Otherwise, good advice in this video.

[briar]

These are really good points. Then she completely changes and turns your life into a living hell.

[joshweatherly]

Right but alot of religions dont allow living together before marriage, mine included. If religion is a non negotiable, its hard to follow this rule

[melchantz]

One important question.. how can we as women search for the right guy who will know how to participate in the household chores.. and a guy who will give us time for us women to be able to take care of ourselves.. someone who knows where the drawer for their socks etc.. someone who knows how to share in womens stresses.. this im so interested in.. any advise?

[waltergreen]

I don't need ladies that ask me anything about money or gift cards or chairty or help her when I am poor okay

[yes_on_air]

FACT CHECK: Moving in with someone before marriage is a terrible action to make. It almost always produces a worse relationship down the road. This is a modern suggestion that continues to be falsefied with skewed data.

[yodadback]

its funny how you use the example of fitness people not being into someone who smokes weed when there is a large community of bodybuilders and fitness competitors who are potheads. There are some weed advocates that are in the fitness industry as wekk. Definitely someone who smokes cigarettes or drinks a lot would be a more common turn-off for fitness people. It really depends on what someone's likes and interests are in life at the end of the day which should highly be taken into consideration when getting into relationships and marriages.