5 Ways On How To Deal With People Who Put You Down

Dealing with people that put you down can be hard, but these 5 ways will change that. It least it's changed that for me.

There is always someone in our lives that tries to put us down. I really don't get how people can get satisfaction from putting other people down. It truly gets on my nerves... but how do you normally react when someone puts you down?

When someone talked about me negatively, I used to let it dictate who I was. If someone didn't find me attractive, I thought I was ugly. If they said I wasn't talented, I believed them. Maybe you can relate. So overtime I realized that I will NO LONGER allow others dictate who I am! You shouldn't either! So hopefully these 5 ways help change your mindset like it has changed mine. Bump the people that are putting you down! You're WAY better than them!

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[DepressionTalks]

I made a more recent video on how to build your confidence. This will help you mentally when it comes to people putting you down! You got this✌🏾🖌️

[MrAFLmaster]

Those who bring others down are either fearful you'll end up above them, or they're already beneath you.

[theonetrueking]

i keep reminding myself that people just talk and walk away, so it's not fair to ruin my reality because of someone's opinion that's not even gonna be in my life later

[mr.spyrothedragon]

When people belittle you it’s best to laugh em off just laugh, it would confuse em like why he or she not getting angry

[marylmendezbroker]

When I got my real estate license, everyone I thought were my friends, just started tearing me down. My feelings were hurt, but then I realized I AM happy. I am sorry if you are not.

[makanakamusengi]

That's the reason why I hate school 😥😔

[tonz]

genuine person, I see glitters in your eyes. Thanks buddy

[nadiarehahn]

I'm amazed you only have 6.5k subscribers, it's great to see someone so honest and strong-minded on the internet. Good luck to you!

[Grace-tdkl]

Having a tough couple of weeks full of negative people putting me down at work, future buyers for my house, and my close family and friends. This helped so much!

[Echo_Kilo_]

Thank you brother. There is a person who always tries to put me down at my work because of my language barrier. I’ve been struggling with comprehension, but the guy keeps pushing me to do something and makes me feel the struggle in front of people. I was so overwhelmed with the pressure, and he seemed to enjoy the situation. Since I feel depressed I searched and found this video. after watching it, I feel so much better. Say again, thank you so much and God bless you

[Narpose]

I usually think about it too hard, get neutrally angry, and eventually go on the verge of tears. I just don't have a way of cheering myself up. And I feel vulnerable

[neelapatel]

Thank you young man. As a 50 year old mom, I wish I'd seen your videos years ago. But still helping me now. Blessings

[LovedbyHim]

I appreciate this video and wanted to add a side note; sometimes when people say, “You have way too much energy this morning, ” they don’t always mean it in a negative way. I say this because I actually said that to a cashier at the grocery store, but I was only saying it because my next statement to him was, “Please give me some of that positivity!” I actually loved his energy, because I had gone through a rough morning that made me depressed! I guess that’s why we can’t put too much stock in what anyone says because all have different intentions and opinions..it’s how/if we choose to perceive/ accept them that matters!

[russianturtle]

The thing that’s sad is that my family are the ones that put me down

[ellelenihan]

i’m only 30 seconds into this video and i’m sobbing. when i first clicked on this video i thought you looked like the kindest, sweetest, happy, most genuine soul and for you to say you had depression tore me apart. i hope you get better and find your happiness! you deserve it! thank you for you!

[Tyndaal]

I still live with my dad at 25, solely because he's old and frail and my brother and sister won't take care of him. He puts me down every single day for having "no get up and go" or because I'm lazy or some what or the other. I'm a clean person, I work, I workout 4/5 times a week and still I feel I believe him. What would you do? Half of me wants to leave so bad, and the other half knows staying is the right thing.

[hollywonch]

My two older sisters are the main people who put me down. They don’t think it affects me because I just laugh or I “fake” sadness. I always keep it to myself. Next time they do that I’m just gonna walk the opposite way and if they ask what’s wrong I’m gonna let out those demons in me and I get MAD when someone pisses me off. Like REALLY MAD

[ssrbunior]

i love that you are open about this because im not diagnosed with it but i know i suffer and fight with this everyday (depression/bipolar/anxiety) of my life and i fill lile its getting worse because im running out of ways on how to cope with it or maybe ive never really coped with it and just thought i was the whole time. but im glad i came across your channel. you seem very happy and dont we all. i would have never thought you delt with this. your smiling through the whole video but thats our best defense mechanism. i love your positivity and i think people just "hate" that they either cant or strive to be positive like others and if you cant be like them you have to bring them down

[Mountiansidecalm]

My brother belittled me for dancing while working. I feel so much better after watching this video thank you for posting this.

[soul]

Yeah I've had the head of the university faculty call me a slow learner because it has been taking me longer to get my degree in nursing. I've pulled out of subjects often and failed some for non completion for withdrawing after census. Why? Because I was dealing with a lot of things in my life. From changing jobs, moving home, birth of my son and family violence. At one point I was the sole carer for my 6 month old son and had to get help from my parents just to keep my job. So much has happened since I started the degree back in 2015.

None of that matters to the school though. I got the deadpan response that I need to finish the degree asap and not let external factors affect me. I felt like saying so I should sit down at my desk and read textbooks whilst the cops are dragging my wife away to charge her over domestic violence? I should read books when she went overseas for a couple of months when our son was so young? I honestly think the academics have no clue...definitely no compassion.