BUCK U: LIVE - FEAT. BLAIRE WHITE

Hey, friends! Today is a super exciting livestream because I have my friend Blaire White in the house. We’re gonna talk about a few different topics, and we highly encourage you all to leave messages for us in the live chat! Love, Buck

[theLadyjensen]

Y’all give me the courage to speak out about my detransition. I transitioned as a child… I now speak out for the kids. We need to protect the kids

[marcusdib]

Whenever you guys collab time flies illegally fast!❤ Love you both tons!

[d]

I came here as a fan of Blair, I don’t really know Buck but I have to say, you are SUCH a GOOD listener!! People often interrupt each other in discussions like this and it becomes a mess, and I love how you let Blaire say every little thought before you say your own thing. Love discussions like this

[RoseGoldPDX]

To touch a little on the point about people claiming their 2 & 3 yr olds are trans.. My son is 3, he loves long hair, watching me paint my nails, playing with my makeup brushes, dolls & everything else associated with being "female" but he's a boy. He is 100% male & I would never try to convince him otherwise just because he likes My Little Pony dolls. I can't even imagine the thought process of "oh this means my child is trans" or "this means my child is gay." Its mind-blowing & scary to say the least.

[dylchyl]

I always love Buck’s big thumbs ups when his guests are speaking ❤

[dannyboy]

Honestly, I love your both so much!

I am a gay guy from Eastern Europe living in the UK right now. My family doesn't understand what gay/trans even means... I've met a few trans people here over the years but they were not articulated enough or too woke to spread the message and feelings. They just demand respect and... Pity tbh.

I found your channels (both Blaire and Buck) about a year ago and oh my God! You have opened my eyes!
I truly stand by everything you say and it is so refreshing to have someone in that group with a common sense!
I know that transitionimg was probably the most difficult decision to be made in your lives but LOOK AT YOU KNOW... STUNNING AND FABULOUS!

I will not have children of my own but any kids in my family - they will learn about trans people from you. (obviously when the time comes, I'm not going to spread the 'agenda' to 5yo's) I'll be a cool and understanding guncle ❤

All the best to both of you ❤😘

[timhunter]

All I want in life is for someone to look at me, the way Buck looks at Blair when he's giving her the thumbs up. I love their relationship so much. Frigging adorable.

[Courier_Eris]

21:07 females are more neurotic than men and more prone to anxiety by nature of being sexually venerable. I think with many girls now days Trans is a way for them to distance themselves from the discomfort of puberty. We all remember how awkward puberty was for all of us, but for girls its worse bc not only do you feel odd in your own body, but your body started getting you attention that you never had before and its not always positive. I remember men in their 20s making sexual comments to me when I was 14. Not only is your body changing, and the boys are noticing and paying attention to your body changing, but that male attention also starts to affect your female friendships. Now there's a rivalry for attention that was never there before. When I was 15 there was a guy in school that was a friend and was very open to the fact that he had a crush on me. A female friend of a friend joined the group and seemed to revel in the fact that she started dating him, bragging about the sexual things they did, seemingly to get on my nerves even tho him and I weren't and hadn't been together (I already had a boyfriend). These things are hard to wrap your brain around when youre just going through it. But this is all normal. Trans seems to offer an "out" to dealing with the ups and downs of maturing. The thing that kills me is that the Trans movement leans on social sexual/gendered stereotypes to prove its point, thus reinforcing the stereotypes they say they're against

[jojowynne]

Wow! Double Treat! Of course I’m a huge fan of Blaire’s as well.

You two are amazing and trying so hard to protect kids and open a dialogue as Blaire said.

