Should Girls Make the First Move? | Christian Dating Advice

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[shaylifeflower]

i texted him first, and i always text him first so i guess i have already came off “desperate” but it’s kinda hard to keep waiting and waiting when you have waited for so many years, and don’t even have anyone to talk to

[unhy]

Wow! You guys are literally my age, but so wise and mature. I’ve watched almost all of your videos before deciding to subscribe as there is truth and wisdom in your lessons and life experiences. Such godly man and woman! Praise ❤

[eaglea]

Give tips on initiating! As a Mom they need to hear advice from Godly ppl not just Mom and Dad😂

[crys]

I just came across your guys’ channel and now I’m binging all your videos!! Y’all are so wise and getting this type of advice from a Christian perspective is so key, thanks guys!!👏🏼

[kasiakurowska]

I love you guys! You`re such a refreshing shower for my desperate mind and soul. As an almost 27 year old, pretty decently looking and quite a modest woman (taking care of all that washing stuff xd) almost a dentist, have never been pursued by any man... so can`t wait to see your next video!! This video as always so valuable :)

[michaeldyoung]

I like you guys’ videos. Thank you a lot! I do wanna say what Sadie did (following his IG first) makes a huge difference. She sent signals that she is at least not opposed to him (and using you guys words, making herself available), so he can easily initiate the conversation. I wish more girls would do this. When she takes a step forward, she finds happiness. When she takes a step backward like lots of women do nowadays, that only causes loneliness, for both her and the guys. What should guys do when girls he is interested in don’t make them available, or show no signals?

[lucycoons]

I love this you guys 💗 so grateful the Lord is leading you to make this type of content! Loving it! Bless you both 🙏🙏✝️

[eaglea]

So glad to read the ladder comment about yoga we see so many deliverances with people with yoga so glad you're not into it thank you Jesus

[evansheyliger]

Great video. One thing to note, a man might not pursue because he’s simply not interested, not because of fear.

[khristineestoso]

OMG THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEED RIGHT NOW

[frankrault]

It's such a relief hearing this, thanks a lot for sharing!!!

[mattersofthemind]

Thanks for this advice Sadie and Sam.
I was so into this church guy from age 12 till recent. I decided to let him go before my upcoming 18 birthday.
I believe that he's not the one for me
At first I blamed myself.
I thought I wasn't a good Christian. I felt like he judged me or took me to be not a good Christian because I am Catholic he's pentecostal.
I believe that at the right time God will bring me the right one
I couldn't chase them using my feminist mindset

[faith]

Brother, It was last week, God gave me some courage and I prayerfully texted a pastor's daughter when she all of a sudden reposted my WhatsApp status where I shared God's word. Never met her though, but her simplicity in her dressing and a little bit of what she shares online about God attracted me.
What is really demotivating is that she hardly says a word and replys in single words.
Now, I feel like not talking to her ever again.
Will that be a good attitude?

[marketa]

I just really love how you articulate and your voice, Sadie, you are a fascinating woman 😊

[emmabotaz]

So good!
Also, Sadie started the episode like Sam, you guys so cute.😂😊

[JohnnyPendleton]

When a girl makes a move it is around 85-90% that she will get with the guy.

[jennifergonzalez]

Such a blessing to hear all of this, thanks!

[chinazagrace]

What a awesome and informative vid ❤
Much love 😍.
Sadie : brush your teeth 😂😂🤣🤣 it really got me

[laurensmith]

What a coincidence! I’m reading the book of Ruth right now! Sweet little God wink.💕

[m_jay]

As a single guy with high functioning autism (Asperger's Syndrome) I would be absolutely taken aback in a very positive way if a woman made the effort and first move to ask me out!