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[quathetruth]

Ladies don’t be hard on yourselves! A lot of men are broken and they clearly don’t hVe the capacity to accept love from a woman. He could very well love you and have deep feelings but doesn’t attach out of fear. Not all men but most of them need therapy and tools to trust again. If he isn’t healed you won’t be happy at all.

[MybabyboyIra]

I dont trust words much not even actions. I trust patterns.

[susanclaire]

My current boyfriend has NEVER made me doubt for a second that he is "into" me. He's attentive, caring, and consistent to a degree unmatched by any other man I've dated. Hang in there ladies, there are still good men out there!

[Amanda-cyil]

These videos make me want to be okay with being alone forever.

[juliadarling]

"If a man sees a future with a woman, he will treat her well"..there's Brian's work summed up in one phrase. It's THAT easy.

[raquelkutsch]

It’s not what a man says it’s what he does. Do his actions make me feel what I need to feel or do his actions instill doubt, confusion, mixed messages….how do I want to feel….

[AFAskygoddess]

*Love gives. Lusk takes.*
If you feel emotionally drained when being around someone, that's your cue that this isn't a good relationship. You're just this person's emotional and/or physically "supply" that they'd replace in a heartbeat when a better offer appears. Thank you for the dog analogy. It's perfect 🥰

[bvmuomu]

There are people, though, who grow up in dysfunctional homes and who develop destructive behaviors that prevent them from having healthy relationships which has nothing to do with "destiny".

[ruthwells]

If you don’t know how a man feels about you-LEAVE HIM ALONE!!! If someone likes interested or cares for you, there will be no doubts or confusion because they will tell you. Chaos and confusion = GAMES BEING PLAYED!!!! That’s it that’s ALL

[GilliMarieMoody]

Thanks. Respectfully, I think it’s normal for women (and men) to want ongoing proof of interest in a relationship, not out of insecurity. My Dad is a loner, but regularly shows Mom how much he cares.
Cheers.

[dawn]

Actions speak louder than words. Words are good, but if there are never any actions, words mean nothing. If you never feel respected, loved, cared for or protected, then words are meaningless.

[catche]

This was such a great reminder. I have been wondering if a person has feelings for me but you're right... if he's the right guy, he will be naturally sufficiently motivated and there isn't any need to think about it. The chips will fall where they may.

[mistydumont]

This was exactly what I needed to hear today. I am trying so hard to break out of a toxic relationship and have no intention of taking it with me into the new year. Thank you for this wonderful and helpful message. ❤️

[som]

Treating someone well should not only depend on having a future with that person.Treating someone well is a person's nature.A good natured person will treat people well in general.Not only on the basis of having a future with that person.
Ofcourse they probably will be extra attentive towards the person that they like.

[kalluralove]

Twenty-four years. That’s how long it’s taken me to realize that I’m not wrong to be unhappy in this relationship 😢

[gtorr]

Beautiful message, Brian. Even if his feelings are deep, if he consistently hurts you with thoughtless words and actions, the relationship will probably not work. Yes, communication is key, but sometimes people just don't want to change. Let them be.

[martikurtz]

I agree with your points completely. I was in a short term relationship that continually left me feeling unimportant and unvalued. I broke ties with that person and now just started dating someone who makes effort, is in close communication and treats me so well. How the other person made me feel about myself was the big clue and not what I want for my life! thank you

[danicajovanovic]

Recently I broke up with my boyfriend. This was the shortest relationship I have ever had. Why: dating is easy, we are the ones who makes it difficult. When someone is not all over us, we crave the attention from that person because of our own ego. Why would you even be into a person who is not into us that much? If he never shows interests in you totally avoiding to see your value: why would you even invest your time to choose someone who is not good at seeing the real opportunities ? He would be bad at it further in or without a relationship. So, that person is not that smart as you think now.

[Alden]

Trust your destiny. Trust and listen to your instincts, Ladies. We know when things feel “off” and are missing the mark in terms of what is right for our well-being. Another excellent video. Thank you, Brian.

[geeem]

Ultimately it's about someone's actions. How they treat u on a daily basis. It's about consistency as well. They can tell u whatever but if their actions don't match their words for the most part, you know the answer. I say for the most part cuz no one is perfect and ppl screw up at times. Just look at the bigger picture and you'll have your answer. Be honest and refrain from making excuses for that person.