How To Stay Classy In An Argument

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[iluhyoumucho]

“Not every action deserves a reaction” ❗️

[BunsBooks]

My main strategy for dealing with arguments is “don’t match the energy”. Do not match someone’s aggression or raised voice with your own, let them figure out that they are the ones acting like a fool. They usually calm down after they realize you won’t reciprocate the same behavior.

[dellagillianwinterton]

When I found out my then husband had another woman pregnant (we had our lawyers in the room) I could have got mad, but I didn't want to give him that pleasure. I took deep breaths, and asked him how many months along.
He said 6 months. I asked, so you know if it's a boy or girl? He said that it was a girl. I replied and said, "well then our son will have a sister."
When they walked out my lawyer congratulated me and said That she had never seen such a lady before. I promise, fighting only makes them happier, to see you weaker.. be above that!

[devdev]

What I've learned from my therapist: "give a response, not a reaction".

[wt]

I need to watch this every month before my period approaches. PMS really messes my hormones up...

[tabithatrenary]

What helps me not get angry is remembering the other person doesn’t have anything that I desperately need. I don’t need their approval, validation, acceptance, etc. Then I’m free to listen to them which usually disarms them of their anger. It’s worked for me for years. 😃👍

[kinndah]

I was raised on the notion "Don't raise your voice, improve your points."
In our culture, 1 who holds themselves elegantly, is grateful, is eloquent, and educates themselves, regardless of financial status, is classy. That rule is set in stone in our Druze culture.
I also can't agree more with the therapy advice. Keeping my emotional health in check and always having guidance is important and decreases stress significantly. Even if I go just once a month.

[ronnetteharvey]

I love walking away. When they say where are you going I say I can't talk to you like this. They go nuts.
I haven't been angry in about 8 years.

[janah]

I adore that sweater-earrings combination! ♥️

[jessicaparmenter]

If it’s not going to matter in five years, then don’t waste five minutes getting upset over it. 💋♥️

[Briae]

This is for sure the most difficult lesson to learn for so many of us. I usually go on runs 10 km or more when I am angry. I take a full hour to run it all out.

[Mmmmkaaay]

I noticed that using "I messages" really work.
" I feel frustrated when you interrupt me. May I please finish?"
" I feel scared when you raise your voice. Would you be willing to lower your tone?"
Taking ownership of our feelings and then asking for what we want is quite effective.

[MissBlissyful]

“Once you’re above the need of validation where you’re proving them wrong or having the last word said, when it doesn’t matter so much, when you don’t care, you set yourself free...” Powerful.

[LeonaZiyan]

I love you Your true, authentic self is shining through these recent videos, the sass, the wit... Love it. Love you, thank you for existing.

[hensmom]

The scripted "reality housewife" show is full of fake women, greed, jealousy & high drama. They argue and fight continually making women look bad. We need more shows with women doing good positive things for others and showing healthy friendships.

[kritikitti]

Proverbs 29: 9 If a wise man contendeth with a foolish man, whether he laugh or rage, there is no rest. 😘 Best to walk away if possible.

[irenewottreng]

Dr Kevin Leeman said long ago, just say, “ You could be right.” and then walk away.😎

[shannonrolfes]

I try to live by the motto "You never regret taking the high road."

[eva-nrbs]

I agree with managing the action of "screaming", "being drama queen" BUT it is OK to get angry, it is OK to let people know that you are upset. If you don't, and you will hide your anger in layer of "fake calmness" then that's path that leads to powerlessness and

[christianlady]

I was very aggressive in arguing before. Then I developed my relationship with Jesus Christ and my life is full of love and I argue less, calm, gentle than before. Sometimes when I am offended I think that WWJD then I’ll let go. You can try it😊