Thank you to both of you for all that you do. You both have beautiful energies and I enjoy watching and listening to such passionate people. Take care Buck & Blaire, love from your Aussie mate ❤️❤️

[sarahbartlett]

Thanks for this great conversation. I am utterly disgusted with the way Transactivism has become so cult like. The aggression and disregard for women, the horrific experimentation on children to affirm fetishistic adults, the sliding toward paedophilia being rebranded as some sort of acceptable sexuality and the money behind indoctrination of young people to accept they have the 'wrong' body has caused me to feel the need to be very firm and hold the line against these things. But I come from having been liberal and left leaning my entire life. I've spent a lot of time around the gay community and have also always loved the exploration and challenging of gender norms. Biology is real though and it means something however much the surgeons want to play 'God' with these children All that said, I am so grateful to you both for reminding me that I can still love any human's 'truth'. So much of what I'm seeing from the narrative out there is utter lies, bullying, indoctrination and erosion of the important safeguards for women and children. It is a total affront to me as a woman. I listen to everyone from Kellie Jay Keen to various trans and also dertransitioners. I agree with some things and disagree with others that all have to say. Part of this is that all of us can only ever speak from our own experience and learning. I loved this conversation because it was your Truth speaking. When you hear truth it connects us and brings us back to a place of humanity. I send you both much love

[C.Church]

I'm liberal (kinda still. Defo not conservative). But one thing that has grossed me out that has emerged in recent years is young people claiming that you do NOT get to grow, that you should know "right from wrong" with regards to many ills right away from childhood. I'm reminded by Liam Neeson revealing the story of his young manhood, a family member attacked by blackyouth, and how in his rage he sought anyone of that color at night looking to beat them up. Then he realized what he was doing and stopped. The lesson was growth, pain, trauma, redemption. Nope! He got canceled.

Same people who disallow growth will eyeroll at anyone older than 30 holding a 20yr old accountable "Aw cmon, they're just a kid. How old are you caring about the mistakes kids make?"

I can't! Make them make sense!!!

[willowherb]

I am well stoked for this, you two have both been my favourite commentators on these topics for like 4-5 years!

[MearaKat]

I’m also trans and 3 years ago (about 3 years into my transition) I was diagnosed with a dissociative disorder called OSDD-1A. I was SA’d as a child and I had never thought about it until we got that diagnosis but it did probably have something to do with it. I’m happy I’m my transition but I’ve been taking some things slowly since then and other than hormones and a few minor other things I haven’t had much done but I am getting FFS in a few months (finally!) but the reason I bring that up is I think understanding that and actually working through it and focusing on therapy has helped me accept and understand myself so much better and I’m blessed that I didn’t start my transition until I was like 22. I think therapy is so impossible to a healthy transition and it’s sad sad to me that some people aren’t getting that care because even if you are trans it’s so important to fully understand yourself before going through this process. I don’t think I could’ve handled this as a child and I would like to see some things put in place to protect kids. They should be able to experiment with expression and identity but I believe they like adults need the therapy and for kids I don’t think medical transition is safe and I’m so happy y’all are speaking out about this. Thank you 💕

[AFringedGentian]

LOVE YOU BLAIRE AND BUCK!!! Thank you SO much for everything you do. I love your precious precious friendship. FINALLY caught a live and felt like this podcast was historic. One to come back to again and again.

[Utoobehtesfreespeech]

Blaire is a class act. Its been so amazing to watch her mature, grow, educate, and still retain her values and be true to herself and her convictions regardless. And of course we love our "Tranpa". Compassion is gonna change the world. Thanks for the collab ❤

[SarahEyes-pq]

I'm so glad my transition was so restricted. I had to do 3 years lived experience and therapy before I was allowed anywhere near hormones. At the time I was upset about it but knowing now how important it is, I think this has to be properly supervised. I now feel Self ID is insane.

[reacting_to_stuff_]

As a gay man at 40 I’m going through the same thing, complex trauma isolation confusion lack of father etc abuse

[TheGeekess]

Blaire, I'm sorry you had to go through that. As a person living with PTSD because of SA, I get it. Your video about your therapy caused me to cry, and I'm crying now. I am not a cryer, but still. Blessings to you and Buck always.

[mayamae]

🥹it’s beautiful how much Blair loves and respects women.

[wendypatton]

On the topic of trans women “breastfeeding”, I am a retired labor and delivery RN /lactation consultant..this seems redundant to even say BUT having a newborn suck on an empty breast goes against everything we teach! I can’t believe it doesn’t fit under a type of child abuse (may sound extreme to say that ) BUT the newborn is wasting precious energy! The baby is working hard sucking to get nothing in return! Even women that have trouble with milk “let down” in the postpartum phase ( not enough milk) run into difficulties with newborns maintaining stable weight and stable blood sugars. This can be dangerous and these babies are closely monitored.