Reichian Characterology #4 - The Dreamer

[MCSoulSelf]

So interesting. Great explanations on all of these characters.

[Micro.Movement]

"we create an elevated self image of our self in our prefrontal cortex." - this is gold mate!!
thanks for the detailed breakdown.

[anistristan]

Took your test. Got 43% controller, 26% rigid, 13% schizoid, 13% oral and 4% endurer.

[K-A]

Thought I was an Oral type, but realize now Im a 110% Dreamer type. Damn, every single thing you said here was absolutely true for me. Even the way Im healing is all the ways youve said.

Im taking the bioenergetics journey, ! The heroes journey

[mikevanbasten]

You have a light green aura Dev. Thanks for the video!

[heartwisdomlove]

thank you for posting this !!!
i really appreciate it !!!

[elifromtheblacksea]

Dear Devaraj, thank you for sharing this interesting and useful information. I have a question: is it possible someone to be a certain type but not expressing the physical structure? Particularly is it possible to be dreamer (leaving) type but having overweight and struggling not to gain more weight?

[jibberer]

Yup, see a lot of myself in this one as well! I think I'm an oral-endurer-dreamer with delusions of being a phalic narcissist lol. I wonder how much post-natal depression in the mother could be a cause of this? It often kicks in before birth and can lead to quite intense almost rejection like behavior from the mother even with a much loved child. In fact I imagine even the brutal reality of early parenting for a lot of people could lead to this.

[seeling_liebe]

This is me, fits perfectly.
Are there some specific bioenergetic postures for this type?

[Mrcba]

Jesus Christ! Ya got me good. Scary really. Thank you.

[heartwisdomlove]

arrogance = inferiority & superiority complex

keeping real feelings a secret is a form of isolation thus wearing a mask which keeps their positive qualities hidden

we all need physical touch and being held

also the inter personal bridge of loving communication is most vital

disassociation is also called splitting

some aspects of the dreamer type reminds me of the “misfit”

hyper vigilance due to chronic post traumatic stress from the trauma of being beaten as a child ( and when molested threatened they will be killed if they tell anybody )

core energetics teachings by John Pierrakos is very helpful

rebirthing breathwork and holotrophic breathwork is too controlled and hyper and ritualized and actually causes the etheric body ( spirit breath ) to separate from the body and over expand the aura which doesn’t heal the reality of the trauma and only continues the habit of separating spiritually ( I did both of these types of breath work before I met my teacher who has studied with John Pierrakos and I learned a totally relaxed surrendered breath where I’m not controlling the breath at all and then I had to practice really being present feeling and receiving my feelings and anyway I just want to say that the holotrophic breath work is really dangerous as it can cause you to not connect with your feelings in your body receiving your feelings more consciously in your body for healing (for many years) it causes way too much of a separation of our spiritual breath (our Lungta) known as the “wind horse” in Tibetan Buddhism

I cannot stress enough the reality of learning a totally relaxed breath experience with no ritualization no hyper breathing practices that are done in rebirthing and all the holotrophic and shamanic breath work (and also done in kundalini yoga pranayama and sudarshan kriyas) I have done every type of breath work and it was continually keeping me from feeling and receiving in my body the way we are supposed to be able to experience our breath and our connection with our feelings and not in a separation where we’re feeling outside of our body and only receiving energy (feelings are deeper than energy and energy is only 30% of a feeling ; which is the frequency of our mind

therefore when we use our mind to control our breath we’re only going to stay in the upper higher frequencies and we need the spiritual blessings of our spirit lining up with our physical body by feeling and receiving our feelings ; our Spirit is love and love is a feeling thus our feelings have more density and gravity and more love and safety and healing as our feelings are deeper than energy )

to feel grounded and safe we need to feel and receive our feelings in our body. the rebirthing type of breath and the holotrophic breathwork takes us way out of our body and into trance states that over time takes us into our intellect which is completely devoid of any feelings at all