EMELINE - this is how i learn to say no (Official Lyric Video)

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Credits:
Storyboard and directed by EMELINE
Animation by zack sekuler / anythingshop

Lyrics:

Fuck the apologies
Done being sorry for wanting the things that I want
I broke my back carrying baggage for strangers who only ever did me wrong

Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing?
I look good on my knees
Sucks you’re never gonna get me back again.

When I got healthy, did that make you hate me?
And now, I’m never losing sleep I’m over it.

This is how I learn to say no
Take your pretty words and go choke
People talk shit say they’re gonna get better
I held my breath I can’t hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no

All of the butterflies turned into vicious lies
I’d rather be on my own
Tired of people being sad
Told my mom to leave my dad
Sometimes you just gotta go

Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing?
I look good on my knees
Sucks you’re never gonna get me back again
When I got healthy, did that make you hate me?
And now, I’m never losing sleep I’m over it.

This is how I learn to say no
Take your pretty words and go choke
People talk shit say they’re gonna get better
I held my breath I can’t hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no

[somebunnytolove]

As a woman who is getting ready to leave her alcoholic abuser this song is everything to me. 8 years of abuse... 4 kids.. it’s never going to stop. He will never change.. this song gives me back my voice when I feel I have none. Thank you for creating something that I’m sure has helped many people.

[heathercrowe]

To create healthy boundaries, this song hits hard.

[ViksonMonroe]

This is the perfect song for all types of abuse survivors..It hits hard in a beautiful way! I'm so happy to find the full version released!

[christianap.]

People pleasers, softies, all those who have been used, Highly Sensitive People, Empaths, etc UNITE!!!!
This is our song😭😤✊️🔥

Edit: ahhhh thankyou everyone for the likes :)) Your sensitivity is what makes you beautiful and is your strength, regardless of what anyone says/feels about it. I see you all and I hope for love, healing, peace and strength on all your journeys 🤍

[cottonponylover]

This is finally a song I can truly relate to. I'm tired of apologizing for things I didn't do, tired of apologizing to ppl who just wanna abuse me. Imma take this song and use it as my motto for life now. Aint no mean person gonna waste my time occupying my mind and heart

[natalieyork]

Can't wait to play this on repeat for the next 72hrs 😌

[alanalilly]

My new favorite song. I’ve had a problem with setting boundaries for myself and I’m finally healing from my trauma!

[shannonparcell]

This song was stuck in my head for two months before it was released. The full track did not disappoint. This song means the world to me. It's like it was written for me. Thank you.

[kerrieleidig]

This is so intensely, _intentionally_ written. Lyrically creative, melodically & rhythmically dynamic... this song is instantly unforgettable. Well done, Emeline.

[seepymommaaa]

I needed this… so many people needed this 🥺❤️

[MountainEssence]

Masterpiece. Talk about a ‘belt it from the top of your lungs in the car’ song. So empowering. Thank you! I’ve been waiting for this to release!!!

[renee]

You have no idea how perfect the time was for this song when I found it. It’s really easy now to see the people I thought knew better for me get visibly uncomfortable when they realize they can’t fool me anymore. I see it burns them inside now that I’m using the very word they brainwashed me into thinking was wrong when I spoke it for myself. I can’t thank you enough for making this song❤️

[lairdofpawblins]

I just heard this song for the first time after today having my dad call me to say he's not coming to my wedding because it won't be "traditional." It hurt me to hear him say that, but I have to stand my ground and do what's right for me, not have my life revolving around what other people expect of me. I'm proud of me. I'm learning. It took a lot of growing up for me to get here.

[idgaffsss]

this women deserves more attention honestly speaking she's so talented and she's my favorite singer from now on

[coreykuefler-terweeme]

As someone who is a people pleaser and survived an abusive ex bf, this definitely hits hard. I need to set boundaries and not let people walk all over me.

[renivp]

Not a song I can personally relate to or need in my life, but really hoping it will help my friend gather some confidence and stand up for herself more. Sending it straight to her 🙌🏻

[thenewpyt]

since i first heard part of this I've been ryhtmicly looking it up to see if its been released yet, I'm glad the algorithm caught on and put it at the top of my home page the second I opened youtube after it was released. love the song!!

[Matete_Z]

The wait felt like a century but its worth it. I resonate on a deep level, this was very much needed !

[mahnoorkhan]

"people talk shit, saying they're going to get better.
i hold my breath, but i can't hold it forever."
my fav lines.

[ozislost]

This is literally me learning to set boundaries with my dad. It hits so hard I cant even put words to it.

I held my breath I can’t hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no