Brenden’s Reflection

In this week’s episode of Cappy x HDWGH with Mpoomy Ledwaba, Brenden takes a seat and interviews Mpoomy on the chapters and topics like growing pains, the seven-year itch, gifting, and being a good wife.

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Key Topics:
1. Afilmations with Cappy [01:10]
2. Chapter 15: Growing Pains – If Mpoomy could get married again as the person she is now, what would she change about her approach to traditional roles? [02:47]
3. Gifting – What it meant for Mpoomy to be seen that way, even though it wasn’t her love language. [04:38]
4. “In that moment of letting go, I freed myself from living a life of limitation” – Mpoomy navigating her relationship with music and serving God. [06:22]
5. The dynamics of a healthy marriage vs. two people who are thriving in their careers. [09:40]
6. The seven-year itch explained and fixing the foundation. [11:17]
7. Why it was important for Mpoomy to share what she loves most at the end of the book. [15:39]
8. What Brenden loves most about Mpoomy’s book. [18:57]
9. “We’ve always had each other, carried each other, protected each other, hurt each other, but ultimately forgiven each other.” [20:21]
Reflections: 10. Mpoomy: What Brenden thought it meant to be a good husband when growing up and what he thinks makes a good husband now. [21:01]
11. How it was for Brenden living with the person writing this book. [23:09]

[molelekwaledwaba]

As a day one, this is such a full circle moment. This duo is phenomenal-the work ethic, support, consistency and progressive mindset, the resilience, the strategic and progressive mindset is what we can define as excellence.

[TheDesignedLifeWithShiloh]

My favorite episodes are definitely the ones where you feature Brenden. Such a wise man. Wise couple. This was amazing 🎉

[katlegoluke]

Guys I genuinely think our love journey or a new podcast with you both would be exceptional. I cannot explain the power of hearing you both speak in the same room.

[nzalisekocutu]

One thing about Mr Ledwaba, very smart and well articulate. Some of the questions he asked, I asked myself. And the answers Mpoomy gave were enlightening. Thank you guys for a beautiful conversation. ❤

[Gods_Corner]

I love how Mpoomy looks at her husband. She was smiling throughout

[LeeSerage]

You can tell he still gives her butterflies. ❤️

[thatotg]

"We've always had each other,
carried each other,
protected each other,
hurt each other,
but ultimately forgiven each other."

[delight]

I can't begin to describe how this installment made me feel. But what I observed, love is beautiful when you always choose each other. Mpoomy was blushing from the beginning of the episode until the end 😊.

This is a God ordain marriage and just because it is, doesn't mean they not working on it. May God protect this union.

Love them so much ❤️

[mbalinkosi]

the part where Brandon voiced out his thanks/gratitude for covering the idol journey got me emotional

[mercymushaisano]

“I can sacrifice if the goal is clear” 👏🏽👏🏽 Brendan dropping bombs!

[wametravels]

Of all the “How did we get here” series, this is the one I enjoyed the most.

[miss_tsueanne]

😮 ...wait a minute you got me at "you were trying to help God" We do that all the tine without even noticing and because we come to Him with a plan, we become deaf to his voice and keep imposing our plan. Thank you for that

[anelisamjuleni]

I could listen to you two speak the entire day. Loved it!! ❤

[zukiswamhlonyane]

I like the connection you both have, you are brightening each other's light. 😊

[ngobeni_kile]

No man, Brenden’s questions were impeccable and so well thought out👏🏽, this was such an amazing episode you guys 🫶🏽💕

[chiozyahephzibahsakala]

These guys are actually approaching 10 years in marriage!😭😭😭🤩🤩

[philelszondani]

I cried 19:36 when Brendan said “ thank you so much for the idol’s journey “ 20:09

[ParadigmShiftAt]

Brenden's Reflection is such a good title for this video not because he's giving his view on the book but because Mpoomy is literally his reflection, his mirror, his other half. ❤
I love it!

[zinziswagumede]

I got my copy yesterday💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽. I bought it to read during my holiday in my mom's house emakhaya, drinking coffee from an enamel cup with the sound of the sheep and all. I hope I can wait🤞

[malebosegwapa]

I think they are doing so well marketing this book, now I feel like I really need it. Loved this videos btw