5 Reasons Why INTJs Have Very Hard Lives

5 Reasons Why INTJs Have Very Hard Lives

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[EternityUnknown]

We understand emotions, we just need a lot of internal justification to endulge the emotion.

[LeonardPC]

because people hate intelligence it hurts their little feelings

[kanariakana]

Intj here... People would describe me as someone who is emotionless. But inside I'm suffering... it's just sometimes I can't express things normally like others would 😔

[MikeScott]

INTJ here. While I used to be bad with emotions, it got better over time. I still don’t empathize certain emotions, but I understand WHY people feel/act a certain way. I simply don’t feel the same way. The rest of this list is spot-on for me.

[MultiBalto]

INTJ- It's not overthinking it's just thinking, even if it's a lot it's still just thinking.

[code_jestn]

As an INTJ, i recommend journaling, trust me it helps in every aspect.

[JNETHollyday]

I'm seeing a theme of INTJs being socially awkward or not good with emotions.

Personally, I find going straight to the deep end of the pool and being myself, I filter out the shallow people and make them be the socially awkward ones :) And I think INTJs can be very good with emotions, they pick and choose which ones are useful. They don't get swept away and join collective thinking and feelings. Everything is on purpose.

[missbealovesalbert]

I'd rather dig ditches than be stuck in stupid office politics and gossip. It's like high school round 2.

As a female INTJ it's especially horrid- because I'm not bubbly, social, outgoing, etc. Your choices are either exhaustion from pretending all the time or, you are just hated from "go".

[runcmt]

As an INTJ I found networking and office politics difficult. It definitely limited my career. I did work very hard on social skills and emotional intelligence. I just did not want to do networking after work. I wanted to go home and recharge. I also wanted to focus on projects at work and not dirty games to get ahead. I for sure struggled with many bosses.

[ChoiReim]

The amount of times people get angry at me saying “you think you’re so smart?!” “You’re not the only smart one here!” As if I didn’t teach them math, English, and book their flight tickets 💀💀 sit the fuck down. I’m not sorry my rational thinking hurts your feelings. There is a reason you come to me to fix your problems.

[anneliu]

C-suite executive and INTJ-A here. It took me over a decade to deliberately train my INTJ 🧠 to intentionally connect with other personalities. Not easy in my younger years. But, INTJ is a very intelligent group. Critical thinking comes naturally. We learn fast and deliver mastery at work. Use our unique strengths 💪 INTJs can do it! 🥰💜

[Solitarius]

Feelings feelings feelings feelings. Give me a break.

[milenasovic]

I wish people could understand that I don't care about their personal lives, emotions, or opinions. I don't want to be disturbed, I don't want people to touch me, I don't want to talk about my feelings (I rarely have ones, to be honest). It's not that I am cold-hearted, it's just that I am not interested. I'm not lonely, I'm fine. Pretending to be interested in other people's lives causes me physical pain.
I don't even have a doorbell on my door, so random people can not disturb me. When I drive UBER, I have a sign on the seat that I don't speak English, so I don't have to answer stupid questions like: "How are you?" or talk about the weather.

[kauffrau]

I needed to hear this. I’ve been in a “what’s wrong with me” phase lately. Oh, now I remember, INTJ. It takes me back to the first time I took the Mbti in psychology class. I couldn’t believe it, there actually is a description of my existence! It took the pressure off me to fit in or adjust.

[johnjapuntich]

We try to solve relationship issues/emotional conflicts with logic...This almost always ends badly.

[pinkacademiagirll]

People use you when you are vulnerable. Even when I'm not being vulnerable and I just showcase my intelligence in front of the class with all my might, I was met with a glare and I even heard someone told in the back "Don't mind her. We can use her sooner". Crazy how these people think I can't hear them and how they think I'll accept being taken advantaged. In their motherfooking dreams lol

[claybowser]

I'd much rather have trouble expressing my emotions than have my emotions do all my expressing 😂

[angelbulldog]

We INTJ women are more rare than chicken lips and snake hips. I grew up in a houseful of men. I'm very left-brained. Women just don't get how I function from my brain (logic and common sense) and not my mushy-gushy feelings. I can't even bear to be around that attitude!

[dansketch]

My life is hard not because my personality. My life is hard because I was born poor and physically handicapped. I had emotions as another kids do. But then I learn emotions didn't help you solve your problems, logic does. Personality is not 100% upbringing. It develops through your life. At the end, personality is just reaction to your past experiences.