1 Thing That Will Destroy Your Relationship? #relationshipadvice

[garycantu]

They also wrote that the one thing that will lead to Divorce is contempt. It is impossible to build a relationship when the relationship is deprived of respect.

[maxwelltodman]

Having other people or families in your relationship!!

[desimo]

I would agree with this, not only for marriage, but for life in general. When someone treats you poorly, it sticks with you for a long time and it takes a lot of positive interaction with that person before you kinda put aside that one bad time.

[Pioneer_Valley_Foods]

Things that will kill your relationship:
1) when *everything* he says is wrong;
2) a sexless marriage.

[stevet]

Respect; the glue that holds couples together. Too many people get into relationships and then marry with childish expectations and no idea what REAL respect means.
Commitment; putting yourself and your needs ahead of your spouses needs. Guaranteed to kill it.
Unrealistic Expectations; what else can you say except..grow up before you commit to a relationship.

[WilliamCooper-lf]

The fastest relationship killer for me, is living in the past, instead of enjoying the moment. You want to spend time with me, then you better spend time with me and not bring up the last 15 guys who failed to appreciate you.

[brendaburgner-williams]

Cancer is what ended my relationship. Freaking cancer! We were married for 35 years. He's been gone 5 years now. I'm not dating anytime soon if ever. Dating is too complicated now.

[markpukallus]

When u and ur partner can’t sit down and talk together that’s when it starts to fall apart

[markh]

My ex-wife has a 10, 000 to 0 record. I walked

[chriscristah]

AND it has to be a sweetly-honest sincere love, no games! 💞 BEST friends that enjoy each other on nearly every level 😇🙏🏽😍

[keithtighe]

True. Almost every reaction I received from my ex wife was negative. I finally walked away. I cannot even think of one positive reaction in the last 6 months of our marriage. One of the most remarkable reactions from her was this:

Me:
“Would you go out with me this weekend?” 3 days notice, as per instructions (she previously told me to stop asking her out with less than several days notice…true story).

Her:
“What is your plan?”

Me:
“I did not plan it yet. Last time I planned a date for us, you declined.” (A week earlier, I asked her to go ice skating and out to dinner that evening…you know, spontaneous style)

Her:
“I’m not going to say yes to a date you didn’t bother to plan”

This is not a joke. It really happened. It never got better. I left her 6 months later. This type of behavior was going on for years. I finally gave up.

[mikenagy]

I came home early one day so vacuumed the house, scrubbed the kitchen floor and got supper under way. Wife comes home and said I missed a spot.

[zyx]

Many school teachers use a 5 to 1 ratio when dealing with students.

[appealinbanana]

That’s really sparked my interest. I was talking with my daughter about compatibility with myself and her Mom and her and her boyfriend. My wife is not perfect and neither am I. But for the things she does I don’t like she massively exceeds with the things I do like. When that balance creeps closer to 50/50 you’re in trouble. 25 years married and if I had one wish it would be more time together and less time working out asses off the make ends meet. We’re not rich, but we have what we need and don’t want to lose it.

[prepperjonpnw]

There’s another thing that will end a relationship - When she says to you with contempt that no other woman would have anything to do with you - So you sleep with each of her sisters, her mother, her best friend and her boss! Yep, that brought an end to it rather quickly lol 😂😅😊

[larrycerenzie]

This is beautiful. But when one partner starts taking your positives and turning them into negatives, you know you are in trouble.

[nancykane]

This is accurate + true!!!
Negativity is a destroyer

[AJ-dtpz]

According to Jordan Peterson, you also need 1 negative to 11 positive, because too much positivity means no challenge.

[markstoute]

The no. 1 indicator that a relationship will fail is contempt.

[jacobmccandles]

Ms. Moore, you're a gem. As a somewhat disillusioned man, it's nice to have evidence that someone out there gets me. It don't matter that our paths will never cross, I feel just a little better for seeing your videos.
A man can live without almost anything, but "hope" ain't one of 'em. You give me hope. What I'm trying to say, Ma'am, is "Thank you".