My Husband Is Rude And Disrespectful To Me | Paul Friedman

Does your husband is rude and disrespectful to you? Paul explains what you can do to make your marriage happy again.

I'm going to turn this around for you. I'm not going to let you get away with this. I'm not going to do "Oh, your husband is so bad," but here's how you can manipulate him. Here's how you could get through to him. Here's how you can get him to listen to you -- No
we're not going to do that.

I'm going to hit you with a bottom-line premise first. Didn't you get married to be happy? Of course, you did. When did the fighting begin? For most people, it started when you were selecting tuxes for the wedding, to be honest with you. Now maybe not in your case maybe you had a pretty good marriage or maybe you had a pretty good marriage by not really engaging that much because I'll tell you right now.

If your husband is routine now it didn't just start. This is something that has built-up, this disrespectfulness is something that has built up and I'm not saying you should take the blame for it. Don't get me wrong. He should not be that way and if he were talking with me and I was talking with him I would him. You don't act that way, you don't do that to anyone much less your own wife and I'm going tell you much less your own husband. Okay so to be a divorce mediator, I've seen it all. I know what's going on but then I had one couple and
it changed everything and I started healing marriages but I had to create a whole new way of looking at marriages and I started with a simple, "Why do people get married?"

You got married to be happy. You got married to be happier. You got married to be happy or every single day of your life and you felt right so that you could do so within your marriage that you married the right one is all right, it's so correct. What happened? It was just two of you. How come two of you couldn't keep it going?

You didn't have good communication obviously, you didn't really have the connection.
Obviously, let's fix that now. Look your marriage could be in one of two places. It could be
sort of wobbling which is why you're writing in. In that case, either of my books will be fine or you could write to one of our counselors at The Marriage Foundation. It's a free service and the books are good, Lessons for a Happy Marriage and Breaking the Cycle. They're
real templates for real marriage. It really lays things out simply succinctly and if your marriage is already starting to take a nosedive and it's heading towards divorce, don't get the books instead get one of the courses and the courses embody.

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Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
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[chrystelwilkins]

I have told myself that marriage is for better or worse and I am losing myself. I have fought for my marriage for 25 years and I have been called things that I would never call anyone.

[chrystelwilkins]

About 2 years into our marriage and we separated for 5 months and then he moved back in. It was good now he wants nothing to do with me.

[DerbeVanterpool]

I found out that I have cancer two years ago, and my husband is very mean and rude to me. He is having an affair with a younger woman. I can understand that man do cheat, but he does not have to smeared in my face and treat me so ugly this really hurts.😢😢😢😢😢