How Do You Know if You Made the Right Decision? | 3 Filter-Questions

The ability to make good decisions is one of life's most important yet underrated skills.
Because, let's face it, a big part of where you are in life right now has to do with the bigger decisions that you made and acted on.

But how do you truly know if you're making the right decisions?
And how do overcome second guessing yourself, the 'Fear of Missing Out', or Analysis Paralysis?

In this video I help you minimize the decision making anxiety and guess work with my 3 Question Decision Making Filter. These questions will help you move forward with more confidence and clarity.

1️⃣ Does this path help me grow? If yes,
2️⃣ Is it based on ego? If no,
3️⃣ Does this path excite me? If yes,

And remember, you can only make the ‘best possible’ decision for you based on the information that's available to you!

In the comments, let me know your thoughts! 👇

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[bethlehemhailu]

"...except having children or skydiving without a parachute." Loved that.😂

[AksharRamsundra]

You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen with the most beautiful advice I've ever heard.

[shahid]

I am somebody who feared change. To an extend that when it was inevitable to change I got depressed! I was looking for certainty and fearing failure. Then I read Who moved my cheese! It changed every thing. After I made that decision there was uncertainty and i did fail. But it all worked out in the end. I did get what I cherished. And am happy that I made that decision.15 years later I am making yet another big change to my career! This time it is voluntary and not inevitable. I re-read who moved my cheese and your video made me confident again.

[CuteBamboo]

Your content is SO valuable and helpful Shadé. I hope you know it and get all the blessings, success in tour life and the recognition of your work that you deserve. Thank you very much for helping us take decision without fear.

[RussianBritish]

Shadé, Finding your channel was already a life changing experience for me. So many wise thoughts. Hope to hear you on stage one day. Keep going, thought thoughts change life's!

[r.e._russe]

I found this and I'm so grateful! I struggle with decisions, even minor ones. I'm trying now to decide on a direction and this gives me some much needed guidance 🙏 many Blessings

[ehsanghorbankhani]

God bless you, this is what I really needed it. Tomorrow is my first day at work as an intern, and I was so anxious and sad because I was dwelling with tons of thoughts whether if this was a wise choice or not. This gonna be a huge challenge for me as this is somehow new area for me and the task by itself is so demanding.

[tunchunairarko]

This video made me realize that one of the biggest decisions I've made in my life was actually right. I've been constantly overthinking about that, which was making me miserable. I think now I will think less about that.

[akash-hxut]

This totally comes at a right time! It soothed me to believe that this less travelled path, wherever it leads to, will be worth the journey!

[hawrabadri]

Today I taken a decision which make me uncertainty ..but watching your video, I understand that I taken a right decision...thank you so much... God bless you

[LetsBeHuman]

I came across your videos in 2021. I don't why I feel soo positive after watching your videos. I decided to watch all your videos during my winter break, but couldn't. Starting it now.
Video no: 1 done. THis is very helpful filter. Thanks.

[ankushwakchaure]

It’s not about the decision it is about anticipation of obstacles during course of decision, prepared for surprises and plan how to respond to it, so that it becomes more informed journey rather than surprises

[Allegrajoy]

Thank you Shadè! This is what I need in the moment. It helps me separate ego and the fact really well. Will stay tuned for another good video😊

[Musiqall]

I believe change is always good if it comes in my way! It refreshes me from within, keeps in look forward for the next moment to happen and cherish the moments where I can share the effect of change with others!

[RAKESH]

Hi, thanks for sharing life saving techniques. My practice was, 'assuming' I have taken the decision and see if my mind is nervous or calm, the calm decision is the right decision.

[Agarcha]

Came across your motivational videos two days back ..addicted to these now ..thank you ..these are very helpful

[priyaranjan]

I have been running after doing a Data Sciences course, (a largely ego-driven decision) but your video opened my eyes...looking forward to becoming a successful YouTuber one day - I know it won't be easy, but CAN be just as rewarding as a full-time job with Google, with foresight, imagination, and perseverance. I confide in you that I watch a lot of educational and musical videos on YouTube. 😃 😊

[nq]

Hi Shade, your videos are amazing. It’s good to see a young women like you have so much knowledge and confidence. Your advise and tips are highly beneficial.

[evnsriram]

I'm just going thru something which made me question my decision and here is your video helping me with the tips! YouTube probably read my mind! Thanks for the tips!

[jinkycastor]

Glad I found this video, I just accepted the role and I know I made the right decision. Thanks for sharing this ❤