You REAP what you SOW | Tim Ross

[ggbaby-ff]

“People think forgiveness means forget”🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[lukewilson]

It’s so true. The level of trust can’t not be restored to what it once originally was.

[jazzip]

THE TRUST IS GONE!. There will always be that little voice in the back of your mind: questioning.

[CountrySweetz]

It hurts so bad when the other spouse doesn't want to work and go live in the lie (especially when children are involved). Currently my life right now...sucks so bad. Prayers up for myself and others going through this painful funeral

[melissajardee]

Thank you! I divorced my ex because he wasn't willing to break the tie with the lie and I could not give him what he wanted. He wanted me to continue forgiving and having grace while he continued down the path he wanted more than what God was calling him to.

[imjesssayin]

I cheated in my first marriage. Moments before I convinced myself I had every reason. He doesn’t, he always, he never.. I listened to music tellin me he ain’t worth my tears, it’s his fault and I had a right to feel good and be happy. I listened to friends tell me put myself first, he ain’t no good do what’s right for me.. but immediately after, none of those reasons could excuse what I knew I just did to my husband and the kind of pain/humiliation I set him up for. I was caught my marriage ended and I lost every bit of family and friends I had. I had to watch his heart break. I changed him. And it was my fault. Plus, the whole world knew that I was no good. Still to this day it is a bloodstain on my record. A scarlet letter on my forehead. It’s not worth it. It’s never worth it.

[nellekeysgaming]

It's best to just move on. The relationship will never be the same. The cheater will always be trying to prove their faithfulness and the cheator will always be doubtful and anxious.

[RBMastersinc]

Finally, someone who understands that forgiveness does not mean forgetting. Asd to that the fact that forgiveness does not mean they should not face the consequences of their actions. God forgave David for his adultery and murder but he still lost the child born from it. Actions still and should have consequences or else most will do it again. Mercy is not a requirement for every indiscretion just because you forgave them.

[mitulu]

u never get back what u once had..its not worth it...💔 better to leave then cheat..

[ForeverAutumn]

The spouse who was cheated on, will never be the same. The beauty in it all, is that you can grow and elevate into an unstoppable person! ❤

[natalieoverton]

AWESOME WISDOM!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING!!!🙏❤️

[Thee.Monstera.Deliciosa]

he's so right about how you can never go back to what you had before breaching the trust. it's really really true, and idk how people work through it.

[faithm]

When you are not communicating on an intimate level, there is emotional separation. 'Needs' need to be met, don't forget your spouse in your day to day. They are your 'BFF', cheerleader, your boo, they are your team player. Keep them informed of what is going on in your life. Even outside temptations and strategically how to avoid them. Yes! Come home and say 'I feel as if so and so is flirting with me and I'm uncomfortable, its tempting me'. If you have a project to do with them this month let your spouse know! Keep it all in prayer!

[souschef]

Shouldn’t cheat. But can’t get what you need at home is not always a lie. Just get what you need from a source that is not detrimental to your relationship with God first and your spouse second. Only God can meet all of our needs.

[amyflores]

"With God all things are possible" and our Marriage is Stronger and better after a year but the Trust is building slowly but lots of peace in my home now . Its not a quick restoration. It takes time and lots of work . Life Change and a relationship with Jesus .God First! Thank you My Lord And Savior

[kenamasunsmith]

This brotha speaks allot of truth. Not everything.. but I appreciate this family! They improve the state of mind if the black world. Keep moving in transparency and righteousness. Thank you.

[micheles]

And just because I forgive you, doesn't mean I'm going to take you back.

[nikkilong]

Yaaas I wanna see this whole episode. Cause he was on it 💯. You don't break trust and go back to the way it was. You changed the dynamic once you even thought about stepping out

[aarononeal]

My wife and I have been together since we was in high school in 98. We’ve had 2 children and 1 granddaughter. We both have been unfaithful and made the other hurt. But somehow someway made it through and came out the other side together. But this man is right when he says you’ll never go back to how it was. Some days I still struggle with the past but most days I still thank god for that woman.

[evarobinson]

When A spouse cheat, it's because THATS WHAT THEY WANTED TO DO, and sometimes believe they can get away with it!