Jill's Memoir 'Counting the Cost' - Top 10 Bombshells

#countingon These are the top 10 most shocking revelations from Jill’s new book 'Counting the Cost', where she discusses in detail what caused a rift between her and the Duggars.

SOURCES:
COUNTING THE COST - Jill Dillard
TLC - 19 Kids and Counting
TLC - Counting On
Instagram @jillmdillard
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Instagram @jingervuolo
Youtube - Dillard Family Official

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[RealityCharm]

Have you ready the book?? What shocked you the most?

[lorrmurrcoch]

To think that a father expects his grown, married daughter to ask his permission to wear jeans or a nose ring, blows my mind. JB is a power hungry narcissist!

[ZannaDArcy]

Right. So Jill's trousers and piercings ruined her younger sisters, but him robbing them of their childhoods and privacy and allowing a predictor to roam free in the family was just peachy. JB has earned no respect from anyone

[barbarabavier]

JB didn’t want them to have their own ministry because he wouldn’t have control over them.

[JaneDoe-emzi]

I can't wait to read it. These poor kids.

[nickiehines]

Women in this cult have so many Father wounds .. tragic .. breaks my heart.

[nickiehines]

Jim Bob met his match !!
Derrick can see thru his BS.

[nothanks]

I mean, they trained her to be the family spokesperson. She has absolutely fulfilled the role, just not in the way they anticipated.

[gaminggrannyyaall]

JB and Michelle are still running around saying that they need to meet privately to make amends. He means so he can intimidate her back into his control. He's a greedy, greedy man who has to be only one in control. As far as Michelle, I would hate to think of what he has made her sign or put her through. Umbrella of authority always states that wife is under the husband. In other words, what JB wants JB gets and anything less is disrespectful. I found his courtroom behavior and the Megyn Kelly interview, telling he didn't want certain words phrases used and also he did more damage to the girls by saying he didn't remember what happened to them. So, now the kids that took the 80 thousand, signed NDA's. JB makes Michael Lohan seem like Father of the year. I more and more see why they will not be able to fix their issues because it's JB's way or the highway.

[mardellahenrichs]

Can’t stand looking at KB knowing what kind of parent he is, he is so greedy, who makes their kids pay for everything a child needs . Food clothes everything ??? WT H ?? He will try everything to keep all the money that they kids. EARND the kids not JB, no one was interested in him or his wife, he would not have had a show without the kids, I always thought he gave me the creeps, kinda like Josh . He ripped off all of his kids, what kind of dad does that ???

[valeriemeyd]

Here's a question I don't notice anyone talking about - If Jim Bob thinks it's ok to pry in Jill's marriage, would he have been ok if his own dad was in charge of Michelle? Correct me if I'm wrong but once Derrick married Jill, doesn't Jim Bob hand over his fatherly umbrella to Derrick? It looks to me like Jim Bob wants to hold all the umbrellas in everyone life, single or married. That's makes him look stingy. He's not interested in passing on the umbrella to the new husbands. What a jerk. And another thought I have - when Jim Bob passes away, Michelle gets everything, bor vice versa, and it's not until Jim Bob and Michelle are both deceased that the kids will inherit 1/19th of all assets. By the time they both croak, 1/19th of whatever they have left might not be worth the wait. The kids are staying loyal so they don't get kicked out of the Will and that's just as greedy, or stingy, as their dad. Those two might live another 40-50 years. Money is the root of all evil and for such a Bible-following family (wink, wink), you'd think they would not be so concerned about that stupid Will. I'm not sure I would believe Jim Bob when he says his Will states all kids will receive equal parts. I would not be surprised to hear he is actually giving his assets to a Bill Gothard Charity of some sort. And while I'm typing this, it occurred to me that those of us who are following this goofy family, will probably be dead and gone long before we ever get to see the Will get read and his assets divided up.

[msdeb]

JB wasn’t complying with the order to produce that the lawyer sent to get the contract. My guess is that Michelle talked him into it and she delivered it personally before he changed his mind.

[lorrmurrcoch]

Michelle has to be "joyfully available" (sexually) for her husband regardless of how many children she has and how hard she worked that day. JB wants sex, so she must obey and be joyful about it. If my S.O. expected sex when I didn't feel like it, that would be the end of our relationship!

[andibea]

The man goes by the name Jim Bob. How much more do we need to know?

[MS-qfhc]

NDA for the rest of ur life? The worst father on earth.

[simplydanlrene]

Those children who are adults now need to study the Bible. It says
Genesis 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
They are no longer held control of by their father or mother.

[catherinezigler]

Of course, the quote from the Bible is, "the LOVE of money is the root of all evil", 1 Timothy 6:10. It's virtual always misquoted like this!

[GalacticTE]

Jim Bob reminds me of my abusive dad, had to have full control over everyone all the time

[voniarichardson]

What interesting is the way Jill was brought up!!
She was brought up in a family that believed in the order of: GOD, Husband/Father, Eldest Son, Wife/Mother, the offsprings!
So Jill found a man who believed in God like her family, he wasn’t raised in the same beliefs, but he was Godly. What JB didn’t understand, that if you allow Godly people from outside your community (IlBg) then things are not going to go in the direction that you had hoped. Derrick didn’t want a slave baby producing wife. He wanted a godly partner. He allowed his wife to experience life and grow. So why is JB so upset? Jill is doing things that HER HUSBAND is ok with. Jill is ‘following’ her husbands lead as she was trained too do. I just LOVE that Derrick (and I can say the same for Jeremy and Jinger ) he is leading her to live a wonderful and freeing life!!

[melaniemcgee]

I wish Michelle would speak up. She needs to know she can still respect her husband and polity disagree. These are her children too.