Boyfriend Is Investigating My Family's Finances Because I Hid How Wealthy We Are r/Relationships

Relationship Reddit Stories, OP who has been dating her boyfriend Mike for three months, kept her family’s wealth private to avoid making him uncomfortable due to his less fortunate background. Mike learned about her family’s financial situation during a dinner and felt upset, thinking she should have been more open and could have helped him with things like gas money. Afterward, Mike started researching her family’s finances, which she found invasive and irrelevant to their relationship. Now, she’s wondering if she should have been more upfront about her family’s wealth from the start.

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[Avoidnow]

You’re juniors in high school who have dated for 3 months, the only thing you need to share is when you’re free to go for a meal or the cinema. You bonded over video games. The BF is entitled in a way that is unsettling.

[BbiBbii]

“I’m not asking for handouts”
*Proceeds to get mad OP didn’t hand out money*
🤦‍♀️

[HoneyBakedHamlet]

And they are only - **checks notes**
KIDS.. and only dating for three months.
Wow.

[elsaflood]

You are 17, he is 16 dating for 3 months and he expected you to help him out because your family is rich?? Girl, slow down....he is nothing but a high school boyfriend . He is not the one. Not yet. Not at your age.

[sapphoslips]

Lots of respect for the mom, who held her daughter accountable for injuring and being heartless about the senior dog. Very relieved to hear her daughter has been reported and other dogs are being being protected from landing up with the daughter. The father is debilitating his daughter severly. He needs help to understand the damage he is doing. Kudos to OP for standing her ethical ground amidst such a storm. Psychological illness need treatment, and as long as the patient is potentially harmful to others, others need to be protected from the potential harm.
Hope OP's daughter and husband get the psychological treatment and support they need, and hope OP gets a break and life is easier for her. She deserves a nice holiday!

[TheScaletIbisNW]

"Can we not be insane for two seconds?" I don't know, Markee. You're asking a lot of reddit.

[kemhug]

Is this an old story? *before listening *
Tis *after listening *
Oh *after looking at length of video *
My fault, I see Markee and click.

[bonnie.f]

1:29:19 When my parents told me at age 5 that my youngest sibling was going to be a girl, I was devastated. I'm the 2nd of 4 children, and I wanted to be the youngest girl and have my youngest sibling be another little brother so there would be 2 boys and 2 girls. Well, fast-forward 30 years and my youngest sibling came out as trans. And I told him that I knew it all along because that was what I really wanted 😂 We had a good laugh about it. I love my 2 brothers and older sister.

[JMac]

STORY 1: And this is why you never put people who helped you or helped others on a pedestal. Because it could be a cover for a more dubious or sinister character. OP was wearing rose colored glasses when it came to his brother. Guarantee, there were signs that the wife & the brother were having an affair, but due OP idolizing & fully trusting his brother, he likely over looked them

[materhead]

Are you serious?!?!?!!?! 1:32:15
She can't be trusted with animals This breaks my heart!!!
I'm glad she has social anxiety. She needs to be kept away from people too!

[ethnedragon]

As a woman who still has my gen 1 Transformers and Star Wars toys? I wept for the OP who's ex GF and MIL stole his collection. Absolutely the fuck not.

[ceciliacalvin]

Story 1: your family finances are none of his business.

[SCUBASUEReynard]

Wait she is 16 years old and working . She is not rich her parents have worked and earned everything they have. It is not as if they inherited the money. Yes he is asking for hand outs. If he couldn’t reason it out. He is an idiot. Now he is stalking the family. She is not pampered her family allows he to work. He has no idea what might happen if the business goes south. This is a life lesson. No you never ask people for money.Especially folks your dating or their family. My brother had a girl friend who when he brought her home took a look at my parents home and said I guess you’re a keeper. You come from money. Ya she wanted him to buy her a dress to accompany him as a plus one to a family wedding. We all were astonished so opened up our closets with prom and wedding dresses we had worked and payed for our selves. She went to the wedding in a dress he did not want to buy her because it was overly sexy for a family wedding. But I DID CATCH HER flirting with a taller, well dressed cousin of ours. And I believe my brother left her . When she wouldn’t leave and he had to work early the next day. Another sister took the then drunk X home and dumped her. She called and called her picked up and said who? No I don’t know you I don’t want to know you never call again.

[corynorris]

Not about the money? About the trust? The trust fund, that's what he meant.

[nilianstroy]

For someone not after handouts his argument is mostly about how she could have helped him with expenses... lol

[Theaissu]

LMAO, an 8 year-old car is not that old. All my cars have been from the 90’s

[kristlthompson]

I love Markee compilations. There’s usually a story or two I haven’t heard, but I get to listen to a nice voice while doing other thing while knowing that I won’t miss much and get pleasantly surprised with those I haven’t heard yet.

Thanks Markee!

[ZombieSazza]

Story 6: he constantly stole money from OP and was financially abusive, refused to parent at all and didn’t care about helping OP, OPs own mother removed her from her will, constantly neglecting his child, drinking constantly, probably cheating, he made OP and her baby homeless… OP, why are you still with him? This is horribly depressing, you refuse to stand up for yourself, have allowed this man to destroy your families trust in you, refuse to advocate for your child. Sometimes it’s better to be single than stay in a relationship like this that actively destroys you and will destroy any chance of your child having a healthy life. Put your child first!!!

[origamisteve]

Story 5: OPs sister getting mad that she wouldn't do the "small task" of being her surrogate, just blew my mind. Being pregnant is NEVER just a "small task!" In addition to that, OP even offered to donate her eggs which she didn't need to do. That was a more than fair compromise.

Edit: After hearing what Op's sister explained involving her husband.... just no. The sister needs to divorce him. Bringing a child into a family like that is wrong. 100% neither of them is ready to be parents and any child they raise will likely develop psychological issues from their abuse.

[toxicdotaep]

the commenter accusing OP of thinking the bf is a gold digger has net 0 reading comprehension. bro they're kids her parents money isn't hers lmao