UPDATE Wife Cheated On Me Because The Wrinkles On Her Face Made Her Sad... AITA

#aita #relationships #family

Story 1:
Update: Am I wrong for not giving my cheating wife another chance?
Story 2:
AITA for feeling insecure and confronting my wife after she gave her number to a guy at a cultural event?

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[noydb-]

Tell her "but you are going through a divorce" and divorce her. She cheated, end of story.

[johnowen]

"She seems genuinely remorseful..."
They all do when they think they can salvage it.

[MrMordo]

How dare i be held accountable for my actions.. she knew what she was doing confirmed she wasnt drugged or anything so she is 100% in the wrong and must face consequences

[Rj-ijko]

Story 1: LOOOOL
“her sister wasn’t very comforting”
What was she supposed to say…?
“Oh no sweetie it’s totally not YOUR fault that you slept with some random guy from the bar after hitting on him, clearly its all his fault”
I’m surprised, usually the friends/sisters ARE comforting in these situations.

[johndavidson]

When they accuse you of being the bad guy, then its time to own it. BE THE BAD GUY! But do it smart and as evil as you can think of.

[randomusername]

"think of your family"
Yes, think of your daughter. Her mother hates her to the point of nuking her stability for no reason. Keep her away from that woman

[Number-vtfl]

Wrinkles? Thats perhaps one of the dumbest reasons to cheat I ever heard.

[jonathanbrown]

S2
See, one of the reasons you get married is so you don't have to keep fighting other suitors off.
If you have to keep fighting suitors off, there's not much reason to stay married

[Roin]

S1 - The first day of the trip? 😂 She definitely planned this from jump.

S2 - She didn't think it was worth mentioning 😅. Don't let her stomp your boundaries. Someone who asked her for a kiss has her number but isn't blocked. Yeah nothing suspicious about that.

[justaboringvegetarian]

1: "It's not like she had an affair..." Damn. Mom on the betrayal train too. If I was cheated on and my Mom said that to me, I would have to leave before I slapped her. Definitely never speaking to her again. Disgusting.

[Bill-]

Possessive behavior, you don't own me. Famous last words of many a ruined marriage.

[kisstune]

My "X" button broke pressing "X" to doubt her friends didn't know.

[HikagefromtheHiddenSmoke]

She did this at 30. There's still 40, 50, 60 etc! Leave her!

[coreydorsey]

Whenever I hear someone say their mom/dad minimize their child getting cheated on, 9/10 it's because they cheated before too.

[juanhaines]

Story 1 nta in her own word she wanted to see that she "still has it". Plus its very telling that the mom is taking the wife's side. Leave her high and dry.

[Bleg]

2. Story:
If OP was being possessive then her giving out the number to someone that tries to kiss her is cheating and her not blocking him is the same

And her trying to gaslight him into believing it isn't a big deal makes the whole situation even worse

[AsakuraYukiko]

S1: Was SHE "thinking of her family" when she was getting PUMPED. In the birth canal her daughter came from !?
S2: Being called possessive, immature, controlling, abusive etc when it's unfounded is shaming language copium.

[UndeadEyes]

"Omg! A wrinkle! How do I handle this? Botox? Skin care routines? Nah! Let's have an affair!" ~Signed a 34 year old who just got her first round of Botox and starting a new skincare routine because of forehead wrinkles.

[fsNFM]

The ego boost is the feeling she is better than other women. And that feeling is really fragile

[TheCentralScrutinizerAgain]

they should always throw it back `oh so it`s ok if i sleep with someone else, too, right? think of the family, right? ` but funnily enough that would be different. bs. oh, and there`s ZERO doubt she got off telling him about her cheating. Cheats are Monsters