My Teacher Has a Crush on Me

In freshman year of highschool, which was not too long ago, I had a very special teacher. he would call me after class to talk to me about things going on in school. At first I thought he was just being friendly and kind like any teacher would be with their students. Then I started noticing that he had a sort of liking for me that he didn't have for any of the other students in class.

When I first mentioned it to my best friend, Kate, she said I was crazy and that I was just looking for someone as “hot” as him to lend me some attention. Kate was just joking around, but I was being completely serious. There was something wrong with this teacher. He was being way too friendly.

I found I was right when one day after class he got closer to me physically. Obviously I wasn't comfortable, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt and went with it. I didn't tell anyone after that day and that's when things started getting worse. He would start getting gradually closer and more touchy-feely than I was okay with. This time when I mentioned this to Kate she actually believe me and told me that I should report him.

My moral problem with reporting him was that he was a very nice teacher in class and I didn't want to ruin his career with one small scandalous behavior. I believe that people are good inside and sometimes they make bad decisions. A lot of people don't give others the chance to make things right and just rat them out. It simply jeopardises the chance of putting things right. I'm the kind of person who is willing to give someone a chance.

I should have realized long time ago that things would not get better and this teacher was just holding up a facade. in class he would start giving me looks and other students were noticing. They confronted me about it casually. For the sake of the teacher I couldn't say anything and just denied it.

The more time passed the more I realize that it was ridiculous how much I was hiding for this teacher. He never asked me to do such thing, but he was definitely getting to me, because why else would it feel wrong to report him? I’m not that nice of a person. He got under my skin.

As the year went on things started getting real. We’d be in his classroom every other day, you know, probably to not be suspicious. This attachment he had towards me started branching outside of school. He guilted me into letting him drop me off home. He did this so often that I actually started to believe it was normal. Near the end of freshman year, this 30-year old man started physically clinging to me.

He caressed me in his classroom and told me he didn’t want the summer to come. He couldn’t handle two months without seeing my face. Me being the coward I am, didn’t freak out and leave. I rolled with it. He took me to drop me off home that day, but instead of going in the direction of my house, he started driving in a different way. I asked him where he was going and he said, “my place”. Why didn’t I get it then? I should have banged on the door to get someone’s attention. He’s still in my life. Taken full control of me. He has the world’s biggest crush on me and I just can’t give back those feelings to him. I’m 17 and he’s 33. It just doesn’t work out.


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[ellaxoxx]

If a teacher calls you outside of school it’s weird

[sierrabaker]

You should tell the principal. It's truly a illegal for a teacher to have a relationship with a minor.

[szaiyee]

She needs to tell him, or report him. She’s leading him on.

[ovrwhlm]

I’m sorry but was i this only one who heard her say “freshman” then say she was 17?

[Mc_GGextra]

How many punches he gets





(I hope it's 1000 because he deserves

[upliftedjw]

He’s grooming and manipulating u. Be careful and report now

[kemarw.williams]

Lol you should warn him. If him continue just report him.

[misakiayuzawa]

Report him.
I was sexually assukted by my teacher in 11th grade. He would just stroke my hair and touch my thighs at first but I thought maybe it is by mistake. Then once he grabbed my cheast and i knew it was not an error. My mom fired him the very day and i was saved.

[Mc_GGextra]

Report him





(It's not okay)







(It's for your own good)






( HE IS TO






🚫💏🚫💑

[vintageparisdollanna]

"It was so u- un comf- uncomfortable"

[yeni]

Don’t let a selfish creep ruin your high school experience. It is ok to honor your boundaries over someone else’s desires.

[addison]

I'm watching this the day after my teacher got arrested for the same thing

[Nia-obtc]

Girl you need to report him. Your just leading him on and your probably on months away from turning 18 so imagine what he could do on the last day of school or your rides to your house with him as an adult.

[RealStoryAnimatedForYou]

No you are wrong because you have not report the principal about him from the beginning. Nothing named because he is a good person from the inside I will let him do what he wants with me. Even if a good person has to bear the result of action. He knows he's doing something wrong. Don't leave it unpunished so you don't do it with someone else. Even if his job is destroyed. He must take responsibility for his actions. It's not your fault that he thinks you're so pretty. He is thinking of you this way. The teacher should not think about how hot this student is

[bread_bear]

"Not doing anything wrong" girl, he LITERALLY kidnapped you. Report him, and transfer

[saloosahernandez]

I would like to put this here under anonymity as I tried to look for a place, but had nowhere else. I've been trying to find a place where I might be understood and my problems heard. In sophomore year I had a teacher who was mid-40s. I realized his weird behavior beginning of year. He stared at me a lot, all the time. In class, wherever I sat, he stared. I walked out of class once when it was just me there after class and looked back, and he was already looking at me, with a finger on his lip and a look that told me there was something else there. I was also a very bad student, I roasted him and spoke against him and made fun of him and was a B student, but he never got mad at me ever. Always laughed it off, smiled at me, etc. Other A students got him mad for doing much less. He stared at me outside of class too, in the hallways. Anywhere I was where he was, he would stare at me. And smile, and say hi, when he never did that with anyone else. My 7th period was a class right next to his, and my teacher would often leave the door open, so he would leave his class with his students and walk by my door and ALWAYS look at me. Lock eyes with me, no matter what. When I had his class, he would never leave the room with us. I made fun of him for slipping on water and kept roasting him for it and he always laughed and smiled about it. He always stood near me, wherever I would look in the classroom, he would walk over to that end and stand there, and then change to another position when I would shift my gaze. I finally decided to bring his behavior up to an assistant principal because it worrird me, and nothing was done. No one believed me or the ones that did did not care. I even brought it up to my own parents and they didn't think it was serious enough and got mad at me for reporting it, my sister too, and said I could ruin an innocent man's career. Everyone shamed me and ostracized me for reporting him when I thought it made me feel better and more safe. I spent an entire year with him treating me like this; other people noticed it, they told me they did, and no one did anything. I felt so alone, so isolated, like it was just me and him in the building even though we were surroundrd by a school of people. I left that high school and homeschooled, finally sending him an email about the way he made me feel and that I hated him (he was also a jerk and an awful person). Again, no one understood me for sending the email. My dad even told me it was normal for the teacher to be attracted to me, that it was NATURE. No one was there for me except for my sister, my only light in the dark. I was hoping to find comfort in some anonymous people on the internet who could console me or at least relate to me if they've been through something similar, because since I've never gotten the proper support I needed when I was going through this I still feel like I'm traumatized. I remember and feel like it was just yesterday when it was many months ago. I would appreciate anyone's advice who has been through something similar, please💕💕

P.s. I'm sorry for how long this was. Truly. But I needed to let it all out, and right now I don't feel like I can get a therapist.

[jasminelall]

REPORT!!!! What are u waiting That he shud be more Frank with u?

[drunkunicorn]

This was my high school fantasy. Never happened to me, though.

[purplepenguin_yt]

Yea it's totally normal for a teacher to call a student after school. Smh.

[karenmurray]

No teacher should be doing that to a student.