Excuse the green appearance! Processing a tan over here 🫶🏼

[kristinaberry]

“Gerald is sick of you! You’ve become a nothing.” 😂

[vbranchine]

The funniest thing about all of this is that as we start turning our attention inward and learning to value ourselves, there comes a moment when it all clicks. And naturally, we realize that our obsession with him doesn’t even exist anymore—and that he’s not all that we thought he was.

We do all of this for him, but in the end, we come out healed, and he no longer holds the same significance in our lives.

We may have started with the wrong reason: him. But the outcome is freeing. In the end, we find ourselves—and often realize he was never worth as much as we once believed.

[maggief]

Be obssessed with yourself. I cancelled his last min plans to go to the gym and I feel incredible😂😂😂😂

[nicolem]

This is so true! I was that girl even after 20 years of marriage. One day I said enough. I lost 50 lbs, hair done, nails done and just started doing me. He’s obsessed lol

[OwesomePrincess]

It's a formula to not be codependent on people in your life overall . Switching your focus on YOU actually will cure most of your problems and pain points in your life .

[FZAChannel]

Man what a smart woman !! Everyone needs a sister like her.

[bluesun]

I'm so thankful. I was panicking about him not texting, your videos saved me yesterday. I'm cool now, chill, and can focus on important tasks. Didn't bug him all day and he texted 😊 Also, instead of his picture on my screen, i put mine 😊thank you 💎💗

[eugenie]

Girl your advice is a ten/ten from heaven and logic to this earth. Your babygirl can be incredibly grateful for your advice when she is a young lady.

[Michaela-rx]

It is true. When i started dating my ex boyfriend, i was obssesed with myself, i just did what i wanted, was so happy, didnt think of what he was doing or thinking, i did think of him lovingly, but not what he is doing when he was not around. I didnt ask him what he was doing, anything like that. He was obssesed with me and treated me like a princess. Then i started to focus on him, what he was doing, thinking, not doing very much for myself and he behaved differently to me. Thank you for reminding me.

[kv]

"Gerald is sick of you." 🤣🤣 The way she phrases things... 😂🤣

[Take_a_Hike_with_Me]

You're the sort of woman that every other woman could really use as a bestie! I feel so confident after I watch your videos!

[alfrhm]

You're so intelligent and highly comical😂 thank you!

[empressgeorgena]

THANK YOU! This is exactly what I do, suddenly everyone and their daddy wants to get a hold of me! 😂❤️‍🔥

[laviniaasofiei]

Put yourself 1st. If you value yourself, he will have no choice but to follow the path and value you as well 😉

[Jotique]

Understood thank you because I was making myself sick worrying about him.. now I understand the mirror work... you have a new student

[NeverLookBackSamurai]

REALLY wish I'd gotten this advice when I was in my early 20s. Would've saved me a decade of heartache.

[sharekastarks]

I love margarita she be cracking me up sometimes 😂

[Thinkpositive]

Listening to you has made me feel more confident. Thank you

[sandraotero]

Thank you so much for your advice, you are teaching this codependent a whole lot about how to detatch and attach back to the self. ❤

[katelynrowley]

I’m obsessed with you girl. You’re so beautiful and helpful. You’re so real with me and I needed this today. Thank you. 😅💗 Slapped me in the face saying the things I need to hear.