AITA for telling my mom I don’t want kids & making her cry in front of her immediate family?

AITA for telling my mom I don’t want kids & making her cry in front of her immediate family?

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[BaeBunni]

Man almost like traumatizing a teenage about pregnancy might not make her want to go through that ever.

[lavonnewr]

Both parentified her AND traumatised her, Smh.

[lapure]

Glad I don't have to deal with people like that, so weird

[Maninawig]

NTA. But why were you singled out to do the majority of the work? It's just serving to reinforce your stance.

[aquaria]

...nta. your mom embarassed herself and the rest of your family members live in the stone age. As long as u r happy doing u then thats all that matters. Maybe consider taking a step back from ur fam tho... they seem a little toxic.

[nancyriggs]

Mom is just going to have to deal with and act like a grown up.. You do not want children; and you do not owe her a grandchild.. I didnt think you said anything wrong..

[matthewscorner]

My mom was hopeful I would have kids one day. I told her in no uncertain terms that I would not want kids. She never brought it up again after that. Because she's a great mom who understands my boundaries and life goals.

[wolfpawz]

Should've responded with "oh well, after rasing my siblings and sacrificing my life and needs as every parent does when I was just a teen I figured I already went thru parenthood with my siblings why should I do it a second time"

[MondliNgwenya.]

The mom planted an apple tree and was shocked and appalled when apples grew

[nitarhodes]

No, you are not the a-hole. The entitlement is disturbing!

[Magicnun]

People need to mind their own business.

[TrueBlunty]

dude ur mom and aunt and uncle used u as an emotional punching bag. what they did is gaslighting, munipulation, and then mental abuse.

tell themm right away "with the way you all just acted i have made up my mind to be child free, i dont even feel safe at this point aroind you guys so why would i bring a child into the world around you?
you want me to have a kid? goto therapy first

[VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer]

NTA
If i was OP i would've sarcastically retorted to the aunt after she said "you're just selfish" by saying "yeh, i am selfish for not wanting something i don't want"

[williamsanders]

Yeah, OP kicked a dog alright...the female variety! OP's mom brought it on herself in so many ways.