The Overwhelming Angel : The Middle Mid Range Type A Narcissist

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This is one form of the narcissist who manifests as The Overwhelming Angel. What are the characteristics, how do they behave? Receive HG Tudor´s unrivalled analysis of these behaviours with reference to the relevant narcissistic indicators and dynamic.

[littad]

Thank you HG. You are by far the hardest working narcissist. The amount of time, energy and hours you put in. We are all very thankful for your advice. Enjoy the rest of the weekend. 👍☕

[No-Name-fp]

My 32 year old single Chiropractor Narc neighbor just had huge “angel wings, ” tattooed on his back.

Hmmm 🤔 watching this Overwhelming Angel vid is soooo edifying.

[bethwilton]

Thank you H.G. I experienced an unsettling feeling in my stomach as I listened to this video.As I started to become a little nauseous I reminded myself that I have escaped from that type of Narcissist long ago. My upset stomach settled down, but not before I was a physical & emotional reminder of my past which also confirmed my progress in healing & learning.I appreciate your assistance which has been paramount to my betterment. Cheers!

[Plethorality]

"but i was only trying to help".

And, "after all ive done for you".

[yepyep]

WOW! I was frequently overwhelmed by her constant contact and spending a lot of time together..I rarely felt grounded and balanced...me being inundated with her assertiveness was like a blitzkrieg attack that made it difficult to assert boundaries and have time to think before responding or making decisions in my best interest. Then the steamrolling and reprisal for voicing a different opinion.. It’s very insidious.

[rhondasisco-cleveland]

Omg, I have been around them all my life, but I now understand some behaviors I didn’t realize were behavioral before. 😵THANK YOU.

[bruvalinka]

Outstanding work and observation. Mind blowingly good. In my opinion your work is the bench mark for narcissistic observation.

[lenihassveasphaug]

They dont care at all. It's only for control.. Exhausting.

[jessrnny]

Devaluation results in a complete abandonment of their “help.” With a complete expectation on their part for you to act like an “adult” all of a sudden.

[srkcjjb-pq]

Even if you do get out and stay out before too much damage is done, it makes it almost impossible to trust the next person who tries to care for you. It turns care into a trauma trigger.

[siobhanodonoghu]

This is my ex that I just went no contact with 6 weeks ago. Every single thing in this video was carried out on a daily basis together with lies, betrayal, stalking etc. Although he kept hinting everytime I saw him to live together, I never moved him into my house. I was always feeling guilty, anxious and had to keep giving him constant praise to everything. When I challenged him or said no he sulked and acted like I just hurt him. When I had enough after 16 months, I broke up with him, finally, after the 10th time. Took me 2 days to get him to leave my house, staring at me with a sad face the whole time under the guise of "my car is not fixed yet" and cannot leave, as he had put it in garage the week before and had stayed with me. Sooo exhausting, confusing and debilitating. So glad to be free of that. Watching this video has certainly given me clarity. Thank you HG 😊

[misbah]

My Lord!!!! Have you been recording my life for the last 1.5 years??? This is absolutely 💯 spot on!!!

[joannemcevoy]

I have witnessed this type of behavior and been subjected to it as well. The supposed sincerity and caring came across as superficial and misplaced.

[deepinn]

Thank you HG. Your work is truly helpful. When I challenged & refused my overwhelming Narc angels actions of concern he could turn on the tears at the flick of a coin. Sometimes it turned into ugly crying. At first I was appalled that I had hurt or offended him. In time I became immune to his tears & by the end of the relationship it repulsed me.

[msPranksterPixie]

THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE NOW. Thank you so much HG. I knew it was toxic but the 2-3 times confused me so much, as not the type of abuse from my dad of actually violent men, but I knew it was controlling and creepy, dressed up as insecurity or worry.

Ahh it's a form of control/boundary violation under the guise of "help". I had two abusive relationships like this: they flew under my radar as it wasn't like my dad or the outright violent relationships.

"I'm just worried about you, so don't go to the toilet as it means walking past those men." / "I'm scared and need reassurance, that you're being faithful, please don't go for a drink with colleagues".

Best of it was... Both worked in mental health, and were inappropriate relationships:
First -- Age 27, lasted 18 months: my therapy tutor who "fell in love" whilst I was his student, and he put me off working in the therapy field for life.

Second -- Age 40, lasted 6 months, happened *during my hospitalisation for my breakdown* : a psych nurse from the first hospital I was in (I struggled with my first admission age 40, and I alienated the staff as breakdown, he used my alienation to latch onto me and spent his whole shifts with me for 3 weeks, hanging around outside my room at night watching me sleep One criminal restraining order sellotaped to my door.)

MAKES SO MUCH SENSE NOW.

[CH-jodb]

Man, these breakdowns are 100%. I hope there's not a whole subset of people that I fully fall into like this 😅

[solidcatink]

Although he is a middle mid range type A narcissist, he was only doing a little bit of this = feigning worry / pretending that he cared about any situations I might find myself in. What I found is that when I reassured him that I was fine, and that everything was under control, he seemed disappointed if not upset that I was actually fine ...

[amyd]

Spot on as always! 1 year free for me!!!

[BethElyonOmegaX]

What do you know about “the religious “ narcissist. The false prophet, the wolves in sheep’s clothing!! The pretend to do “Gods will” but do their own will first! Thank you for this video!!!

[grace]

To a T! A perfect description of that deeply destructive type! Your cadres are all so different and it is important to know what you encounter. Thank you for that video!