Why you can't stop playing the victim... #selfimprovement #victimmentality #changeyourlife

The main reason we can't stop playing the victim is because the reasons for being hurt, or wronged, can seem SO VALID! We make the mistake of thinking that the reason makes it right to feel this way, i.e. like a victim. But the stronger the reason the stronger our victim mentality!
Yes. When we understand that it's our victim mindset that is actually giving us the reason that says playing the victim is the right thing to do, then we are free.
This is what self help has taught me - because I use to believe ALL the reasons to be a victim.
If you want to overcome your victim mindset, remind yourself that the stronger the reason, the stronger your victim mentality!!
Harsh, but true.
Gabriela x