The Truth About Being Old and Alone!

In this heartfelt video, I share my personal journey as an Elder Orphan, delving into the realities of aging alone in today’s society. With the backdrop of gray skies and unexpected rain, I explore the growing phenomenon of Elder Orphans—those of us without family support as we age. I reflect on the cultural shifts that have contributed to this situation and emphasize the importance of planning for the future, maintaining our health, and fostering social connections. Throughout this video, I address the mental and emotional challenges we face and offer candid advice. My hope is to encourage all of us to confront our own realities and highlight the crucial need for community support as we navigate the later years of life.

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[adelefortin]

Mark Twain said: "The more people I met, the more I LOVE my dog."

[suzannederringer]

I'm 77, totally alone. No family - only a couple of cousins who are older than I am and don't live nearby. I have no real friends left except 2 who are in distant States. My health is good aside from an old knee injury. im living entirely on Social Security - it's all I have. My Cat - last of a large family of Cats - died 2 weeks ago. I can't afford a car now, and don't like driving, so it's hard to get around and make connections.
I was always self-sufficient and independent. Now I am anxious for the future. If I become physically incapacitated, i would prefer to die quickly. I AM alone.
The fact that there are thousands of people in similar situations, doesn't make me less alone.

[gohajourney]

Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world

[David-ozv]

I'm 67 and absolutely glad to be alone. People are toxic and fake and all people ever did for me was make things worse.

[susanshepard]

hi im 71, no kids, no family, and live in a foreign country. im a loner and that helps. I have 11 dogs, half of which were street rescues. My main hobby is plants, that keeps me occupied, theres always something to do. Having a hobby is crucial.

[kitsune]

At 65, I'm so glad my wife and I said no to kids. There are just too many ways that path ends badly.

[Shirley-zuii]

I am 67 and live alone a lonely old woman wish I had a friend someone to talk to I used to have lots of friends now I have no one sometimes I feel lost and wish I could just go be with the lord. Thank you for listening

[TheDAT]

I am 76, and one of The Left Behind.
I live in a little cottage in the English countryside. I am lonely and in constant pain from autoimmune disease. My miss my darling wife so much. I just have to look after my wifes dog, and then I will be ready to join her. I will make sure I do not end up in a care home.

[LaurenceDay-dp]

I am 81, and have lived alone and liked it since age 18. I like the freedom and the quiet, far from the maddening crowd. Elder orphan? Nonsense! More like Elder Free Spirits. I do as I please, and enjoy it.

[morriswilburn]

I am 71 and am an elder orphan. I have already gone to a funeral home and purchased and paid for a “pre-need” plan. Have also gone to an elder law attorney and did the legal will, living will, legal "health care agent", etc. But very few elder orphans have the financial assets to pay for assisted living. My greatest fear is ending up in a nursing home. So my plan is when my health declines, hang on at home as long as I possibly can, and hopefully die there. Until then, I plan to live, not just exist. Go out with friends, listen to music, walk outside every day, etc. Whatever happens will happen.

[danieloleary]

I'm 75 and alone. Life has no meaning, no purpose. I lay in bed in the dark silence and wish I could will myself to stop breathing. Loneliness, depression, isolation and suicide is an untold epidemic among the elderly. I have PSI( passive suicidal ideati on). If my cat dies, I die. If you have read this comment to it's end I sincerely thank you.

[MoniqueNguyen-lz]

I am 65 years old.
I am living alone more than 10 years.
I am still working part-time for 2 or 3 days = 18 hours to supplement social security benefit.
I am living in 1 bed room apartment with 4 female cats a 1 small male chihuahua.

I have no friend.
I have 1 son who did not bother to contact me.

I am fine with that.

I am blessed.
I got heartattack in july 2022.

I do not afraid to die.
I leave my life to GOD.

Hopefully my time come - GOD will take me to better place.

What can we do?
Do not worry too much.
Let it be.
Thank you 😊

[ajozad]

Re: the idea of a pet. I am a 70 yr old orphan, no friends. I had a beautiful dog for 10 years. I was retired when I rescued her and with no social life we were together almost every minute. My soulmate. She got very sick and died. It’s been 2 months ago and I haven’t stopped crying, flooded with tears as I write this. I know it will get better with time, but just a warning. If you do get a pet, make arrangements for their care if something happens to you. And if they go first, be prepared to have your soul ripped from your body. It’s unbearable.

[priscillawrites]

I remember the 3 generation homes of my childhood. Grandparents lived downstairs. Their daughter and her family lived upstairs. Daughter and husband went to work, grandchildren came home from school and were cared for by their grandparents, who made dinner for everyone. Interdependence, respect, caring, love. All this is missing now for most people.

[Gemelli]

I live alone now, but I enjoy it. My ex was very emotionally abusive so I welcome the peace. ❤

[arttorres-xq]

I personally enjoy being alone. When i was young, I always went out alone, my home, a refuge from society.

[lanamuir]

When I turned 65, I spent my first Canadian Old Age Pension Cheque on hang gliding lessons and a crate of champagne. I am now 73 and do not consider myself "elderly". I use the word "vintage". I have lived alone for years, did not raise a family and most of my relatives have passed. I fully intend on embracing life in all of its beautiful forms for the life I have left. A happy attitude has served me well.

[wan]

Being married or having a family does not always prevent "aging alone."

[margaretcampbell]

Children don’t necessarily mean they will look after you. Not only the USA but in Britain and Australia 🇦🇺 too

[ralphide]

You can live alone without being lonely. I'm 75 have 3 dogs that are my life. I cut wood every day for my wood burning stove. My nearest neighbor is a half a mile away. The nearest grocery store is a 60 mile away one way, I go once a month. I'm happy