What a Typical Japanese Wedding is Really Like

Typical Japanese wedding and japan wedding culture. Japanese weddings consist of two parts - a ceremony where they exchange vows, and a reception followed afterwards. A typical Japanese wedding ceremony and a Japanese wedding reception can be quite different than western weddings. In Japanese wedding culture there is a dress code. Let me just say it’s typically a lot more strict in Japan as there are countless rules, especially for females. For example, women can’t show their shoulders, knees, toes, wear furs or animal prints. They must wear only nude stocking and not black ones and the list goes on. And when you attend as a family of the bride and groom, you must absolutely follow the rules so they don’t lose face. For friends though, there is some gray area. When you attend a Japanese wedding, you must absolutely bring a wedding gift, which typically, only cold hard cash, called Goshugi. No wedding registries really exist. Japanese don’t even know what that is. In addition, it’s critical to use a special envelop, specifically designed for the wedding gift where the ribbons are made to not be untied. And the amount itself is important. Friends and co-workers are expected to give at least 30,000 yen per person, about $225, while cousins and relatives gift at least 30,000 to 100,000 yen and immediate family members are expected to gift even more.

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[TanJSKeith]

the moment when paolo realizes he is considered an immediate family member was pretty heart warming

[sophiaisabelle]

Weddings are exquisite, and the Japanese wedding ceremonies totally reach that type of standard. This is documented well. Keep up the good work.

[allyourgardeningneeds]

Damn, with all these rules I guess we're lucky that the family allowed you to make this video. Appreciate it, lovely as always! <3

[Chrrs]

Its so funny to see Wolfie looking more and more like Paolo with every video.
You 100% see who the father is in this little one :)

[Coffee_is_ready]

Wolfy walked down the aisle in such a serious manner. So cute. Job well done.

[hopeliveshere]

My God! The bride is absolutely gorgeous. Her dresses are so beautiful. I can’t even imagine the hard work that went into planning this day. Wolfy’s walk down the isle is so adorable

[mayanderes]

It’s so nice that your family was willing to share this with us! 🙏🏻 much thanks and wishes for their happiness!!

[vamosnippon]

I’ve been to many weddings in the states and one time I got invited to Japan for a wedding. I was so surprised how everyone dressed very formal. I feel like in the states, not everyone wears a suit or tuxedos, but most men at the wedding wore tuxedo and some in suits. On top of that, the meal was phenomenal! It was a French course meal with the finest quality ingredients and meat from different parts of Japan. Japan just do things at a different level, I was so impressed.

[ZeroHunterX]

That’s a amazing video Paolo! Wolfy did a great job as a ring bearer and Eri looks very beautiful as a bride. May Eri and Junya’s life be fill with happiness in years to come!

[gailcrockett]

My son, a Black American married his longtime JAPANESE girlfriend years ago in a very, at the beginning traditional ceremony-at a historic registered temple in northeast Japan followed by 6 wardrobe changes by the bride, to a very modern ending reception celebration. It was quite a cultural learning experience. And, even though I do not speak Japanese I could easily figure out the activities including at the temple. Truly unforgettable wonderful experience. Oh, and yes, for couples with children, a small crib was available at the reception. And, because I jumped up and started dancing (though my son told me not to do this), everybody, especially the older guests also joined me 😂 when the music piped in began playing top tunes of the day. Thank you for this video!

[debscharles]

Very stylish and classy wedding. The bride looked beautiful in all her dresses. I smiled all the way through, so uplifting. Many blessings and well wishes to the bride and groom 🌺

[klippitykloppity]

I love that the rules implemented are understood and respected by everyone in attendance. Also, the Families being introduced to one another before the ceremony, is such a lovely custom. What a fabulous glimpse into a Japanese Wedding.

[niaputri]

Congratulations Eri and Junya! May God bless your marriage with happiness and prosperity!

[margotk]

Congratulations to Miko’s sister and her husband’s marriage union! The wedding looks elegant and sophisticated!

[lpxmnhp]

I'm Japanese and have been working in the wedding business for about 10 years, but I was surprised to see so much unique Japanese culture! It was very interesting.

[GirlTalksFish]

Very interesting! Thank you for showing us what a modern-day Japanese wedding can look like and for sharing such a joyous occasion with us. Congratulations to the newlyweds!

[TheLinKrust]

I loved the Japanese weddings i was fortunate enough to be invited too - I was a teacher and many of my former students were kind enough to invite me. It was always a beautiful event, especially for those who had traditional Japanese ceremonies ahead of more western ones. While the ceremony was private for family, seeing them in their kimono before they changes into a western style dress was amazing - I still have the hikidemono after nearly 30 years.

[i.h.]

Every day I get more and more grateful that I found this channel during pandemics. Your family is a joy and a blessing and Japan is so dear to me, hopefully someday I can finally visit there! Loved this video, Paolo, thank you and Maiko for such quality content! Best wishes

[emilyg]

In the Philippines, the wedding video is edited quickly so guests and the couple can watch it during the wedding reception. Its an extra cost but so worth it!

[kinggphg]

Well done, Wolfy! It's wonderful to see you growing up and becoming more and more amazing with each passing day.