Why results come when you stop caring

This is a phenomenon that I see come up repeatedly with my clients and viewers. Does not caring really make the results come more? I explain and talk about what the fundamental principle at work here is.

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Hi my name is Lloyd and I used to be a guy who had absolutely no luck with women. I had a much easier time with doing physics and playing sports. They made sense and people, especially women, just confused me. However after years of putting myself into uncomfortable social situations I finally began dating the women I wanted to date and found out that most of what I thought before wasn't what actually made men successful.

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Outro song: Thorn Beats - Drift II

[PrinceJoshTheGreat]

Every girl wants what she can't have. Girls can tell when a guy has better things to do or doesn't care that much, and they love it.

[dallasmed]

This is so accurate. Met a girl on Tinder and we talked a lot. Almost too much. I blame that on this quarantine, but we were really into each other. Then... it just fizzled. I think we knew each other too much before we met.

[reagangovender]

If you stop chasing but still expect results you don't stop caring. To truly stop caring is to not expect any results and be happy with your state of being whether what you want comes, or not.

[anpinfotainment]

To sum up, Confirmation bias disappears when you're not too focused on individual results, having passion and drive beyond getting a girls attention will bring the attention, and being relaxed and in the flow state will prevent overthinking. Good advice. Thanks Lloyd

[Booki]

This does not only apply to women, but social relationships in general.

[ossen]

It shows that you have options and more women want you - preselection and being a desirable man

[maxgreenwood]

What’s also helpful about not caring is that it can help you realise sometimes they didn’t give a crap about you anyway.

[dareyfairy]

The only issue is that when I stop caring, I become invisible. And the shitty thing is that I bet a lot of ppl don't know what I'm talking about.

[eyeofeagle]

Amazingly said bro... especially the last thing about short term & long term people was lit! Nailed it❤️🔥

[DjeMeow]

Short and effective videos! Thank you, I am learning attraction myself too; you are a big inspiration for me.

[nicke]

I had a girl I was into and was investing more into her than she was into me. We went on a first date and it was ok but nothing exciting and she gave me the cheek. I asked her on a second date and she said yes but blew me off so I just backed off and stopped all contact. Ive been on my purpose and busy doing my own thing and have been posting the stuff Ive been doing on fbook and now shes been hitting me up and watching all my stories and liking my stuff lol. Not interested in her anymore though

[reydarouaghi]

Most underrated chanle about dating advice for men on YouTube

[reckjay]

It’s so funny how tables turn on women when you mirror their actions, like naw don’t act like your interested now i already have a 4-5 girl rotation

[TheSenseiKai]

What's bugging me is this :
You have someone that really cares for you and your well being. Why would someone not like this?
Like let's be honest. There's a reason I chose you and I do not seek anything else. Why would you seek me when I find another option? This seems to me just a mind game that only makes things complicated. Why can't it be more simple? More direct.

[mattalexandrescu]

Keep up the videos. You obviously have a lot of experience with girls and you're trying to spread the knowledge you've acquired over the years. You're an awesome guy

[philmstudk]

Every time I “stop caring”, anyone I was talking to stops talking to me and forgets about me and I don’t take the initiative to reach out to new people and I end up totally alone.

[arsitek]

this is accurate 100%, this happened to me when I'm choosing to not caring with them anymore

[CoolBoyz]

This is so true. I feel like this girl I’m trying to go after is losing interest in me and I can tell that I have been really needy and pushy in our relationship. I’m going to take things slow and focus on myself and my goals and let everything else play out thank u so much

[elisatseng]

That art of being detached! You’re in the best place when you’re happy with the outcome either way. It’s not just in dating but in other areas too! It’s just women and men don’t want someone who’s needy at least not from the word get go. Not caring about the outcome doesn’t mean you’re not compassionate or caring. Be happy and just go with the flow.

[alphadogmindset]

Indifference, always i intriguing, big love men, stay up and ALWAYS IMPROVING